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I have decided to intentionally cultivate more "in real life" liberal friendships.
I currently have about four VERY close friends who are liberal, my husband who is very liberal and my boss, bless his heart.
That's it. I do have friends who vote Democrat but are shaky. They are pissed off about bush, but they aren't liberals like I'm talking about. They just want everyone to get along, they just want to go with the flow. Fuck that.
I have been thinking about how I have been trying to talk sense into my republican friends for four years now. How I have warned them over and over about the neoconservatives and their agenda. But why should I bother? That agenda is obviously what they want.
I think of the guy who was poll greeting for the opposition last night and how he kept asking to me to explain to him why I am a Democrat. I said "why? Would it cause you to be one?" and he laughed and said "no!" So I said "so I'd be better off beating my head against that sidewalk over there, right?" and he said "What about if I told you why I am republican?" and I said "I honestly don't care why you are. See, I'm not a Democrat because I just don't know about republicans. I know all about you guys AND your party. I know what you believe in and I watch your actions as well as your words. And they are appalling. So I'm not interested in hearing why you are a republican. I will NEVER be one." He got all offended, then that's when he started hinting he had a gun on him and talking about homosexuals. Mother fucker.
I am going to cultivate more liberal friends, surround myself with them. And I am going to let go of any republican friendships I have left. They are superficial at this point, anyway, no longer very meaningful as they were a few years ago.
Screw "unity." They vote for people and policies that HURT my family, that hurt us ALL. So why should I give them comfort or friendship? Why?
The woman who was running for state house, who lost, wanted to clean up our air and water around here, she wanted to fully fund our schools, she wanted to not allow guns in schools (yeah the repuke incumbent voted to allow guns to be taken in schools), etc. But oh NO, we can't have someone good like her! We've got to keep the asshole who does nothing but tear us down.
Seriously. I would never discriminate against someone on the basis of things they cannot change--their race, ethnicity, nationality, sexual orientation, etc. But I CAN and WILL discriminate against people who choose to hold views that hurt me and mine. Who vote for people and policies that will be the undoing of this great experiment in democracy. Yep. Sure will. And no apologies, either.
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