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LynnTheDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-23-04 09:32 AM
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It's not just rightwingnuts that can be damned RUDE...so are some Liberals
Edited on Tue Nov-23-04 09:37 AM by LynnTheDem
So a year ago a guy who had a blog asked me would I help him post stuff on his blog. I said sure...and spent hundreds of hours posting over the past year, while my husband was Iraqmired.

It was very tough on me, researching & reading and posting things at night, and then working long hours every day, all with the huge stress of not knowing from day to day if my husband was dead or alive, but I'd been asked to help, and I'd said I would.

So I blogged. A lot. Especially when the blog owner said he wouldn't be able to help out much for some time as he'd started a new job with a long commute. So I carried most the load.

And then one day last week I go to blog...and my authorization to blog has been cancelled. Not one fucking word to me first.

I emailed a friend who posts with this asshole on another board, and she said he "wanted to take the blog in a different direction". He didn't mention to her, of course, that he hadn't even bothered to let me know in advance and had simply banned me from posting.

All that fucking work, all the time I sepnt, fucking HOURS researching and posting and building up readers to the blog...and he couldn't even be bothered to send me one lousy email saying "hey thanks for the past year but you're no longer needed". No nothing.

Not one fucking word.

I sure hope he doesn't treat his co-workers with this same contempt for simple courtesy & decency.

Fucking RUDE COWARD.

Well I feel MUCH better for venting, ta.
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trotsky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-23-04 09:34 AM
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1. A right-wing blogger wanted a liberal to post material?
Sounds to me like what you wrote was making too much sense, and he had to plug his ears and shout "LA LA LA LA LA".
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LynnTheDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-23-04 09:35 AM
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2. No, he's a liberal, too
Edited on Tue Nov-23-04 09:36 AM by LynnTheDem
Sorry, my title wasn't very clear on that; I meant it's NOT JUST rightwingnuts that can be rude...so can liberal assholes be.
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trotsky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-23-04 09:39 AM
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4. Ah. Given any thought to starting your own blog?
Sounds like you could have a go at it!
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LynnTheDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-23-04 09:50 AM
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8. I don't have a clue how to
I send material to several other blogs, DKOS and Atrios and Digby etc, and I do research for several journalists, and the wasted year blogging until I was discarded, but I've never been involved in actually running and maintaining a blog & wouldn't have the first clue how to, lol!

I just wish he'd had the decency to send me one lousy email, rather than sneaking around like he did. Instead, he's turned the whole thing into a very bad experience. :(
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mcscajun Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-23-04 10:01 AM
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10. A Simple Starter Blog
can be done at www.blogger.com

Three simple steps and you're blogging.
Create an account (FREE)
Choose a name for the blog
Pick a Template

Done!

There's a lot more to it once you're up and running...but for the simplest blog, this is enough. The rest you can learn as you go from the help files. :)
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The Backlash Cometh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-23-04 10:08 AM
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11. So, a liberal who gets mugged becomes a conservative..
And a liberal who gets ripped-off by another liberal becomes what? An independent?

I think that person owes you an explanation. But, you've illustrated why I'm very wary of the people I work with or for, especially if it's volunteer work. Take heart that you were able to express your pov for the better part of a year. Hopefully, on his penny.
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Buzz Clik Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-23-04 09:37 AM
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3. Assholes come in all political affiliations.
That sucks.
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On the Road Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-23-04 09:39 AM
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5. That's Really Out of Bounds
and completely without class.

Especially since it would have been so easy for him to make the changes he wanted while still giving you with a sense of accomplishment and not leaving a bad taste in your mouth.

The only thing you can take consolation in is your readers -- whatever the blogger did or didn't do, you benefited your audience in speaking directly to them.
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spooky3 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-23-04 09:44 AM
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6. What a pig. If you feel like continuing to do it, maybe you should start
your own blog. You can then post a little story about him!
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Zuni Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-23-04 09:50 AM
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7. Sadly, political affiliation does not make character
I have met GOP leaning people that were very nice and liberals who were f-in assholes
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LynnTheDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-23-04 09:53 AM
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9. Thanks, guys...your words have been salve to my wounds.
Hate to admit I'm such a wet noodle that his behaviour has really hurt me...but it has, so thank you so much for the kind words, it helps. :)
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