Which scenario would hurt you worse?

[GingerSnaps]

Your ex leaving you for someone of the same sex or the opposite sex?

It doesn't matter what your sexual preference is please answer and elaborate.

[Fenris]

1. It doesn't matter.

Although, I will say, if I was dumped for someone of the same sex as my ex, I wouldn't mind as much. Dunno. Could be sexism. Could be that I just don't like men all that much.

[short bus president]

3. I'm with Fenris.

Doesn't matter the gender.

[Chimpanzee]

2. I marked 'other' for 'George Bush Wins The Election'

[VOX]

4. Both scenarios are painful, but I'd give the edge to "same sex"...

Because, if my wife left me for another woman, I'd know that it would be a part of her life that probably has nothing to do with me -- this scenario would most likely be more about her, and her needs, needs that I could never satisfy. That reality could be more easily reconciled, I believe.

But, if my wife left me for another guy, then the possibility exists that I have let her down in the relationship somehow. I would carry a greater burden of the responsibility for the failure of the relationship, to the extent that she would be interested in seeking out a different male partner. It just seems like this scenario would be more difficult to reconcile.

[GingerSnaps]

6. I am still in shock

I know now why there was no sex involved except one time which was so brief that it's hard to remember or it was so bad that i blocked it. I feel like my heart has been ripped out, stomped, chewed up and spit out on a train track for a train to run over. I thought that he had a female on the side or i was the one on the side and i am getting ready to break down thinking about how stupid i must have been. I feel like one of the biggest dummy's in the world and I think that the signs were there but I was as blind as a bat.

[Skittles]

5. same sex

I would know I could not compete because I would have to accept the fact he was gay

[GingerSnaps]

7. I am having a hard time dealing with it

My heart hurts and that isn't a joke either.

[Skittles]

12. oh

my sweetness, I cannot imagine but to me it would be so much worse because there would be two devastating issues to deal with. I'm so sorry.

[flaming bondage mask]

8. I would depend entirely on the departing comments

"You're such an incredibly bad fuck I'm switching sides forever" would be a stunner, for sure :-)

[GingerSnaps]

9. I can't remember

Would doing your fingernails during the interlude be a sign of a bad one?

[flaming bondage mask]

10. I'm leaning towards 'yes', but

at least you'd be getting some x(

[GingerSnaps]

11. I compare it to a mosquito bite

Your remember getting bit but you don't remember how it got there or the minutes before it took that bite. :boring: