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MaryH (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 04:53 PM Original message |
What is it with Men and Rape? |
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tjdee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 04:55 PM Response to Original message |
1. It's about control, not sex. |
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MaryH (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 04:56 PM Response to Reply #1 |
2. Power? Control? |
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WildClarySage (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 04:58 PM Response to Reply #1 |
8. sometimes rape is about sex |
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MaryH (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:00 PM Response to Reply #8 |
11. And they really believe their own reasons? |
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WildClarySage (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:03 PM Response to Reply #11 |
17. Never underestimate the capacity of people to delude themselves. |
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the Princess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 06:19 PM Response to Reply #8 |
103. Are you serious???????????????? |
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WildClarySage (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 06:36 PM Response to Reply #103 |
117. Having also been raped, and having worked as a rape victim's advocate, |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 06:28 PM Response to Reply #8 |
111. But that sort of sex IS about control |
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Droopy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 04:56 PM Response to Original message |
3. Oh yeah. We're all rapists. |
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MaryH (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 04:57 PM Original message |
Oh, I don't mean that. |
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hollywood926 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:04 PM Response to Original message |
21. For every Mary Kay Letourneau, |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 07:34 PM Response to Reply #21 |
144. Link? |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 04:57 PM Response to Reply #3 |
5. that is NOT what she is saying at all |
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Cuban_Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:02 PM Response to Reply #5 |
13. Actually, men don't rape in 'vast numbers'. |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:03 PM Response to Reply #13 |
16. I think you are wrong, very wrong |
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tjdee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:09 PM Response to Reply #16 |
26. Not to mention many cases go unreported. |
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WildClarySage (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:09 PM Response to Reply #16 |
27. Considering one in four women will be sexually assaulted |
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Cuban_Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:24 PM Response to Reply #27 |
39. Where are those statistics from? n/t |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:30 PM Response to Reply #39 |
48. DO SOME RESEARCH |
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Cuban_Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:32 PM Response to Reply #48 |
52. Such as? |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:37 PM Response to Reply #52 |
57. here |
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Cuban_Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:42 PM Response to Reply #57 |
59. I didn't say they all were. |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:47 PM Original message |
well of COURSE they're impossible to verify |
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Cuban_Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:49 PM Response to Original message |
77. BINGO! |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-09-05 09:54 AM Response to Original message |
164. which is why the majority of rape victims might actually be MEN... |
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DontBlameMe (889 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-09-05 02:50 PM Response to Reply #164 |
180. I'm a man. I was "raped". |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:43 PM Response to Reply #52 |
62. Here's something to get you started. |
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Cuban_Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:22 PM Response to Reply #16 |
37. In 2003, there were 93,433 rapes *nationwide* |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:24 PM Response to Reply #37 |
38. come on, Cuban_Liberal |
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Cuban_Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:25 PM Response to Reply #38 |
40. No, you come on. |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:28 PM Response to Reply #40 |
45. google "unreported rapes" - you'll be shocked by what you learn |
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Cuban_Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:30 PM Response to Reply #45 |
49. "It is estimated".... "People say"... |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:48 PM Response to Reply #40 |
71. Actually DOJ statistics are hardly verifiable since even THEY admit |
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Cuban_Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:51 PM Response to Reply #71 |
78. No idea. |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:53 PM Response to Reply #78 |
81. I don't buy the "wild" speculation part and would suggest that there |
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Cuban_Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:54 PM Response to Reply #81 |
84. We'll just have to disagree, then. |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:55 PM Response to Reply #84 |
85. So why come on this thread and minimize the issue. One rape is too many. |
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Cuban_Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:57 PM Response to Reply #85 |
88. I'm not 'minimizing' anything. |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 06:12 PM Response to Reply #88 |
100. Well here's a bit better statistic than "did he stick it in?" |
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Cuban_Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 06:14 PM Response to Reply #100 |
101. That's far more specific than 'rape'. |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 06:19 PM Response to Reply #101 |
104. No...it's that the FBI really doesn't give a hoot about this statistic |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 06:15 PM Response to Reply #100 |
102. I'm saving that link for the next time I have to have this discussion. |
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snoochie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 07:50 PM Response to Reply #102 |
151. " for the next time I have to have this discussion." |
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WildClarySage (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 07:05 PM Response to Reply #78 |
132. The speculation isn't all that wild |
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bloom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-09-05 01:07 PM Response to Reply #132 |
175. There are other ways to get data than police reports... |
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tjdee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:26 PM Response to Reply #37 |
41. Those are reported cases, Not all cases are reported. |
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Cuban_Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:27 PM Response to Reply #41 |
43. And any speculation about unreported numbers is just that--- speculation. |
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tjdee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:28 PM Response to Reply #43 |
44. True enough. |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:29 PM Response to Reply #43 |
47. and rape crisis center will know some better numbers |
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Cuban_Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:31 PM Response to Reply #47 |
51. Actually, rape crisis ceners are required to report rapes to LE agencies. |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:42 PM Response to Reply #51 |
61. here |
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Cuban_Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:45 PM Response to Reply #61 |
66. My 'attitude' is one of hard-core realism. |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:49 PM Response to Reply #66 |
75. LOL |
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Cuban_Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:52 PM Response to Reply #75 |
79. Yeah, we cops know nothing about realism |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:53 PM Response to Reply #79 |
80. ask yourself what your worst fear is |
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Cuban_Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:55 PM Response to Reply #80 |
86. And that's material to this disscusion how, exactly? |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 06:06 PM Response to Reply #86 |
94. lol |
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Cuban_Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 06:07 PM Response to Reply #94 |
95. Me, too. |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 06:10 PM Response to Reply #95 |
98. Yeah, me too... |
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JohnLocke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-09-05 12:47 PM Response to Reply #80 |
172. How is that relevant? |
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Calanus (119 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 07:38 PM Response to Reply #61 |
146. What do you find disturbing about his/her attitude? |
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WildClarySage (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:47 PM Response to Reply #51 |
70. No they are not. |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 06:24 PM Response to Reply #43 |
109. That's what repubs say about voting irregularities |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:36 PM Response to Reply #37 |
55. Even if you were to go with the number of "reported" rapes... |
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Cuban_Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:40 PM Response to Reply #55 |
58. I never said it wasn't significant. |
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Amaya (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:45 PM Response to Reply #58 |
64. "the numbers speak to this fact" |
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Cuban_Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:47 PM Response to Reply #64 |
69. How many don't? |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:45 PM Response to Reply #58 |
65. Sorry but saying VAST is the same as SIGNIFICANT to me. |
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Cuban_Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:48 PM Response to Reply #65 |
74. Semantics. |
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the Princess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 06:25 PM Response to Reply #37 |
110. Not true! |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:31 PM Response to Reply #13 |
50. "Rape is not a common crime" What? |
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Cuban_Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:34 PM Response to Reply #50 |
53. Post 37: |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:46 PM Response to Reply #53 |
68. Yeah, and I already answered above. These are VAST numbers |
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RevolutionaryActs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:53 PM Response to Reply #53 |
83. But those stats are only for the USA, right? |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:46 PM Response to Reply #50 |
67. he's relying on only reported rape statistics, Misunderestimator |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:48 PM Response to Reply #67 |
73. I suppose that means we've been wrong about how many civilians |
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Cuban_Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:53 PM Response to Reply #73 |
82. Very likely so. |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 06:01 PM Response to Reply #82 |
90. Yes, but you certainly don't trust the numbers you hear right? |
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Cuban_Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 06:04 PM Response to Reply #90 |
92. I didn't say significant numbers of women aren't raped, either. |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 06:10 PM Response to Reply #92 |
97. Pardon me? Where did I say that you said that.... |
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Cuban_Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 06:12 PM Response to Reply #97 |
99. I must have misunderstood. |
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bloom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-09-05 01:14 PM Response to Reply #67 |
176. It's like rape is only considered to be rape if one goes through the legal |
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Droopy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:02 PM Response to Reply #5 |
14. Well this sure seems like a serious implication |
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tjdee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:03 PM Response to Reply #14 |
18. Well, considering that most rape is committed by someone the woman knows.. |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:04 PM Response to Reply #14 |
19. well, that is very very true |
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Droopy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:10 PM Response to Reply #19 |
29. I'm incapable of rape |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:15 PM Response to Reply #29 |
34. I don't doubt it of you or many men either |
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Droopy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:28 PM Response to Reply #34 |
46. Then perhaps it would have been wiser for the OP |
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MaryH (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:04 PM Response to Reply #14 |
20. Did you ever see John Robinson on TV |
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Placebo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:06 PM Response to Reply #20 |
23. A whole lot of women pass as absolutely normal... |
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MaryH (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:09 PM Response to Reply #23 |
28. I think there is a difference here between a serial killer and |
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tjdee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:11 PM Response to Reply #23 |
30. Well, being poor and lonely is a mite less disturbing than |
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Placebo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:13 PM Response to Reply #30 |
32. I'm just saying... |
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tjdee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:22 PM Response to Reply #32 |
36. That's true... |
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hollywood926 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:14 PM Response to Reply #23 |
33. Uh...yeah...that's the same as rape... |
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Kire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 07:13 PM Response to Reply #14 |
137. find a shelter or rape crisis center with services for men, and i'll... |
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WildClarySage (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 07:20 PM Response to Reply #137 |
140. Actually, many do provide services to men. |
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bearfan454 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 04:56 PM Response to Original message |
4. Men that rape women are pussies and very insecure. |
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MaryH (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 04:57 PM Response to Reply #4 |
6. Well, yea. That's would be nice! |
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They_LIHOP (151 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-09-05 01:20 PM Response to Reply #4 |
177. BING BING BING!!! Ladies and Gent's WE HAVE A WINNER!!! |
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Placebo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 04:58 PM Response to Original message |
7. If it's any consolation, things are better now than ever. |
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MaryH (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 04:59 PM Response to Reply #7 |
9. I guess that's some consolation. |
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Placebo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:00 PM Response to Reply #9 |
10. Well it's never going away. |
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MaryH (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:01 PM Response to Reply #10 |
12. Yea, that's better. |
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Placebo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:02 PM Response to Reply #12 |
15. No it's not. |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:05 PM Response to Reply #15 |
22. current wisdom has one in four girls and one in ten boys being victims |
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MaryH (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:08 PM Response to Reply #22 |
25. I had one man tell me there is "true rape" and then there is |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:21 PM Response to Reply #25 |
35. sadly |
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RevolutionaryActs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:27 PM Response to Reply #25 |
42. I think its going to be hard to get men to understand how a woman feels |
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Placebo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:56 PM Response to Reply #42 |
87. Pssh. I beg to differ. |
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RevolutionaryActs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 06:03 PM Response to Reply #87 |
91. I didn't mean all men, I should have clarified. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 07:43 PM Response to Reply #91 |
149. I think you mean 'some' men. |
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MaryH (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:07 PM Response to Reply #15 |
24. I read once where 6% of the male population is a pretty |
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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:12 PM Response to Original message |
31. They're whackos |
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porkrind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:34 PM Response to Original message |
54. SOME men. |
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saltpoint (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:37 PM Response to Original message |
56. There's a faction of feminism that holds that -- |
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sundog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:44 PM Response to Original message |
63. What is it with a society that produces men who rape? |
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Calanus (119 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:48 PM Response to Reply #63 |
72. Where were their mothers? |
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sundog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 06:33 PM Response to Reply #72 |
113. What? |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 07:44 PM Response to Reply #63 |
150. I don't offhand, know of a society that doesn't produce men who rape. |
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hickman1937 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 05:49 PM Response to Original message |
76. A problem with talking to men about rape is |
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WildClarySage (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 06:31 PM Response to Reply #76 |
112. Another problem with talking to many men about rape |
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Jack_Dawson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 06:00 PM Response to Original message |
89. What is it about Women and Psychobitchiness? |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 06:20 PM Response to Reply #89 |
105. sweeeeet |
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the Princess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 06:23 PM Response to Reply #89 |
108. Psychobitchiness????????????????? |
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Jack_Dawson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 06:36 PM Response to Reply #108 |
116. My excuse for what? |
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the Princess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 08:35 PM Response to Reply #116 |
162. Um for being condiscending |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 06:05 PM Response to Original message |
93. Not every man is insensitive. |
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Cuban_Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 06:36 PM Response to Reply #93 |
115. You sound like my mom. |
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Cuban_Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 06:09 PM Response to Original message |
96. For the record, rapists are bottom-dwelling slime. |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 06:41 PM Response to Reply #96 |
118. Yeah, but since it's not a big risk that we might be raped since rape |
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Cuban_Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 06:44 PM Response to Reply #118 |
122. Glad to let you have the last word. |
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jellybelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 06:22 PM Response to Original message |
107. I don't know how men... |
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Lone_Star_Dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 06:45 PM Response to Reply #107 |
123. It's an entirely different situation. |
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democracyindanger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 06:34 PM Response to Original message |
114. What is it with Mothers and Child Murder? |
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arwalden (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 06:42 PM Response to Reply #114 |
119. An Excellent Response. |
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Susang (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 07:30 PM Response to Reply #119 |
141. I wish I could agree with you, Allen |
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arwalden (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 08:29 PM Response to Reply #141 |
160. I'm In No Position To Argue Numbers Or Frequency... |
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democracyindanger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-09-05 02:43 PM Response to Reply #160 |
179. Thank you, Ar. nt |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 06:47 PM Response to Reply #114 |
125. Well it isn't true..when you can prove more women are raped by women |
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democracyindanger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 06:54 PM Response to Reply #125 |
128. I don't care if its true or not |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 07:02 PM Response to Reply #128 |
131. She didn't indict an entire group. If you read her OP she made it clear |
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democracyindanger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 07:06 PM Response to Reply #131 |
133. Yes, instead of being defensive |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 07:10 PM Response to Reply #133 |
135. Again...you deliberately misread and blame someone else |
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democracyindanger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 07:20 PM Response to Reply #135 |
139. Rape is not about sex. |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 07:35 PM Response to Reply #139 |
145. Rape is also about sex... |
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snoochie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 08:16 PM Response to Reply #131 |
157. I wish I could find the defensiveness as amusing. |
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democracyindanger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 08:32 PM Response to Reply #157 |
161. So we shouldn't be defensive about |
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melnjones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 07:01 PM Response to Reply #125 |
130. Mother/daugher sexual abuse |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 07:08 PM Response to Reply #130 |
134. Oh for pete's sake.... until you can compare those numbers to |
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melnjones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 07:19 PM Response to Reply #134 |
138. I am a female, a social worker, and a victim of sexual abuse... |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 07:30 PM Response to Reply #138 |
142. Sure you do, but it's not the subject of the thread, and there's |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 07:33 PM Response to Reply #130 |
143. I think a statement like that |
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melnjones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 07:41 PM Response to Reply #143 |
148. Here you go... |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 07:51 PM Response to Reply #148 |
152. Looked at the link |
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melnjones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 07:55 PM Response to Reply #152 |
154. And the guestbook is the most informative part of the site? |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-09-05 09:22 AM Response to Reply #154 |
163. And they quote stats of 1 to 10% re ALL types of female-female abuse |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-09-05 10:57 AM Response to Reply #154 |
165. I looked at the site |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 06:43 PM Response to Original message |
120. It's "certain" men, not all men. I'm a man, and I pounded the shit outta |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 07:53 PM Response to Reply #120 |
153. You are totally correct |
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iconoclastic cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 06:44 PM Response to Original message |
121. Okay, I'll go there: |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 06:47 PM Response to Reply #121 |
124. I would guess the numbers would be higher... |
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iconoclastic cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 06:50 PM Response to Reply #124 |
126. I didn't really think it's all that off-topic; did you? |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 06:51 PM Response to Reply #126 |
127. Definitely quite "on" topic actually.... |
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iconoclastic cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 06:55 PM Response to Reply #127 |
129. You won't be seeing that in any "Admit it" or "Confess" threads, I bet |
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snoochie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 08:22 PM Response to Reply #129 |
159. Now *that* is disturbing. |
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melnjones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 07:10 PM Response to Original message |
136. For the record, females are also sexual perpetrators... |
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RevolutionaryActs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 07:38 PM Response to Original message |
147. Can we please all stop this. |
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hickman1937 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 07:59 PM Response to Reply #147 |
155. Amen |
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melnjones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 08:02 PM Response to Reply #147 |
156. I'm done, this is ridiculous. nt |
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slutticus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-08-05 08:17 PM Response to Original message |
158. Holy horseshit! |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-09-05 11:18 AM Response to Reply #158 |
167. Seriously. The lounge is where people post cat pictures and stuff |
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T Town Jake (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-09-05 11:01 AM Response to Original message |
166. I guess we're all just swine, and should disappear... |
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tjdee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-09-05 11:26 AM Response to Reply #166 |
168. Except it wouldn't be true, as most children are also killed by men. |
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They_LIHOP (151 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-09-05 12:06 PM Response to Original message |
169. Gosh, ma'am, that IS a SILLY, SILLY question!!! |
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They_LIHOP (151 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-09-05 12:11 PM Response to Original message |
170. What is it with Women and Rape? |
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tjdee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-09-05 12:14 PM Response to Reply #170 |
171. It *is* a discussion board. |
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They_LIHOP (151 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-09-05 02:04 PM Response to Reply #171 |
178. Uh, Gee, REALLY? |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-09-05 03:07 PM Response to Reply #178 |
183. In a logical/technical way? Are you going to tell us it is in a man's |
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They_LIHOP (151 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-09-05 04:56 PM Response to Reply #183 |
184. Not sure I follow you |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-09-05 06:54 PM Response to Reply #184 |
185. We can pretend but this statement concerns me |
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RandomKoolzip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-09-05 12:54 PM Response to Original message |
173. I don't feel good about seeing men in this thread minimize this issue. |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-09-05 12:57 PM Response to Reply #173 |
174. Thank you RandomKoolzip. |
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slutticus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-10-05 05:30 PM Response to Reply #173 |
186. Well.. |
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Nikia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-09-05 02:52 PM Response to Original message |
181. Unfortunately, this is one area that I am sexist about |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-09-05 02:57 PM Response to Reply #181 |
182. Thank you, Nikia for sharing your experience... |
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edbermac (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-10-05 05:36 PM Response to Original message |
187. Are you kidding??? |
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