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Arancaytar Donating Member (249 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 12:46 PM
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Yet another Request for advice on discussing with a Conservative friend
A person who is smart and who is otherwise a good friend of mine considers himself a Compassionate Conservative, and is pro-Bush. We do not usually discuss politics, but he jumps on me every time I post a reference to Bush in a political thread at the board both of us are members of. Like I said, we usually see past this, but recently he asked me in a PM what my problem with Bush was, and so I started a discussion via private message.

I am glad to say that although I disagree strongly with his views, we have both stayed rational up to now. My reason for posting here is that I am in some kind of fix: I see his argument, know it to be wrong, but don't know how to pick it apart and counter it. I do not know any reliable source that he would trust. If I fell to discussing it in a way I knew to be irrational (such as cynicism or ad hominem), I would have effectively lost the discussion (as well as a friend ;) ). If I didn't respond, both of us would think we had insulted the other. If I backed down and either accepted his view or gave up defending mine, I would be dishonest with myself.

So here's his latest reply. Please suggest to me how to respond to this, and perhaps link to (neutral!) sites that can be trusted and that support the counter arguments.


Like you, I do not agree with either candidate, forcing me to support what I see as the lesser evil (which goes against my nature, unfortunately).

It has been proven by people on all sides of the political divide that the actions of the U.S. government have far less of an effect on our economy than is generally believed. Clinton could be blamed for our current problems as much, if not more, than Bush, if one looked at the trends at the end of his term. I tend to avoid accusing either. The economy will heal itself in time, whether Bush or Kerry is president.

As I have probably said before, Iraq and abortion are the two major issues in my mind, and I agree with Bush on both. I believe that we were right to remove Saddam by force, for the very reason that you call Bush's excuse. Saddam's reign was a reign of terror, and many of the "lies" that Bush has told are not, in fact, lies. It is a well-known fact that Saddam possessed and used WMDs, including biological and chemical weapons. It is ridiculous to believe that a leader such as Saddam would use every WMD in his arsenal, leaving himself defenseless (in his own mind). We are now told that Saddam was not seeking nuclear missles - then why did spiteful Iraqi scientists try to discredit us by telling us that they had told Saddam that they were much closer to building an actual nuke than they actually were, to save their own lives and those of the families? The anti-Bush argument that Saddam had no active nuclear program is completely blown away by the facts, and yet it is a widely held belief.

And terrorist ties - nobody seems to realize that al-Qaida is not the only terrorist organization in the Middle East, that there is proof that Saddam was actively aiding at least non-al-Qaida terrorists who would gladly have attacked the U.S. and Israel. But this fact, too, is ignored in the quest to discredit Bush.

Abortion I will leave for another time, but I cannot allow myself to sink so low as to support Kerry in his policies regarding that. It is dangerous to support someone because of who they are not rather than because of who they are, and Kerry, to me, is a prime example of this danger.

I hadn't thought of the Middle East as the "Near East" to Europe, I admit, but to tell you the truth, it doesn't seem to matter. The Atlantic didn't stop al-Qaida on 9/11. Spain and Russia have been attacked; so has Indonesia, so has the U.S., and so have many other countries world-wide; even Japan and South Korea have been attacked indirectly. In today's world, proximity is almost redundant. I will not deny that the U.S. agitation in the Middle East has stirred up terrorism and inspired some attacks that may not have happened otherwise, but what is the alternative? Terrorism existed before 9/11, before Iraq. It had to be taken care of eventually. How better to eliminate (or at least diminish) it than to knock out its footholds, to offer better oppurtunities (which we are trying our hardest to do in Iraq, as a simple Google search will show you)?

We cannot sit back and let such atrocities occur; if we must stick out our necks, and even the necks of our allies, then so be it. The risk of death now is better than sure and unavoidable death later on, you must admit.

Bush did not use this "excuse" as his reason because, simply, the American people do not care enough about humanity to do something for the sake of our foreign brothers and sisters if it does not directly benefit us as well. FDR did the same thing in WWII, with amazing results; Bush is nowhere near as good a president as FDR, and therefore could not do it as effectively. A pity, surely, but Roosevelt is dead, and we must make do with what we have. At least Bush has the resolve to carry it through, unlike Kerry.

...

"Mission Accomplished" was a mistake, surely, but what people seem to forget is that the war is won. The war was to remove (capture or kill) Saddam and defeat his Republican Guard; this has undeniably been accomplished. Sure, the larger mission is an ongoing process - it will be that way for years - but the war is won.

The election scandal was no fault of Bush's, although it may have benefitted him; but, again, most people don't seem to realize that by our democratic republican system, Bush won. As simple as that.

I am as against Fundamentalism as you are, possibly more so because it tarnishes my own image, but I certainly do not think that Bush is a theocrat. Maybe he could back off from the religion in politicas a bit, but again, the republican system is set up to elect a leader and allow him or her to govern us. We knew that Bush was Christian, and that no one can be expected to keep their own personal beliefs out of politics; if America would really suffer from having a Christian leader who actually believes in his religion, which is something I'm questioning more and more in Kerry, then he would not have been elected.

As I've said for years, you cannot clean up a mess without first making it worse. Think of your bookcase - would you be able to reorganize it without first removing everything from the shelves and scattering it on the floor? I know I cannot. Yes, Bush will bring troubles to the world, or more accurately will uncover the world's troubles and expose them to the light so that they can be healed. Bush has the international interventionalist spirit that I respect so much in FDR; unfortunately he is nowhere near as competent in its use, but at least it's there. Kerry is a career politician, no more than a tool to remove Bush from office. I do not want a tool as my leader, possibly the most powerful man in the world.


Reading it gives me a little of a headache, because this is someone I know to be a rational person, not an idiot like most people who support Bush these days. That means that rather than telling him to "fuck off", I will have to face his arguments and discuss it rationally.
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IdaBriggs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 12:54 PM
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1. Is he aware we were attacked on 9/11 because of Bush? nt
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Arancaytar Donating Member (249 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 01:01 PM
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2. He would dismiss that as a conspiracy theory.
And I could not blame him, no matter how much I believe it myself. It is a tough story to swallow, especially when you're pro-Bush in the first place.

If you mean unintentional provokation... I haven't tried to bring that up yet, mostly because I don't have the facts. He may also reject the idea of 'the evil guys' becoming evil through the fault of 'the good guys'. A black&white world view is a horrible thing.

If you have any facts supporting the latter, they'd be a great help.
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IdaBriggs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 02:44 PM
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12. Not a conspiracy theory; unfortunately, we have "facts" --
SUMMARY: Bush dismantled the existing anti-terrorism system in February of 2001; documented HERE --

"President George W. Bush recently signed National Security Presidential Directive-1 (NSPD-1) establishing the organization of the National Security Council under his Administration. Among other things, the document abolishes the previous system of interagency working groups and replaces them with policy coordination committees (PCC)." (From CRS Report for Congress on "Terrorism and the Military's Role in Domestic Crisis Management" http://www.fas.org/irp/crs/RL30938.pdf)

Then the PCCs didn't meet: 9/11 Commission Hearing Transcripts (http://www.9-11commission.gov/hearings/index.htm) because folks were "on vacation."

Here's the "insult to injury' in my mind: Not One Single Person -- including the airport screeners we have on video tape letting the hijackers through the security checkpoints -- have been held accountable or fired. Apparently 19 guys with box cutters are more powerful than our current administration when it comes to protecting our citizens!

Al-Quaida is getting stronger: (http://www.boston.com/news/world/articles/2003/11/21/local_groups_giving_qaeda_strength_analysis_finds?mode=PF)

And they want Bush as President: (http://uk.news.yahoo.com/040317/325/eotq9.html)

The statement said it supported U.S. President George W. Bush in his reelection campaign, and would prefer him to win in November rather than the Democratic candidate John Kerry, as it was not possible to find a leader "more foolish than you (Bush), who deals with matters by force rather than with wisdom."

In comments addressed to Bush, the group said:

"Kerry will kill our nation while it sleeps because he and the Democrats have the cunning to embellish blasphemy and present it to the Arab and Muslim nation as civilisation."

"Because of this we desire you (Bush) to be elected."


The CIA is thinking the incompetence of this administration when it comes to "accidentally" outing our undercover operatives is also a boon for Al-Quaida, but our CIA folks also have some pretty harsh things to say about the way the intelligence they presented was "edited" and "misused"; they have more details on Al-Quaida's positions (and our own intelligence folks) here --

http://www.csmonitor.com/2004/0621/dailyUpdate.html

http://www.salon.com/opinion/conason/2004/09/24/hastert/index.html

And for anyone who DOESN'T want to blame Bush for 9/11 (usually they try to blame Clinton), and there was NOTHING he could do to prevent it, please tell me why we are "safer" now? Did Bush do something different on 9/12 that he couldn't have been doing on 9/10? How about on 9/13? Just when did the President of the United States actually start taking responsibility for our national security? Give me a date, please, and explain what changed? Since 95% of our containers still aren't being inspected, our border crossings are pretty much a joke, I've personally found out how easy it is to get fake identification in New York City, no one has caught the ringleaders of the plot, tried to figure out WHY they went after us (other than that "they hate our freedom" crap, which argument can be dissected by a fifth grader before lunch), and every single guy who this administration has tried to prosecute turns out to be innocent, You Tell ME how things are better? Because we've pissed off more of the world and are using our military guys as "bait?" I don't think so.
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noamnety Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 01:02 PM
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3. He needs some schooling
in BCCI, and Kerry's efforts to prevent terrorism by cutting them off at the knees (money laundering), rather than by bombing innocent civilians.

And he needs some background on the use of focus groups to determine what the american public will or won't buy into as a justification for war, with Bush Sr. using a made up story about babies being torn from incubators by Iraqis, which turned out to be a completely false story put together by a PR firm, as was disclosed aftwards by Frontline.
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el_gato Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 01:13 PM
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5. Hillton & Knowles
I believe
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el_gato Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 01:08 PM
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4. He buys into a falsehood

Bush did not invade Iraq for the benefit of anybody other than the global corporate oligarchy. Remember it was the CIA that backed the Bathists. Saddam began as a puppet of the west. We are in Iraq at this very time to establish garrisons in the middle east not to benefit the Iraqi people. If Saddam was the primary target of this action we would be moving in the direction of withdrawel at this time. Back before the first Gulf War members of Congress were complaining about Saddam's human rights violations and the Reagan and Bush Sr. administrations did not want to hear about it. Bush Sr. defended Saddam's abuses by claiming we had no right to interfere with the internal affairs of a sovereign nation all the while selling weapons to him. So the idea that Saddam terrorizing the Iraqi people is the real excuse for the U.S. invasion is laughable.

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el_gato Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 01:26 PM
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8. A few Links
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johan helge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 01:15 PM
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6. Tell him that this is not an ordinary election
- because of Bush & Co's low level of ethics. Even if he agrees with Bush on (e.g.) Iraq and abortion, he should vote Kerry or not vote. Tell him about the sons of Ronald Reagan and Ike Eisenhower. Tell him that Bush & Co is a threat to the American democracy (see below).

The key problem with this gang is their shamelessness. Some examples:


THEIR PRIORITIES:

- No efforts to limit drug prices (http://www.pkarchive.org/column/112103.html ), and trying to avoid the extension of Medicare to include prescription drugs
(http://www.pkarchive.org/column/031902.html ) - to please their sponsors, drug companies and rich taxpayers.


THEIR METHODS:

- Bending science
(http://www.guardian.co.uk/usa/story/0,12271,1151187,00.... )

- Harassment of opponents
(www.pkarchive.org/column/033004.html )

- Florida 2000
(http://www.buzzflash.com/contributors/2002/04/29_Stolen... )

- Voting machines without a paper trail
(www.pkarchive.org/column/012304.html, http://www.democracyinaction.org/dia/organizations/rush... ) THESE CROOKS ARE A THREAT TO THE AMERICAN DEMOCRACY!!!!!


THEIR PERSONAL CHOICES:

Insider trading:
- Bush himself
(http://www.pkarchive.org/column/070202.html )
- Former secretary of the Army, Thomas White
(http://www.pkarchive.org/column/091702.html )
- Neil Bush
(http://www.cnn.com/2004/ALLPOLITICS/01/01/elec04.neil.b... /)

Corruption:
- Bush himself
(http://www.pkarchive.org/column/071602.html )
- Bush's father
(http://www.pkarchive.org/column/011502.html )
- Cheney and Bush's brothers Marvin, Neil and Jeb
(http://www.nybooks.com/articles/16911 )

- Dodging the draft (http://www.awolbush.com/whoserved.html )


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Mayberry Machiavelli Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 01:19 PM
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7. Has your friend stuck their OWN "neck" out?! By joining the Army
so that some poor sap doesn't have to get stop lossed or deployed a third time to Iraq?

What's all this about "we" sticking our necks out? Where's he sticking his neck out from, an SUV and home in the suburbs? Who's "we" kemosabe?
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el_gato Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 01:35 PM
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9. One more thing: How is Depleted Uranium Contamination fit into it?
Edited on Mon Oct-11-04 01:39 PM by el_gato
does democracy come in the form of Depleted Uraniam?

When these munitions are used they release a fine radioactive dust that is a threat to all who are exposed to it. The Army has a manual on what to do in the case of a soldier being exposed to this dust. Yet absolutely no effort will be made to clean up this mess. If the invasion was anything other than genocide how does your friend address this fact?



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Diogenes2 Donating Member (344 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 01:36 PM
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10. Where to begin with this guy??
He is the type that inundates you with words, using the scattershot method to take up so many talking points at once that it would require a lengthy essay just to refute them.

His rationalization about Bush taking the whole world apart so it can be "reorganized" is so apocalyptic & messianic that I seriously doubt this "reasonable" friend of yours can be reached.

He says he supports Bush's "position" on abortion... which is what? Ban it entirely? How does making your friend's own religious position on this issue the law of the land separate him from the "fundamentalist" viewpoint he claims to abjure?

He also seems to prop up the notion that America should be lied to "for its own good" in order to bring about some favorable result that he believes Amercans are simply too ignorant & "uncaring" to understand... elitist totalitarianism in its very essence.

His WMD argument is totally spurious... Saddam ONCE had some WMD, more than a decade ago, before sanctions, before inspections, (you might point out how he obtained some of these weapons... Rumsfeld anyone?) therefore our invasion without any new evidence is OK more than a decade later? And why Saddam, instead of a dozen other dictatorial madmen chosen at random?

Your friend's take on terrorism is equally false-- it seems to be, Bush or nothing-- fight terror using the Bushbot mentality or NOT AT ALL... these are simply NOT the alternatives we are facing.

Finally, anyone who believes they perceive "sincerity" in Bush's pseudo-Christian posturing is simply not reachable, I'm afraid, by rational argument at this point.

Good luck with your friend!
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Arancaytar Donating Member (249 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 11:23 PM
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13. Thank you
THat was exactly what I was looking for. I could feel there's something wrong with that book-shelf NWO argument and the 'too dumb to know the truth', but not what.

Fundamentalism is not something he 'abjures', just a negative label he rejects. Depending on how you define it, it can or cannot be applied to him (for example, he seems to have few problems with homosexuality and religion). He certainly places a very strong faith in the bible, and rigid morals (though I've never talked to him about his interpretation of the bible, so I don't know if it is a literal one). So, yes, he does perceive abortion as immoral. I haven't asked him further if that is a unilateral approach, or if he draws a line somewhere.

What galled me a little was the way he dismissed one reason Bush gave, and lapped up the next when the first one failed. To convince him that Bush must be truthful to his nation and the world would first require countering that bookshelf argument.
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Squeech Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-11-04 02:13 PM
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11. Here's why Iraq was the wrong war at the wrong time
1) Most important, we weren't finished with the Taliban and Al Qaeda in Afghanistan. We thought we had them cornered at Tora Bora, but as a genuine war hero says, we outsourced the job to local warlords, who screwed it up. Now the Taliban has reconstituted its authority over large parts of Afghanistan, while Karzai's effectiveness is pretty much limited to downtown Kabul, and of course OBL remains on the lam.

2) Attacking Iraq is almost exactly what OBL wanted us to do, to prove his contention that America intends to make war on the Moslem world. And our actions in the war have pretty much proven his point, from wrapping the Stars and Stripes around the head of Saddam's statue as we pulled it down, to protecting only the Ministry of Oil from looting, to Abu Ghraib.

3) Moreover, OBL wanted the Baathists brought down. In his dreams, OBL most fervently desires something like a return to the Ottoman Empire, a consolidation of the whole Muslim world, or at least the Central Asian part of it, under the banner of theocratic leadership-- if not his own, then a sympathetic ayatollah like Iran's. Saddam's Iraq, as a *secular* Moslem state-- and one where the average standard of living was better than Iran's, or Pakistan's-- was a living repudiation of OBL's program.

4) The inspections were working-- as we now know, Saddam didn't have any WMD's. Maybe your correspondent has forgotten that it was Bush who told the inspectors to leave before the war, not Saddam, but I haven't. Meanwhile, North Korea has working nukes, and so does Pakistan, and Iran is getting real close, and I wouldn't count out Syria (which latter also has Pakistan's excuse about having to defend against a neighboring nuclear power).

5) Everything Bush said about the war (and nearly everything else) has been proven to be a lie. If we don't repudiate Bush and his mendacious ways at the ballot box, no other country will ever believe us again.
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