What do you do when a guy wants you enough to shave his beard?

[dorktv]

[LuLu550]

1. make sure you want him enough

to make it worth his sacrifice!

[dorktv]

2. see that is the problem...I do not want him.

Life sucks.

[LuLu550]

4. then enjoy the feeling of being wanted that much

but don't jerk him around...it's not nice and it hurts to be on the receiving end of it.

[dorktv]

9. I told him a million times that I like someone else in the District

and that I feel that because he is the District Chair, it probably would be a bad idea to date me. You know kind of like a minister marrying into the congregation.

[HFishbine]

17. Ahhh, in that case

don't shave yours. That should do it.

[dorktv]

20. I do not have a beard.

[AWD]

24. You don't want him???

Then it's simple.

Tell him "if you think I'm doing the same to my back, you're wrong!"

[TXlib]

25. Be straight up and tell him point blank you are not attracted to him.

Trust me, it's not bitchy. Crushing his affection quickly, like ripping off a band-aid, hurts the least.

If he's a friend, and you want it to continue, then demonstrate it by doing something fun and platonic with him soon afterwards.

[roughsatori]

3. Tell him the truth: you like him and are flattered or "I don't like you

that way--but I'm flattered." If you like him back let him take you out to dinner as a reward. In behavior modification it is wise to always pay attention to behavior you want to see more of in the subject.

I just read that you don't like him back. Be honest and polite, do not lead him on. Make it clear you are not interested. Dash his hopes with kindness.

[dorktv]

7. He already has taken me out to dinner so I guess a movie would

be a good reward.

[HEyHEY]

5. Call him a lying bastard

And tell him he has food stuck in his beard

[Nikia]

6. Tell him its not the beard

Be nice about it but let him know that you are not interested and shaving won't win you over.

[SingSong]

8. Where would he get that idea in the first place?

He must be shallow to even consider doing something to change his appearance for someone who doesn't give a romantic rats ass.

[dorktv]

11. I would say the term is desperate.

[SingSong]

14. Sounds a little unbalanced

but I don't know. Good luck!

[patdem]

10. Dump HIM...very fast...because if he shaves his beard he would be

willing to stalk you to the ends of the earth...DUMP the man...very quickly....IMHO

[dorktv]

13. Oh if he stalks me then it is okay...I always wanted a stalker to terrify.

[prolesunited]

12. I had a former boyfriend

ask me to trim his mustache. Even though I told him I never did it before, he insisted. I was doing OK until the tip of the scissors snip his upper lip. I never realized how much a lip could bleed.

BTW, he never asked again. Go figure.

[dorktv]

15. What he is not a maschosit? Or however you spell that word?

[Kamika]

16. id tell him this

Sorry but i would never want a guy that would shave his beard just to get me

[leftofthedial]

18. avoid him

I'm a heterosexual male.

[dorktv]

21. Good for you...I am a heterosexual female.

And I can not avoid him...I see him like twice a week.

[Terwilliger]

19. could you be love?

and be loved

[FireHeart]

22. Just do what my wife does...

tell him to go to a barber and get it done professionally. It would look much better in the long run. Beards have to be "trained" into proper growth and an amateur could mess it up badly.

It worked for her. :)

[SOteric]

23. Chica, If a dude wanted me in any bad way, -

he'd keep his beard.

[TXlib]

26. You _like_ beards?

[Padraig18]

27. That's the FIRST warning signal

Anyone who wants you to do something like that is manipulative and controlling, or childish, or maybe all 3. Tell him 'no' as nicely as you can and the RUN (do NOT walk) as fast as you can in the opposite direction! :)

[FireHeart]

28. Hey!

I just wanted to save a few bucks!

:)

[kodi]

29. i dunno, shave your legs?

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