need DU advice: Fruedian slip?

[pres2032]

ok, so I was having dinner with a bunch of friends the other day and there was this girl with us that I get along with pretty well. at one point i told her that her picture was in a college brochure. She was all excited and i offered to go get my bookbag to get the brochure and she goes "no, it's ok, all go out with you." i didn't catch that at the time, but her roommate seemed to catch it 'cause her jaw dropped. after dinner, our group went in different ways, but me and the girl went together to the library and on the way she was genuinly interested in what i had to say. So, was that a fruedian slip she had, or is it nothing??

[LiberalVoice]

1. pres2032's gonna get some booty!

:P ok mods you can ban me now...

[rwenos]

2. Duh

My friend, women control the traffic. They flirt with more subtlety than we do, they decide who they want to be with, they make themselves available when they're interested, they make themselves unavailable (in a thousand different ways) when they're not interested.

She turns the light green, she's interested.

[RagingInMiami]

3. stop over-analzying and go for it

you got nothing to lose

[WMliberal]

4. why are you here posting?! GO GET LAID YOU ASS!!!!!!!!!! eom

[LiberalVoice]

5. lmao

well said! :D

[pres2032]

6. kick

[pres2032]

7. kick

sorry, but i've been burned pretty badly after thinking a girl liked me only to realize i was wrong and i don't want to go through that again.


I'd really like if women put their 2 cents in too!

[LeftyMom]

8. Don't worry about the freudian slip

The fact that she's spending time with you alone is a much better indicator of her interest.

[msgadget]

9. Yeah, what LeftyMom said.

She obviously found you as interesting as you found her. Congratulations, it's that simple!

[pres2032]

10. kick!

[asthmaticeog]

11. Quit kicking this and go get'cha some lovin', fool.

[pres2032]

14. can you tell how insecure i am with this

21 single years can do wonders when it comes to thinking about asking out a girl or not

[neoteric lefty]

12. stop kicking this thread and give her a call

then let us in on all the juicy details

:toast:

EDIT: This one looks like a no brainer, if you let it pass you by then you'll be kickin' yourself for a long time (excuse the pun).

[pres2032]

13. yeah

[Pale Blue Dot]

15. It is nothing, until you act.

You know the answer to this question. The real question you want to ask is: Can I get over my fear and ask this intelligent, beautiful girl out, even though she is obviously interested in me?

Get over yourself. Ask her out for coffee. Let us know how it goes.

[pres2032]

16. true

ok, i think that did it, i'll try and ask her out this weekend

[Pale Blue Dot]

17. Good for you!!

:thumbsup:

[pres2032]

18. hehe, as the butterflies arrive!

[AlCzervik]

19. Try hard, don't be half assed about it you know?

that wasn't a slip, that was her subconcious coming out there.

[pres2032]

22. yeah

i'm working on what i'm going to say when i do ask her out

[AlCzervik]

24. Just be yourself, that seems to working for you already.

Ask her to go see Ocean's 12, i think that would a good date movie imo.

[pres2032]

25. hmm, good idea

[neoteric lefty]

23. isn't that what a 'slip' is?

not trying to rain on your parade. Just trying to be precise :)

:toast:

[AlCzervik]

26. ......

parade rainer onner!:P

[neoteric lefty]

20. ask her out tonight (if it's not too late) so you all can

go out this weekend. You wait until the weekend, then schedules might conflict and you could be waiting more than few days before going out. Just a suggestion.

[pres2032]

21. i would

but i'm supposed to be writing a paper and me asking her out would either put a huge wrinkle in my plans of getting the paper done or fill me with enough energy to get it done immediately