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yvr girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 03:35 PM
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Poll question: Pervert of Just trying too hard?
Edited on Mon Nov-22-04 03:36 PM by yvr girl
This is long, but it’s a good story. Let me begin by saying I was 14 but in all fairness, I looked older.

I was on a relatively isolated patch of sand laying on my stomach with my nose in a book and enjoying my solitude. The occasional person walked behind me along the shore. Out of the corner of my eye, I noticed a guy walk past me. A few minutes later, he came back and asked me if I had the time. I did. He started to walk away, but then kept asking me questions.

Did I mention he was 25 if he was a day. He came towards me and proceeded to ‘Chat me up.’ I wasn’t very responsive, but I am Canadian so I was polite. Yes, no, uh huh etc. I kept reading. Eventually, he was reclining beside me while I was doing my best to discourage him. Then he asked me, “Do you mind if I drop and catch a few rays?”

I couldn’t really see how he could ‘drop’ any further so I said, “Pardon me?”

“Do you mind if I drop and catch a few rays?” he said again while indicating his shorts.

“Actually, I rather do.” Round one to me.

It went on for a while, pretty much as before. He talked – I tried to ignore him. Then he announced that he was going to go for a swim. “Fine.”

“I need to change.” (He looked to be wearing swim trunks to me, but what did I know.)

“Whatever.” I was getting a bit terse by this point. He changed, and I kept reading. Eventually, he was ready and again announced his attention to go swimming. I looked up at him and said, “fine” again. He had changed into a white, nylon Speedo type suit. It really looked more like a lining to me. He went swimming. I continued to read – glad to have my space back.

Unfortunately, he returned. His wet bathing suit left little to the imagination, but my only reaction was to roll my eyes as he approached. He settled down beside me again. Things went on as before. After a few minutes he declared that he was indeed going to drop and catch those rays.

“Whatever.” I was almost past the point of caring. So he stripped down. I can’t imagine what my parents would have done if they had wondered by at this juncture – fourteen-year-old daughter reading a book on the beach beside a naked man.

He asked me, “Have you ever been to Wreck Beach?” (For those of you who are not from my part of the world, Wreck is a famous, clothing optional beach in Vancouver.)

“No.”

“Have you ever suntanned nude?”

“No.” I hadn’t at that time.

“You should try it.” I passed. He then proceeded to tell me how good it felt. Somewhere mixed in with his explanation was an offer to touch…..his package. (Is it still a ‘package’ if it isn’t wrapped up?) I passed on that one too.

He desperately wanted me to notice…him, but I just wouldn’t. I can be quite stubborn when provoked. Eventually, he gave up and said that he was going to get dressed, which as you might imagine was ‘fine’ with me.

He got up, grabbed something out of his bag, rustled around a bit and then he plopped down beside me again. “I’m done.”

“Good.” I looked over towards him as I said that. I noticed that there appeared to be no clothing where there should have been clothing. I looked away again.

He laughed. “I almost got you there.”

“Ha, ha, very funny.”

Eventually, he did get dressed and disappeared into the woods.

So here’s my question was he a
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Book Lover Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 03:37 PM
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1. Had to vote trying too hard, but I don't think you
should cut any slack. If you're not making eye contact, fellas, cut and run.
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BlueManDude Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 03:37 PM
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2. Pervert? Try dangerous criminal.
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Not_Giving_Up Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 03:37 PM
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3. I need a shower after reading that! n/t
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Fenris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 03:44 PM
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4. Oh. My. God.
Perv.:scared:
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plcdude Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 03:45 PM
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5. Pervert definitely
It was all about him and not you. He wanted his need to be recognized and thrill someone else and was obsessive in his attempt. You are lucky he didn't just jackoff there. You were 14 and that makes him criminally preverted. Don't tolerate behaviors from anyone you find to be offensive. Leave or let them know you will seek others to assist in changing this situation.
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yvr girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 03:51 PM
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7. I'm a little stubborn sometime
It was the perfect spot on the beach. I was there first. I was more annoyed than afraid. I was 14 - what did I know.
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plcdude Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 03:55 PM
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14. well
now that you have had that experience what would you do now if it happened again?
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yvr girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 04:02 PM
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20. I still have that Canadian thing happening
When he first got down beside me, I probably would have said that I was busy and not interested. (I had given him plenty of hints up to that time.)
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Magrittes Pipe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 03:50 PM
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6. That was YOU???
:o
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yvr girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 03:51 PM
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8. OK smarty pants
What beach were we at?
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Magrittes Pipe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 03:53 PM
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9. Um... you know....
Toronto, Lake Ontario, just off Queen's Quay.
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Wat_Tyler Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 03:54 PM
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11. Al! It was Jericho Beach. Remember when we freaked out all those
Belgian hitchhikers from the Youth Hostel?
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yvr girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 03:58 PM
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16. I was 14 - you were most likely a gleam
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Wat_Tyler Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 04:05 PM
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21. Oh. I'm actually a 55 year old Bavarian chicken farmer called Heinrich.
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yvr girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 04:15 PM
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23. my bad
How exactly does one schnitzel something? I've always wanted to know.
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Wat_Tyler Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 04:20 PM
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27. I can't tell you. There are many young posters here.
I don't want to soil their pristine minds.
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yvr girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 04:23 PM
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30. Can't you tell me in code
I hear that they're not too smart. (hehe - just playing)
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Wat_Tyler Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 04:24 PM
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31. They are immature, and should not be allowed on the board ;-)
Basically, it's a cottaging thing.
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yvr girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 04:29 PM
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33. I've heard that somewhere before : - )
Is that you're code? If so, it's way over my head.
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yvr girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 03:55 PM
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13. You must have been harassing some other girl
This was by the seashore in BC
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Magrittes Pipe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 03:54 PM
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12. On second thought, I bet it was Jericho Beach.
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yvr girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 03:56 PM
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15. No, not remote enough
Did I mention I was on a camping trip?
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Magrittes Pipe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 04:01 PM
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19. Oh, well.
:shrug:
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TrogL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 03:54 PM
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10. He doesn't strike me as a nudist
Nudists/naturists know there's a time and place. If he knows about Wreck Beach, he needs to go there. It's easy enough to get there.

That reminds me - have you signed the petition?
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yvr girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 05:37 PM
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37. I haven't.
I have never made the trip down the hill. I prefer to keep my public displays of nudity far away from homebase. With my luck I'd run into a crew from BCTV!
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TrogL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 05:47 PM
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38. The petition should be on a table at the TOP of the hill
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yvr girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 05:59 PM
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39. I've never even been there
I'm not even sure exactly where the path is.
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yardwork Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 03:59 PM
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17. Sounds like a pedophile
Even if you looked older, he could probably tell that you were under eighteen. That makes him a pedophile, which is a pervert by definition.

Even if he happened to be really clueless and genuinely thought you were over eighteen, he's still a pervert for acting that way. No encouragement from you and he's stripping in front of you!

That's the definition of sexual harrassment. He definitely has a serious problem.
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yvr girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 04:08 PM
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22. I'm actually willing to give him the benefit of the doubt with
regards to the age thing.

I had an 18 year old hit on me when I was 11. (It's actually a good story too - the drama played itself out in front of a 747 full of people in the middle of the night.) I had lots of guys in their 20's hit on me when I was as young as 14, 15, 16.
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Beer Snob-50 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 04:16 PM
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24. we need pictures please!! eom
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yvr girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 04:19 PM
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25. I didn't take any pictures
Edited on Mon Nov-22-04 04:19 PM by yvr girl
He would have been all to willing too pose.
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Beer Snob-50 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 04:21 PM
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28. not of him
we need proof of your claim to look oldr than 14 yo!! lol
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yvr girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 04:27 PM
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32. Oh, blond moment
In digital form - you've got to be kidding me. I'm not even sure if I have a photo of me from that era. My parents were kind of slide people.
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UpsideDownFlag Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 04:21 PM
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29. no no, pictures of YOU. lol....nt
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BiggJawn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 04:00 PM
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18. Definite perve...
The NERVE of that PERVE!

When *I* was his age, I was chatting-up 40-y-o's....
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sangh0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 04:20 PM
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26. Criminal - what he did is sexual assault
Edited on Mon Nov-22-04 04:21 PM by sangh0
not to mention several other crimes.

And I bet he knew you weren't 18. AN 18 year old would have told him to shove it.
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azoth Donating Member (408 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 04:40 PM
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34. Holy sheeit! At 14, I'd have freaked OUT over that. Such poise.
but what a warpo that dude was. I agree with those who've said those were dangerous actions. Yikes.
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yvr girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 04:51 PM
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35. What nearly killed me was waiting to tell someone
I was on holiday with my parents. They still haven't heard this story. I had to wait till we got home to finally spill with my friends.
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azoth Donating Member (408 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 05:04 PM
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36. I'd have never told my folks either. And I can totally see how the wait
would have seemed eternal.

Scary scary stuff.
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yvr girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 10:44 PM
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40. kick to horrify the night crowd
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Bat Boy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-22-04 10:47 PM
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41. Gotta go with pervert on that one.
Big honking freaky creepy drooling pervert.
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