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MarianJack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 01:58 PM
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I'd Like To Share a Special Anniversary With My Fellow DUers!
I don't knoe if I've mentioned this in discussions, but I am a recovering alcoholic.

Today is the 15th anniversary of sobriety.

What makes this special is that my wife was a smoker when we met in early July of 1997. I always told the women I dated that I was in recovery right up front for a number of reasons, so she knew when we first met. We became engaged in late September of 1997. She quit smoking on January 14, 1998.

So, today my wife has been smoke free for 7 years and I haven't had a drink for 15!

I share this primarily because Plaid Adder said when she wrote about Keph, we are a family of a sort. This is nothing we celebrate but we do acknowledge it. We'd like to share a good thing with our internet family!

Thanks for "listening"!
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arwalden Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 01:58 PM
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1. That's Fantastic News. Congratulations!
:hi:
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MarianJack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 02:10 PM
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9. Thank You!
:hi: back at'cha!
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ohiosmith Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 01:59 PM
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2. Congratulations man.
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MarianJack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 02:10 PM
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10. Gracias!
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WilliamPitt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 01:59 PM
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3. Well done
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MarianJack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 02:11 PM
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11. Thanks, Will!
Love your work! :thumbsup:
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tsakshaug Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 01:59 PM
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4. Good Work!
keep it up:bounce:
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MarianJack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 02:11 PM
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13. One Day at a Time...
...we will. Thanx!
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Lydia Leftcoast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 02:02 PM
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5. Congratulations to both of you!
:thumbsup:
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MarianJack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 02:12 PM
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14. Gracias!
:thumbsup: to you, too!
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Tab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 02:03 PM
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6. Congratulations!
I know that's quite a milestone!
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MarianJack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 02:13 PM
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16. It's A Mountain...
...of many pebbles. Thanks.
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Guaranteed Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 02:04 PM
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7. That's awesome, Marian!
You should be proud! :)
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MarianJack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 02:14 PM
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17. I'm Proud of My Lovely Wife.
I'm relieved for me. She's proud though, and she's the only opinion I NEED!
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Texasgal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 02:08 PM
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8. That's terrific!
Congrats on your recovery!

Keep up the hard work!
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MarianJack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 02:15 PM
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19. Thanks, Texasgal.
It's a shame your former gov. isn't in my boat. Sober, that is.
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Texasgal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 02:17 PM
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23. HA!
No kidding, huh?

That bastard can't even have a beer and a pretzel without falling over! LUSH!!!

Congrats again, I know it's hard work! :)
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MarianJack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 02:24 PM
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32. Thank You Again.
I look at my wife and son, and the rest is easy!
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InvisibleTouch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 02:11 PM
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12. Congrats to you both! n/t
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MarianJack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 02:16 PM
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20. Thanks From us Both!
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katinmn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 02:12 PM
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15. Congratulations!!
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MarianJack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 02:17 PM
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22. Mucho Gracias!
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Worst Username Ever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 02:14 PM
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18. YES!
Congrats! I was going to do the mug-cheer thing but I guess that would be inappropriate. You should be proud of your accomplishment! That is amazing!
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MarianJack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 02:18 PM
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27. I Would Have Assumed That the Mug...
...had ginger ale, or my favorite drink ICE WATER!
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 02:17 PM
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21. Mad props to you
I celebrated 20 years back in October...Keep it up!
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MarianJack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 02:20 PM
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29. props back to you...
...and congrats on 20! The world looks nice when not viewed through an alcoholic fog.

** should try it!
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 02:30 PM
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36. yes indeed
Life isn't perfect, but well, I would not be here if I was not sober!
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HEAVYHEART Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 02:18 PM
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24. That is wonderful!
I'm very happy for you MarianJack!
A flower for you...
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HEAVYHEART Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 02:19 PM
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28. I forgot!
And a pretty pink flower for your wife!
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MarianJack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 02:21 PM
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30. We Both Thank You...
...for the beautiful flowers!
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 02:18 PM
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25. Thats really great news! Congratulations to both of you!
:bounce: :party: :bounce: :party: :bounce: :party: :bounce: :party: :bounce: :party: :bounce: :party: :bounce: :party: :bounce:


:yourock:
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MarianJack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 02:23 PM
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31. Thanks Revolutionary_Acts04!
:yourock: , too!
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johnnie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 02:18 PM
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26. Happy anniversary to you both.
Way to go!
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MarianJack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 02:27 PM
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34. Mucho Gracias!
I LOVE Alfred E. Newman!

I kept a MAD magazine poster from his "presidential campaign" in '68 that has great relevence today. The slogan was "You could do worse. In fact, you always have!"
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smbolisnch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 02:25 PM
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33. That is SO great!
Edited on Fri Jan-14-05 02:27 PM by smbolisnch
On both of your parts! Congratulations!!! :bounce::bounce:

Edited for my own stupidity :P
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MarianJack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 02:29 PM
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35. You Belong to DU!
Edited on Fri Jan-14-05 02:29 PM by MarianJack
You'ld only be stupid if you belonged to :puke: free republic :puke:

In your case, :yourock: !!!!!
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yardwork Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 02:31 PM
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37. Congratulations to both of you!
I have four years and counting. One day at a time.
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MarianJack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 04:12 PM
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38. Good For YOU!
It makes life completely different, doesn't it? I mean, LOTS of B.S. still happens, but it's still better sober than drunk!

Congrats, 1 day at a time!
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Plaid Adder Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-14-05 04:21 PM
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39. Congratulations, Marianjack!
It is always encouraging to hear from people who have recovered. One of my best friends is a recovering alcoholic and we are so proud of him. Happy anniversary, and many more!

The Plaid Adder
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MarianJack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-15-05 08:01 PM
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40. Thanks, Adder!
Great news about your friend.

Please let me say that Maria and I are touched that you, especially, responded to this thread. As I've said here before in response to your writing, there is NOBODY in this forum whose opinions I respect more than yours!

All the best to you and yours!
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Left Is Write Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-15-05 08:03 PM
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41. Congratulations to both of you!
And may you have many happy, healthy years ahead of you.
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MarianJack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-17-05 12:57 PM
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42. Thank You...
...and the same back to you!
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fluffernutter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-17-05 12:59 PM
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43. that is completely awesome!
congratulations to you and your wife :party:
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Bertha Venation Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-17-05 01:01 PM
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44. You rock, MarianJack, and so does your beloved wife.
Congratulations on 15 years. Good lord, what an accomplishment!
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motely36 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-17-05 01:01 PM
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45. Congrats Jack
I'm glad to hear it. Also say congrats to your wife. I quit smoking 2 1/2 years ago, so I know what thats like.

:hi:
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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-17-05 01:02 PM
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46. Congrats to you and your wife!
god(s) willing and the creek don't rise, I will have 15 years this summer.

RL
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DeposeTheBoyKing Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-17-05 01:02 PM
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47. Congratulations!!
I'm sure it's been a rollercoaster ride for both of you. You should be very proud of overcoming your addictions.
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