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sasquatch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-03-03 12:35 AM
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My antisocial house cat is in bed asleep with me
Maisy my antisocial beer drinking house cat is in bed asleep with me. She only likes males for some reason:shrug: I'm surprised she usually doesn't like anyone, does anyone else have antisocial pet?
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Systematic Chaos Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-03-03 12:42 AM
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1. My wife's two cats....
They're brothers, Siamese and British shorthair mix. One of them, named Tristan, is mostly white with grey patches, looks very much like a Siamese, and is very shy and reserved. He meows like a kitten every once in a while to be petted and LOVES to jump up on the bathroom sink when we're at the sink or in the shower, but 99% of the time he is off by himself. Never comes to visit us in bed or anything.

The other brother, Calis, is about 80% black with white only on his belly and paws. He looks like the British shorthair but acts totally Siamese. He loves to meow incessantly and is a complete pig for attention. And best of all, he will put up with almost limitless teasing and abuse for our entertainment. :) No, when I said "abuse" I didn't mean hurting him in any way. Chill out! Jeez....
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sasquatch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-03-03 01:10 AM
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4. She meows like a kitten also
but, she meows very rarely to anyone in the house except me and my brother. When she does it is because she wants to be petted:hug:
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Don_G Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-03-03 12:48 AM
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2. Me...But She's Shy
She's been dumped twice that I know of; an uncaring B***h that abandon her when the wind chill was 25 below and the second time by my Mom when she died.

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Systematic Chaos Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-03-03 12:54 AM
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3. Oh, poor thing!
Here in my apartment we already have my wife's two cats and mine, which is one more than the management company technically allows. Yet, we're seriously thinking of adopting this cute orange stray that used to belong to one of the neighbors but the little girl that lives there one day told my wife: "My father made me get rid of him because he wouldn't stop peeing on the couch." I assume she was talking about the cat and not her father, but I digress.

When he first came running up to me it was one of those horrid 115 degree days we had in late July and he was so skinny his ribs were poking out and he was probably dehydrated. We've been feeding him some old Science Diet food that we had but had to quit giving our cats in lieu of a prescription formula for urinary tract infections. He still has to stay outside, at least until we can get him to a vet and be sure he is free of nasty diseases, but in the past few weeks he is looking worlds better. Still skinny but not emaciated like before, and full of life. Friendly as anything and sooooooo cute!

As for the girl's father, I want so badly to call him a f**king idiot to his face and show him how to clean a litter box! :argh:
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Don_G Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-03-03 02:03 AM
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8. I'm A Sucker For A Cute Fur-Bearing Varmit
I'm a millwright and run a construction crew, but she never deserved what life handed her.

Besides, she's teaching me basic concepts like love, compassion and responsibility over and above what my Mom taught me.

I just wish I could teach her NOT to help me type on the computer....
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DoNotRefill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-03-03 01:28 AM
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5. Antisocial? Sounds more like "selective"...
given that she's curled up on you now. If she were antisocial, she'd either be far away, or attacking you.
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sasquatch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-03-03 02:02 AM
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7. Good point
I guess I'm special:P
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Rhiannon12866 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-03-03 01:32 AM
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6. My cat is as anti-social as they come, but it's not her fault
I spotted her outside when my beloved cat Rhiannon had to spend two consecutive nights at the vet's and I missed her so. This cat is also black and I thought it was odd that she always seemed to be around, day or night. I had a bad feeling, so I started leaving food out for her. After the first time, she showed up like clockwork, at the same time everyday.

Afte a few days, she showed up late at night, as well. I was sitting right where I am now, at the computer, and she walked right by the glass door next to me and jumped off the deck. I just knew that she was looking for me because she was probably hungry. I put another can of food into a dish and put it out on the deck. I waited, but she didn't come back.

About 20 minutes later, my two dogs wanted to go out, so I took them out in front, and spotted this cat, hunkered down under the tree, in the place I always left her food, waiting for me. After this, I fed her at night, also.

One evening, I was outside, watching her eat, when my neighbor pulled up and apologized for scaring this cat. She said she was so glad I was feeding this cat because she had, as well. She told me that she believed that the cat had belonged to our neighbor, who had moved. She thought that this cat had gotten away from her, as she had several. I had known this neighbor because I had rescued her dog when he had gotten loose, several times, and she was very grateful. Why didn't she tell me if she had lost a cat?

This was 1 1/2 years ago. I have since borrowed a ``have-a-heart'' trap from a local animal hospital to, finally, bring this kitty inside. I kept thinking she would come around, but she never did. The weather kept getting worse and we had our first snow and I knew I couldn't wait any longer to bring her in. I was a wreck, worrying what might become of her. I just knew I had to do something.

The night I finally trapped her, I couldn't believe my eyes. I had gotten advice from this amazing woman who works with local ferals, often bringing them into her home. She told me that my cat must have belonged to someone, but had ``lost trust.'' I know, now, that she was right.

I finally got her with tuna fish, which she will not eat to this day. I called the animal hospital to tell them that I was bringing her in and I was so freaked out that it took me four times to dial the phone. My neighbor, kindly, drove me to the animal hospital that night and I was so grateful. I was so overwrought I probably would have hit a tree.

My cat has been treated and has long been back home with me. I know now that she was a housecat, left to fend for herself, but she must know she is safe now. I read ``The Stray Cat Handbook'' and sent for articles from ``Alley Cat Allies,'' who manage feral colonies. My cat, who just ran away from me when I stretched out my hand, must know I am not the enemy. I feed her, bring her treats and toys, clean her box and talk to her quietly. She must know by now that she has nothing to fear from me.

Despite all this, she still runs from me. She is happy as an indoor cat again, but is still very afraid of people. She has been through so much, but she must know, by now, that I am okay. She is sitting about ten feet away, under the table, looking at me. Yes, it is time for her canned food. I will get it for her. She has dry food available all the time, plus treats, but has gotten used to her schedule.

I know I have gone on far too long about my half-feral scaredy cat, but I am discouraged. Yes, there is a cat must more anti-social than yours. I am going to get her food now. Good luck to you and any advice to me would be appreciated.:shrug:
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arwalden Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-03-03 06:09 AM
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9. My Sister's Pussy Doesn't Like To Be Touched By Anyone...
... but ALWAYS wants to walk figure-8's around and through your legs. Reach down to touch it and it walks away.

Odd.

-- Allen
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