If I sleep with my ex-wife, is it adultery?

[TrogL]

We're separated, not divorced.

I'm in a relationship but it's (actually more) open (than I'm comfortable with).

[Worst Username Ever]

1. As long as the other person knows about it, it is okn/t

[JVS]

2. If you're not divorced is she really an "ex-wife"?

[Nikia]

3. Are you sure this is a good idea?

I don't remember if you've posted about your split up or how you've been taking it. This sort of thing has really messed with some people's feelings. You might want to consider your feelings, her feelings, and be sure you are on the same page before you do that.

[TrogL]

6. (hint/note) This is a copycat thread

It's dirty laundry day.

[Pithlet]

19. You don't even have an ex-wife, do you?

I knew something didn't seem right about this thread. :)

[Wat_Tyler]

4. No, TrogL - it's murder.

MURDER! :o

[Susang]

15. All those sperm

The horror, the horror.......

[spatlese]

5. If your relationship...

with your current gf is more open that you are comfortable with, can you talk to her about it? And maybe try and build a stronger relationship with her instead of sleeping with your ex-wife (since that already didn't work)?

:shrug:

[brainshrub]

7. Only if your ex-wife is a man.

Can't have those homos gettin' married!

Sorry about the sarcastic rant. What was the question again?

[pdx_prog]

8. Accckkk!

remember why you are split up in the first place.....that usually does it..:)

[merh]

9. If you are not divorced, then she is your wife and not your

ex-wife, therefore, there is no divorce. In our state, if divorce proceedings are pending and the husband and wife sleep together, then the divorce proceedings are no good as the couple resumed their marital intimacy.

(edited because my mind was not working properly.)

[Nicole]

10. not adultery, it's more like idolatry

Go for it. LOL

[TaleWgnDg]

11. uummmmmmm . . . that's a legal question . . .

and it requires a lawyer's opinion . . . check w/ your lawyer. I assume you have a lawyer, correct? That is, since you stated you were "separated" but not divorced. The reason why I recommend you ask your own lawyer is that having sex with your wife -- she is still your wife if you were legally married and w/o a court's divorce becoming final -- may have a negative impact upon any divorce or anything else that you or she may be seeking in law about your marriage or ending of marriage.

Again, seek out the legal advice of your own attorney. Got it? Good. BTW, DU or elsewhere on the internet isn't a good place to request legal advice. :eyes:

[arwalden]

12. It's A Child Not A Choice!!!

[fob]

13. I'm gonna need nmore evidence before deciding. Please post video

of your EX and current GF in the situations you are trying to get yourself into!

And nothing grainy either!

[NC_Nurse]

14. No, it's Stupidity.

But hey, if it's fun....:D

[Susang]

16. I'd say it's adulteriffic!!!

That's what I'd say.

[hunter]

17. OMG!

.

[Demeter]

18. I Think It's Cruelty

Don't sleep with anyone unless you mean it, for real and for life.

[Jack Schitt]

20. You aren't divorced, so she's still your wife.

[jdots]

21. IT's JUST NOT RIGHT !

what will the pets think ?