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Bouncy Ball Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-19-05 09:32 AM
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I wanted to update you nice people on my brother-in-law
We got a second call at 12:45 last night. My sister-in-law (his wife) found out he has a compound fracture of the right femur and his right knee is pretty messed up (no details on that). He also has assorted other minor injuries. They are performing surgery on his leg to put it in some kind of brace/put pins in it. I don't really understand all that, maybe someone here knows what that is about?

While a compound fracture (youch!!!) is extremely painful, I am grateful his injuries weren't life-threatening.

We still don't know how it happened. I remember when my husband was hurt during Desert Storm, we had to wait until we heard from HIM (when he was finally in an Army hospital in Germany) to find out what happened. That might be the case here, too. I'm just happy knowing the horrible scenarios going through my head last night aren't true.

How long is this damn war supposed to last? I'm now hoping he needs weeks and weeks (maybe months and months) of physical therapy. He is infantry, so, while legs are important to anyone, they are of extreme importance to someone like him.

Thanks for your positive vibes and hugs last night. That was very scary. I hate this war. Hate it hate it hate it hate it. So does Scott, actually (he voted for Kerry!!!).
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smbolisnch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-19-05 09:36 AM
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1. Well thank goodness he is ok!
If I'm not mistaken, compound fractures do take quite a while to recover from. Ouch is right....I can't imagine how that must feel..Just the thought gives you goosebumps. Thanks for the update!
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Bouncy Ball Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-19-05 09:40 AM
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4. Just thinking of it
gives me chills. Ouch is probably a major understatement. I'm just glad they have good pain meds nowdays.
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Cuban_Liberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-19-05 09:38 AM
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2. Thank God!
I'm so relieved he's going to be OK!

:hug:
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Bouncy Ball Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-19-05 09:39 AM
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3. I was so relieved
I burst into tears when I heard! I was kinda laughing and crying all at the same time. What a mess.

Thanks, Tony.

:hug:

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Cuban_Liberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-19-05 06:46 PM
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16. You're welcome.
You've always been there for me, when things were rough.

:hug:
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Blue Diadem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-19-05 10:22 AM
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5. Good to hear
that his injuries were not more serious than they are and that you were able to find out rather quickly. I bet those hours felt like days though.





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progmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-19-05 10:27 AM
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6. Thanks for the update, BB
I was up much of the night with a feverish toddler, so I had much time to think of you and your family. Kept my feelings of self-pity in check (yeah, I'm not sleeping, but at least it's not for the same reason that BB isn't sleeping!).

:hug: to you this morning. I hope the news continues to get better.
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Worst Username Ever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-19-05 03:45 PM
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7. Well it is great that he'll be OK!
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BikeWriter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-19-05 03:49 PM
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8. Thank you for the update! There were many of us worried.
:(
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johnnie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-19-05 03:51 PM
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9. Even though I wish he was home
I am glad to hear that it seems he will be OK. My thoughts are with him and his family. Take care...
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msgadget Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-19-05 03:53 PM
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10. Thanks for the update.
It's bad but not near as bad as it could've been.

:hug:
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MissB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-19-05 04:17 PM
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11. Glad to hear the injuries
aren't life-threatening.

I hope his rehabilitation takes as long as the war, and that he never makes it back to Iraq.
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Feathered Fish Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-19-05 06:35 PM
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12. I'm glad to hear that it's not that bad
But it is still bad enough. Take care BB, and keep us posted (I'm sure you will :)) :hug:
Peace. Now.
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nothingshocksmeanymore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-19-05 06:37 PM
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13. Glad he'll be OK
They are going to put a plate with screws in the femur so that the multiple fracture sites can heal...they literally drill through the bone to do this.

The knee (if messed up enough) MAY keep him out...cross your fingers.
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-19-05 06:40 PM
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14. *relieved hug*
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OhioBlue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-19-05 06:44 PM
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15. I'm so glad to hear that he is
okay - well in a sense, I know is injuries are terrible, but thank goodness it wasn't worse. My thoughts are still with you.
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Minimus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-19-05 06:50 PM
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17. Well thank goodness. I thought about him quite a bit last night.
I am sorry for his injury but hopefully all will mend well. He cannot possibly go back to infantry work.

I hope they send him home to recover!

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motely36 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-19-05 06:51 PM
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18. I'm glad to hear he is going to be ok.
My thoughts and prayers are still with you, him, and your family. :hug:
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Solly Mack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-19-05 06:53 PM
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19. Glad he's OK !
and that it wasn't anything worse.

((((((((((((Bouncy Ball's BIL & family))))))))))))))))
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Lex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-19-05 07:02 PM
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20. Oh, that's good news, such as it is,
isn't it? I mean, I know it's not *good* news, but you know. Thankfully it wasn't something worse. I mean it sounds like it might hurt like hell and be a long process of healing, but still . . .

Hugs to you and your family, BB.

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WritersBlock Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-19-05 07:06 PM
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21. Glad it wasn't life-threatening.
I've been checking your other thread all day. You must have been going through hell waiting to hear.

Here's hoping for a full ... but VERY slow - and Stateside ... recovery!
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GoddessOfGuinness Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-19-05 07:09 PM
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22. I'm sorry he's hurting
but so glad he'll be alright. Best of luck to him for a speedy recovery!
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fluffernutter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-19-05 07:10 PM
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23. thanx for the update, hunny.
thank heavens it wasn't life threatening. sounds like the docs are doing a good job saving his leg. your bil is in my thoughts.

i hate hate hate the war too :cry:

:hug: to you and your hub.
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Biased Liberal Media Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-19-05 07:14 PM
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24. I was hoping you'd post an update today
I'm so sorry what happened to him but I'm also relieved it wasn't life-threatening.

:hug: to you all.
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montana_hazeleyes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-19-05 07:17 PM
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25. So glad to hear
his injuries are not life threatening,though it's still horrible that he and your family have to suffer this.
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Bullwinkle925 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-19-05 07:33 PM
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26. I hate this war too - am glad that your brother-in-law is going to
be all right and is now starting the process of mending. I just wish that we could bring them all home where they belong.
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Lone_Star_Dem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-19-05 07:55 PM
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27. I'm relieved to see this
Your family was on my mind all day. I'm happy for all of you that it's not anything worse.

This should keep him out for a long time and depending on the extent of knee damage he may not be able to return at all. In a way that's a bit of good news from it all.

:hug:
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