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Edited on Sun Nov-21-04 07:10 AM by thedailyshow
Here's my little ethical dilemma presented to you guys:
I fell in love with this girl a year and a half ago, and every indication she gave seemed to be that she was interested in me. She'd laugh at all of my jokes, flirt with me, and blush whenever I grinned at her. She also would clutch onto my arm a lot, and walk with me that way.
I decided to tell her my true feelings so I took her to this little restaurant for breakfast, where we had coffee, and I told her how I greatly admired her, thought she was beautiful, and asked her out. She looked at me, and said it was very brave for me to tell her what I said, then she let me down. She said she wasn't interested in dating me.
Oh god, I was so heartbroken after that. I couldn't believe that I had misinterpreted her inclinations towards me, and I asked her if she knew she had been flirting with me. She said yes, and that she couldn't help flirting with me.
After that, I couldn't speak to her because literally the sight of her was enough to drive a spike of pain through my heart. Then she went abroad to study last year, and came back this semester. My heart still catches when I see her on campus, and I can't get her off my mind.
However, when I came across her blog which was linked through a friend of mine's blog, I realized that I really didn't know this girl at all. That perhaps I was projecting too much of my ideals and hopes upon her. I felt bad for having done that. The ironic thing is that after briefly read what was on her blog, that I respect her even more for her intelligence and the vitality that she exudes.
I feel so skeeved out though, because I had read what was on her blog, and I felt like I was seeing something that she hadn't allowed me to see when we were friends. It makes me wonder why she didn't open up to me fully, and it made me feel like our friendship in the past had been so one-sided.
I haven't spoken to her since she came back from studying abroad, and it sucks that she's here now. When she was gone, I was able to forget about her for a little while.
I wish I didn't go after the girls that are out of my league.
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