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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-06-04 11:06 PM Original message |
I lost a friend because i said i didn't want him to call me drunk anymore |
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alittlelark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-06-04 11:08 PM Response to Original message |
1. Sounds like a freeper-type |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-06-04 11:18 PM Response to Reply #1 |
13. not really , pretty liberal guy, but selfish. |
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alittlelark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-06-04 11:28 PM Response to Reply #13 |
17. Liberal but selfish = the worst of the worst |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-06-04 11:40 PM Response to Reply #17 |
25. only chld syndrome... i come from a big family and it is never ever all |
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alittlelark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-06-04 11:49 PM Response to Reply #25 |
30. He should not feel OK. Unless his parents are disabled or sick..... |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-06-04 11:52 PM Response to Reply #30 |
31. well his dad is old and sick, but my mom is too... |
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alittlelark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-07-04 12:02 AM Response to Reply #31 |
34. Do they NEED him, and is he HELPING them |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-07-04 12:18 AM Response to Reply #34 |
39. you have him pegged. i have to say, his dad needed to go to a |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-07-04 02:07 AM Response to Reply #17 |
48. i had to come back and read this again to confirm that you hit it on the |
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Bluebear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-06-04 11:09 PM Response to Original message |
2. "he finally knows who i am" |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-06-04 11:10 PM Response to Reply #2 |
4. omigosh, he always used to close w/ hugs, too. but tks i need one! |
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Bluebear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-06-04 11:15 PM Response to Reply #4 |
10. My hugs aren't 100 proof :) |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-06-04 11:53 PM Response to Reply #10 |
32. your hugs were very nice, thank you |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-06-04 11:28 PM Response to Reply #2 |
16. oh it took a while, but i shut that down. tks for the hug! i needed that. |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-06-04 11:10 PM Response to Original message |
3. My advice, FWIW... |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-06-04 11:16 PM Response to Reply #3 |
11. al anon helped me a while ago. usually i can tell, but this last |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-06-04 11:17 PM Response to Reply #3 |
12. I went to al-anon for several years, didn't work for me. |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-06-04 11:32 PM Response to Reply #12 |
20. yeah, i can't go for the submitting thing either.. |
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mike_c (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-06-04 11:38 PM Response to Reply #12 |
23. I'm utterly atheist but still find an awful lot of wisdom... |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-07-04 12:08 AM Response to Reply #23 |
35. yeah, learning to pick your battles is tough, i know always want to make |
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LosinIt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-06-04 11:11 PM Response to Original message |
5. get ye to Al-Anon, my friend |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-07-04 12:54 AM Response to Reply #5 |
44. i have gotten a good grip on it, really. and my friend gave me that last |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-06-04 11:11 PM Response to Original message |
6. I had to do the same thing a year ago Halloween. |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-06-04 11:19 PM Response to Reply #6 |
14. yeah, i'm looking for less hectic these days, thanks |
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clover (445 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-06-04 11:13 PM Response to Original message |
7. you didn't lose a friend: you followed your higher self and he |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-06-04 11:26 PM Response to Reply #7 |
15. wow. thank you. you made me feel so much better about it. |
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clover (445 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-06-04 11:39 PM Response to Reply #15 |
24. you feel better simply b/c i reaffirmed what you already knew |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-07-04 12:14 AM Response to Reply #24 |
37. i did it 6 weeks ago, but tonight i saw him doing something sad and it hit |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-07-04 01:07 AM Response to Reply #24 |
45. wow thanks. i have to keep remembering that. in his hands. |
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NightTrain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-06-04 11:13 PM Response to Original message |
8. Friends like that you don't need. |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-07-04 12:36 AM Response to Reply #8 |
42. yeah, a lot of my family was pretty hopeless, literally and i have had |
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miss_kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-06-04 11:14 PM Response to Original message |
9. It's the old 'black line fever' |
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mike_c (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-06-04 11:31 PM Response to Reply #9 |
19. "drinking and dialing...." |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-06-04 11:49 PM Response to Reply #19 |
28. yeah, alot of people dumped him over the calls. |
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mike_c (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-06-04 11:30 PM Response to Original message |
18. I'm in the midst of an acromonious divorce... |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-06-04 11:37 PM Response to Reply #18 |
22. i am so sorry, that's awful. i'm hanging in there. it's just that i just |
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mike_c (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-06-04 11:49 PM Response to Reply #22 |
29. it is terrible to watch lives being destroyed by alcohol.... |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-07-04 12:30 AM Response to Reply #29 |
41. yeah, i used to have no spine, 10 years ago,, i would have let this go on. |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-07-04 01:12 AM Response to Reply #18 |
46. you really helped me so much and i'm sorry if i didnt say it before |
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truthpusher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-06-04 11:32 PM Response to Original message |
21. You may have helped him quite driking... |
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mike_c (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-06-04 11:43 PM Response to Reply #21 |
26. good on 'ya, truthpusher.... |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-06-04 11:47 PM Response to Reply #21 |
27. wow, thank you. i could never do that slink away and stop returning |
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truthpusher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-07-04 02:32 AM Response to Reply #27 |
49. sounds corny but the harder it is, usually the more impact it has... |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-07-04 03:06 AM Response to Reply #49 |
50. i wasn't feeling that tonight. he looked so lost so i felt like it was |
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MacCovern (336 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-07-04 12:02 AM Response to Reply #21 |
33. Yes, bettyellen did right by not being an enabler |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-07-04 12:15 AM Response to Reply #33 |
38. thank you, i hope so. |
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jukes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-07-04 12:12 AM Response to Original message |
36. very tough call |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-07-04 12:24 AM Response to Reply #36 |
40. you are so sweet, i don't know how to pm or if i have it on my |
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jukes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-07-04 12:41 AM Response to Reply #40 |
43. PM is the yellow icon |
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jukes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-07-04 01:18 AM Response to Original message |
47. check PM |
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peacefreak (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-07-04 08:19 AM Response to Original message |
51. I'm sorry. I know how you feel. |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-07-04 12:00 PM Response to Reply #51 |
53. brilliant, self destructive.. we could be talking about the same person... |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-07-04 09:03 AM Response to Original message |
52. Get him out of your life. |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-07-04 12:16 PM Response to Reply #52 |
54. compassion doesn't seem to work, but it's so hard to detach. |
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Mrs. Venation (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-08-04 05:24 PM Response to Original message |
55. My Two Brothers Are Alcoholics |
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