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Marnieworld (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 10:32 AM Original message |
I'm married but still in love with someone else. Advice? |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 10:33 AM Response to Original message |
1. What happened that he is no longer in your life and that you |
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Marnieworld (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 10:39 AM Response to Reply #1 |
6. we were young |
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Demonaut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 11:40 AM Response to Reply #6 |
30. in love with a memory of good times, if you didnt |
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Marnieworld (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 12:08 PM Response to Reply #30 |
32. I recognized him by his shoulders |
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MichaelHarris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 10:35 AM Response to Original message |
2. are you my |
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Marnieworld (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 10:47 AM Response to Reply #2 |
9. Nope not your ex |
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MichaelHarris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 10:54 AM Response to Reply #9 |
13. you shouldn't |
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Pale Blue Dot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 10:37 AM Response to Original message |
3. Something is missing from your marriage. |
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Marnieworld (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 10:46 AM Response to Reply #3 |
8. What's missing? hmmm |
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mac56 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 10:39 AM Response to Original message |
4. Generally I find |
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djeseru (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 10:39 AM Response to Original message |
5. 16 year marriage... |
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Tardisian (151 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 10:46 AM Response to Original message |
7. Your first love... |
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Marnieworld (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 10:54 AM Response to Reply #7 |
12. how bout both |
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eyesroll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 10:48 AM Response to Original message |
10. I think it's common |
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Screaming Lord Byron (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 10:50 AM Response to Original message |
11. Don't beat yourself up over it. |
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bushisanidiot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 10:55 AM Response to Original message |
14. Maybe you need closure on that relationship |
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Marnieworld (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 11:03 AM Response to Reply #14 |
16. Yes! Closure! |
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Paradise (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 11:02 AM Response to Original message |
15. It's an "illusion", and will disappear, eventually. n/t |
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Marnieworld (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 11:04 AM Response to Reply #15 |
17. You're probably right |
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Paradise (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 11:09 AM Response to Reply #17 |
21. Yup! :) n/t |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 11:06 AM Response to Original message |
18. I love my wife dearly, but... |
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mac56 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 11:09 AM Response to Reply #18 |
20. "Euphoric recall", they call it. |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 11:07 AM Response to Original message |
19. are you sure you are not yearning for a simpler time? |
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2Design (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 11:13 AM Response to Original message |
22. you are romancing the past because you want to fill a hole in you |
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Marnieworld (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 11:32 AM Response to Reply #22 |
28. Actually my life has never been better |
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bif (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 11:13 AM Response to Original message |
23. I can totally relate. |
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Marnieworld (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 11:18 AM Response to Reply #23 |
25. Thanks for sharing this |
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bif (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 12:33 PM Response to Reply #25 |
38. Yep. |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 11:17 AM Response to Original message |
24. Figure this out and be honest with yourself. |
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Marnieworld (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 11:28 AM Response to Reply #24 |
27. thank you |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 12:17 PM Response to Reply #27 |
35. As far as the "secret friend" concept. |
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Marnieworld (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 12:49 PM Response to Reply #35 |
39. You're right! You're right! |
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jukes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 11:26 AM Response to Original message |
26. Marnieworld |
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histohoney (584 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 11:34 AM Response to Original message |
29. Romancing the past |
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TexasBushwhacker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 11:50 AM Response to Original message |
31. Force yourself to not think about him? |
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never cry wolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 12:09 PM Response to Original message |
33. I know where you are coming from |
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Marnieworld (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 12:14 PM Response to Reply #33 |
34. the long and winding road |
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never cry wolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 12:25 PM Response to Reply #34 |
36. As some above have said, you may need closure |
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never cry wolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 12:25 PM Original message |
oops, triple post |
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never cry wolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 12:25 PM Response to Reply #34 |
37. Never had that happen before |
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mongo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-30-04 12:51 PM Response to Original message |
40. I've been married 3 times |
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