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Bertha Venation (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 09:50 AM Original message |
why do people cheat on their spouses/mates? |
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Lautremont (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 09:52 AM Response to Original message |
1. They want to stave off aging and death |
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Wat_Tyler (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 09:52 AM Response to Original message |
2. Are you asking that rhetorically, or seriously? |
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mike_c (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 09:53 AM Response to Original message |
3. can't answer because I've never done it.... |
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underpants (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 09:58 AM Response to Reply #3 |
7. After seeing the co-worker I just had in my office I think I have an idea |
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motely36 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 09:55 AM Response to Original message |
4. For the same reason the alcoholic drinks |
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Magrittes Pipe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 09:56 AM Response to Original message |
5. Because monogamy runs counter to humans' natural instincts. |
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mike_c (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 10:07 AM Response to Reply #5 |
10. I'm a biologist so I certainly agree with you in a general sense... |
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Magrittes Pipe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 10:24 AM Response to Reply #10 |
14. I tend to agree with the idea of serial monogamy... |
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warrens (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 11:25 AM Response to Reply #10 |
24. Serial monogomy is what we appear to have evolved to... |
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Bertha Venation (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 10:11 AM Response to Reply #5 |
12. Do you think that if one does NOT fight that instinct, then |
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Magrittes Pipe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 10:16 AM Response to Reply #12 |
13. Well, that's the thing. |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 09:56 AM Response to Original message |
6. because they have no personal honor. eom |
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elehhhhna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 09:58 AM Response to Original message |
8. chemistry &/or convenience. booze is also usually involved. |
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sui generis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 10:02 AM Response to Original message |
9. by cheat do you mean a single fling or an ongoing romance? |
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Chef (453 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 10:08 AM Response to Original message |
11. Cheating |
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SheilaT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 10:27 AM Response to Original message |
15. There are probably as many |
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warrens (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 10:47 AM Response to Original message |
16. Because monogomy is an unnatural condition |
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KinkyDem (748 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 11:27 AM Response to Reply #16 |
25. Worse |
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bluestategoddess (14 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 10:55 AM Response to Original message |
17. Humans are not meant to be monogamous |
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the Princess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 01:53 PM Response to Reply #17 |
34. I agree completely |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 01:58 PM Response to Reply #17 |
35. I think it can work well if you are committed to your partner |
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bluestategoddess (14 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 03:41 PM Response to Reply #17 |
49. you can be committed |
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leftofthedial (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 10:55 AM Response to Original message |
18. horny, angry, insecure, addicted |
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MsAnthropy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 10:57 AM Response to Original message |
19. When they came up with that idea life expectancy was about 30 n/t |
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jukes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 10:59 AM Response to Original message |
20. PRIMATES |
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XNASA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 11:03 AM Response to Original message |
21. Because when the 'Until Death Do Us Part' idea was spawned.... |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 11:08 AM Response to Original message |
22. They have problems in their primary relationship. |
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rbnyc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 11:12 AM Response to Original message |
23. chemistry plus... |
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the Princess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 02:08 PM Response to Reply #23 |
38. Chemistry |
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RaleighNCDUer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 12:25 PM Response to Original message |
26. When you come down to it, they aren't cheating on the other -- |
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ProfessorGAC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 12:32 PM Response to Original message |
27. I Don't Get It Either, Bertha |
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Moonbeam_Starlight (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 12:33 PM Response to Original message |
28. Um |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 12:35 PM Response to Original message |
29. I can't imagine |
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rene moon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 12:57 PM Response to Original message |
30. Selfishness |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 01:09 PM Response to Original message |
31. Nearly every married person I know... |
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the Princess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 02:03 PM Response to Reply #31 |
36. That is a BIG issue in most marriages |
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yellowcanine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 02:42 PM Response to Reply #36 |
43. No - that is what masturbation is for - I am serious. Why screw up |
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UdoKier (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 02:49 PM Response to Reply #43 |
45. It depends though. There are spouses who are not bothered by dalliances.. |
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the Princess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 03:14 PM Response to Reply #43 |
46. Are you married? |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 03:24 PM Response to Reply #31 |
47. very true |
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catmandu57 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 01:21 PM Response to Original message |
32. After being on the wrong end of this |
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the Princess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 01:46 PM Response to Original message |
33. This is such a complicated question |
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bluestategoddess (14 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 03:47 PM Response to Reply #33 |
50. I'm with you |
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the Princess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 04:04 PM Response to Reply #50 |
52. Thank you Goddess! |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 05:04 PM Response to Reply #33 |
59. Good Answer |
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the Princess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 05:56 PM Response to Reply #59 |
62. Now that's a GOOOOD question. |
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Madame X (46 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 02:05 PM Response to Original message |
37. You may as well ask "why is the sky blue?" |
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CO Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 02:29 PM Response to Original message |
39. An Old Saying - "Marry in Haste - Repent At Leisure" |
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Kiteflyer (84 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 02:36 PM Response to Original message |
40. The grass is greener |
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Kiteflyer (84 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 02:38 PM Response to Original message |
41. The grass is greener |
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Kiteflyer (84 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 02:40 PM Response to Original message |
42. The grass is greener |
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City of Mills (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 02:45 PM Response to Original message |
44. Poor communication, self-esteem issues and |
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nini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 03:39 PM Response to Original message |
48. If you wanna keep sampling the goods you shouldn't commit to someone |
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the Princess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 04:06 PM Response to Reply #48 |
53. OK that's for you |
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nini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 04:09 PM Response to Reply #53 |
54. why would you want or need to go elsewhere if the relationship is working? |
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the Princess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 04:51 PM Response to Reply #54 |
56. Because there is no such thing as Perfect |
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Champ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 03:52 PM Response to Original message |
51. I have no idea really - Probaly Genes |
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Squeech (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 04:35 PM Response to Original message |
55. Because the marriage sucks? |
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Samurai_Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 04:56 PM Response to Original message |
57. Because they are selfish assholes? |
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the Princess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 04:57 PM Response to Reply #57 |
58. Sounds like a judgement to me. |
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LoZoccolo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 05:16 PM Response to Original message |
60. They're don't like their spouses anymore. |
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GingerSnaps (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 05:34 PM Response to Original message |
61. They witnessed their mom or dad doing it so they think that it's Ok |
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VOX (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-19-04 06:09 PM Response to Original message |
63. Numerous reasons: Loneliness, pain, depression, boredom... |
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