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Red State Rebel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-30-04 11:10 AM Original message |
Parents: Is it really possible to dislike your own child? |
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trotsky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-30-04 11:12 AM Response to Original message |
1. "Part of me wants to cut her off until she gets herself straightened out" |
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amandae (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-30-04 11:25 AM Response to Reply #1 |
12. I agree with trotsky |
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motely36 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-30-04 11:13 AM Response to Original message |
2. I wish I had some advice |
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Moonbeam_Starlight (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-30-04 11:13 AM Response to Original message |
3. I don't know how much advice I have |
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7th_Sephiroth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-30-04 11:14 AM Response to Original message |
4. make sure she gets help |
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fertilizeonarbusto (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-30-04 11:17 AM Response to Original message |
5. I can tell you what my mom did with my sister |
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htuttle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-30-04 11:17 AM Response to Original message |
6. Let her go to jail for awhile and cut off her money |
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demnan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-30-04 11:20 AM Response to Original message |
7. If she stole from you |
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RUDUing2 (968 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-30-04 11:21 AM Response to Original message |
8. yes it is possible |
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Spiffarino (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-30-04 11:21 AM Response to Original message |
9. Of course you can dislike her |
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mindfulNJ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-30-04 11:23 AM Response to Original message |
10. "Like" and " love" are two different things |
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pk_du (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-30-04 11:23 AM Response to Original message |
11. You CAN give someone unconditional love and still not |
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Cyndee_Lou_Who (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-30-04 11:28 AM Response to Original message |
13. My heart and thoughts are with you... |
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Bridget Burke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-30-04 11:49 AM Response to Reply #13 |
21. Dump this "genes of Lucifer" crap. |
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Cyndee_Lou_Who (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-30-04 12:21 PM Response to Reply #21 |
26. We're in therapy... have been. I am not BLAMING HIM for MY |
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Jessica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-30-04 11:28 AM Response to Original message |
14. Tough love is sometimes the most compassionate kind ... |
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intheflow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-30-04 11:29 AM Response to Original message |
15. It's okay to distance yourself for now. |
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madrchsod (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-30-04 11:33 AM Response to Original message |
16. i agree with the others who said-don`t enable and |
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sariku (153 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-30-04 11:35 AM Response to Original message |
17. The best thing you can do.... |
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crispini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-30-04 11:37 AM Response to Original message |
18. I'd have to agree with the posters above |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-30-04 11:39 AM Response to Original message |
19. Cut her off. |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-30-04 11:48 AM Response to Original message |
20. one thing I would definitely pay for is a full psychiatric evaluation |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-30-04 11:50 AM Response to Original message |
22. You can dislike her, but you still have to love her even when it is hard |
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Kber (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-30-04 11:54 AM Response to Original message |
23. No advice from a parental perspective |
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jukes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-30-04 12:16 PM Response to Original message |
24. based only on the facts |
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Phillycat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-30-04 12:18 PM Response to Original message |
25. She sounds like a drunk/drug addict. |
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jukes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-30-04 12:25 PM Response to Reply #25 |
27. janesez |
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Phillycat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-30-04 12:28 PM Response to Reply #27 |
28. Thanks! |
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jukes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-30-04 12:41 PM Response to Reply #28 |
30. not a friend |
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Cheswick2.0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-30-04 12:38 PM Response to Reply #25 |
29. I agree |
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Phillycat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-30-04 12:49 PM Response to Reply #29 |
32. I hope your kid is the one in recovery. |
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Cheswick2.0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-30-04 12:54 PM Response to Reply #32 |
33. He's working at it |
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Phillycat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-30-04 01:08 PM Response to Reply #33 |
35. PM me if you ever want to talk. |
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Cheswick2.0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-30-04 12:47 PM Response to Original message |
31. I'll bet you spent lots of years making up for your guilt at being a |
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warrens (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-30-04 01:06 PM Response to Original message |
34. Drugs |
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OldEurope (654 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-30-04 01:26 PM Response to Original message |
36. I think, it´s okay to dislike your daughter. |
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Red State Rebel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-01-04 12:26 AM Response to Original message |
37. Thank you all for your advice and support! |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-01-04 12:29 AM Response to Reply #37 |
38. I'm sorry you're going through this. |
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faithnotgreed (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-01-04 01:46 AM Response to Reply #37 |
40. prayers for you and your daughter. the closest ive come |
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put out (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-01-04 01:14 AM Response to Original message |
39. You have gotten some very good advice. |
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