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I went out for a walk to pick up some uggie fast food for dinner. On the way back, this guy standing at a bus stop says to me (and I quote): The back lanes only a few steps away, sexy
While he grabs. My. Ass.
I said: Fuck you and keep your hands to yourself, asshole.
I then resumed walking home.
He calls out some things that are not appropriate for posting on the internets, including the assertion that I need a good, lets say, lay, whether I like it or not.
I turn. I walk up to him. And I upend my whole super-large coke on his head.
I walk home.
I am a mean, awful person.
But it felt good.
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Wed Jun-01-05 05:54 PM
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1. What?? That makes you a FABULOUS person! |
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:yourock:
Now, the asshat at the bus stop, there's a terrible person.
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Wed Jun-01-05 05:56 PM
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10. Well, I think he's also a terrible person |
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Wed Jun-01-05 05:58 PM
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And, like Christian Slater, he's guilty of sexual assault |
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I think I'd be a little more forgiving of a drunken Christian Slater, myself. ;)
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Wed Jun-01-05 05:54 PM
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2. Did this really happen? |
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Wed Jun-01-05 05:56 PM
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9. Yes. About 20 mins ago. |
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Wed Jun-01-05 08:36 PM
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93. Have yer doubts, do ya? |
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Why would she make it up?
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Wed Jun-01-05 05:54 PM
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3. Assholes like that need their asses kicked |
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Need a temporary older brother?
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Wed Jun-01-05 05:57 PM
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I think I have it covered... but thanks for the offer
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Wed Jun-01-05 05:55 PM
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4. Good for you! I'm just glad he didn't |
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have a gun, knife, and/or a really bad temper. :scared:
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Wed Jun-01-05 05:58 PM
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a fairly busy street, it was right in front of a donut shop with big glass windows... So yeah... He'd have to be pretty stupid to do anything
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Wed Jun-01-05 07:55 PM
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81. well, he didn't seem like the brightest bulb in the box |
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just from your description -- I'm glad you are okay.
Many years ago when I was in school, I rode the bus to and from work every day. I got hit on a lot, but mostly it was sweet (once, a guy handed me a note that said, "I'm deaf and single. Do you want my address?"
Fortunately, no one ever touched me. That guy deserved the coke on his head (and more) "just" for grabbing your ass.
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a coke AND super-sized fries would have made you a terrible person.
Good for you, but please be careful, there are some real nasty people out there.
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Wed Jun-01-05 06:00 PM
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sometimes just get angry and flip out without considering the consequences. About once every five years :P But, it was very public and well populated.
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Wed Jun-01-05 06:02 PM
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But please never waste super-sized fries on someone like that.:P
You seriously rock.:yourock:
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Wed Jun-01-05 05:56 PM
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7. No, you rock. He deserved the coke and |
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a swift kick to the groin.
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17. If I'd been wearing my |
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I hear rude idiots dig that, especially if nails are involved. ;)
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next time, next time.... :think: Thanks for the idea ;)
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No one has told me I'm a terrible person yet.
Come ON there has to be ONE person out there
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31. Your a bad girl and must be punished |
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39. Okay--you're a terrible person! |
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13. Well, if I'd known you it was you, I would have been more gentlemanly! |
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18. He did you a favor. Those super-large cokes are bad for you. |
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So I posted two lame one-liners... At least it makes the thread longer!
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Now telling him you want to see what he has to offer, waiting for him to unzip his pants and then dumping an icy Coke down them would be awful. Wait a minute-the time I did that at the State Fair it was fukkin' hilarious!
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30. A big corn-fed dirty looking good old boy. |
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He grabbed my boobs while I was waiting in line for the Ferris Wheel and asked me if I wanted to step out and ride him instead. I said sure but I wanted to see what he could bring to the party first. He unzipped and leaned over to show me. I grabbed the front of his boxers like I was going to do something and dumped my drink down the front instead. Then I yelled about him pissing his pants in the line. That was really funny and I was already drunk so it seemed even funnier.
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34. That is in-fuckin-credible |
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56. Thank you but my friends have done better. |
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:spray:
*note to self: don't piss xmas off*
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You're not a corn-fed good old boy.
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22. I bet he'll think twice before doing that again. |
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I once threw a cup of hot coffee at a man for flashing a wad of money at me and asking "how much?" so I know how great you must feel right now.
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Haha, that's awesome. Fucker deserved it.
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27. Little did you know, when I said I'd brb |
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I was out attacking men at bus stops
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35. Haha, well I did tell you to kick some ass |
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32. Shoulda kicked him in the donut |
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:rofl:
If only I'd been wearing boots
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I shall never talk with you again, you supercilious dope!
PS- Coke is good for the hair! Where do you get off, honestly? You're just this overly-emotional-charged minefield. I can't WAIT to see what happens when I grab your ass and you upend a gallon of coke over my precious brain-pan!
BRING IT ON!!!!!!!!!!!
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40. You should have kicked him in the nuts while you were at it! |
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but I was wearing little 'doll' shoes, or ballet flats. Wouldn't have been effective.
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If only you had been wearing steel tipped boots. :evilgrin:
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I have a sweet pair of garrisons I wear all the time, but I didn't feel like putting on socks :\
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Wed Jun-01-05 06:23 PM
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45. You are a wonderful person |
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I hope that he will think twice before acting like towards another woman.
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53. Don't be worried, darling, |
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I might stick a bit of PLAIN BAKED POTATO in your eye, but nothing else, my little pet goat.
If you could, smother me with Thousand-Island. That'll do.
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Makes me glad I know how to castrate a man with my bare hands.
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57. Bookmarking this thread for the next time I'm engulfed in flames... |
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:whistling quietly to myself:
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73. Did I mention how much I admired you |
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and what a wonderful person you were?
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52. And you owe me a dry-cleaning now! |
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71. Yeah, I'll get right on that |
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54. I think you're my hero |
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I always wanted to be a hero
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58. you're my Gothadelic hero! |
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:yourock: :yourock: :yourock: :yourock:
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79. This is a good story, but you took a serious risk. |
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Edited on Wed Jun-01-05 07:50 PM by iconoclastic cat
That guy was obviously unbalanced. You easily could have been assaulted or stalked after dousing him. Don't wait for a next time: call the cops and file assault charges. If he's doing this in public, what will he do when he's in a parking garage or elevator?
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86. We know ALL your secrets! |
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60. That does not a terrible person make. |
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65. Hey, GIC, he fired first. The rules say that dumping a large beverage... |
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on his head is super A-OK!! Way to go! :yourock:
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66. Too bad you didn't have some pepper spray... |
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I think getting coke in your eyes would probably smart a fair bit
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69. Yeah, well you do need a good lay. |
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And then go bake a cake.
PS MSN sucks.
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PS use the web MSN dollface
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It's too time-consuming during the week...
Tonight I have a date with my treadmill, and Hour 6 of "The Kingdom II".
I was supposed to do this last night, but instead of a nice workout and a relax, I had an unexpected visit from my hysterical mother, who drove 90 minutes specifically to drop in and throw a hissy for 2+ hours.
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unpleasant
pppft I am not time consuming :P
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Very nice. Probably the best miniseries in tv history (at least in my opinion...and that's assuming you're talking about Lars Von Trier's masterpiece).
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I hope he doesn't seek revenge...
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76. Well you didn't have to dump the WHOLE thing on me! |
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Wed Jun-01-05 07:42 PM
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77. If he grabbed your ass ANYTHING you did is fine by me. |
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ANY man that grabs a woman her without permission deserves whatever he gets, end of story. He's damn lucky you didn't remove his boy parts with a weed eater and a plastic spoon. -----
I actually got started as a bartender years ago because I almost beat the crap out of a customer when I was cocktail waitressing one night. I had a tray full of drinks and some yahoo reached up and grabbed a handful of my left boob. I let out a scream and dumped the entire tray on his head.
They moved me to bar tending and told me they thought the patrons might be safer with me behind a bar. I think they were probably right, because by the time they got out there to stop me I was backing off and dropping into a combat stance so I could kick the shit out of him if he stood up.
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You did good, kiddo! It's nice to know the younger generation is holding up the traditions begun so long ago!
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too bad about the wasted soda but it was worth it
:applause: :applause: :beer::toast:
Things haven't changed much in 30 years since something like that happened to me... I was in Brooklyn, walking home from the subway, when outta no where this guy grabs my ass - without even thinking I rammed my elbow back into his solar plexus. All I heard as I kept on walking was a gasp accompanied by a yelp.
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80. I'm going to say it again: He will do this again if he's not arrested. |
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Like I said upthread, great story. Now call the cops. He's now very pissed off and loopy. Someone is going to end up alone in an enclosed space with this freak, and he'll take it up a notch. Report it. Now.
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82. yes, call. the. cops. |
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if it's not too late and he's taken the bus to somewhere you can't find him, aw hell...call them anyway, and give a description
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85. How close did this happen to your home and |
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did he just stand there while you dumped the coke on him? He said nothing and did nothing? Are you sure he didn't follow you home? I concur with the others that you should immediately call the police.
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and yes. After I dumped the coke he looked kinda shocked and yelled out 'bitch' Yes I'm sure he didn't follow me home. Calling the cops wouldn't make a difference.
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94. You'd never seen him before? |
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Damn, it'd take a while to dump a whole giant coke and he just stood there while it poured over him. Maybe he was thirsty.
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It takes about two seconds. Crappy takeout cup. Upside down. woosh. Over.
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101. Oh I thought it was a bottle! |
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Fast food! I hope you dont see him again.
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yes it was a takeout drink from a fastfood joint
I hope I dont too
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won't do a whole lot The bus comes every ten minutes He was long gone before I had access to a phone
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for reminding me that my mother, 100 lbs soaking wet, would have done the same thing even as a greatgrandmother.
There aren't as many crazy people out there as there are sick little powerless perverts. I try to ignore these jerks but when I do react I don't second guess it. It does take me a while to calm down however.
:scared:
You are terrible, wasting a perfectly good coke like that.
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92. No, a terrible person would've thrown him under the bus |
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and had his dick bronzed and mounted in the public square
eh, that's not too terrible, but it's a start
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95. I think you are fine. He deserved it. But I assume he was not hurt badly. |
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Wed Jun-01-05 09:07 PM
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150. heheh. His pride should be squashed! |
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I meant I hope he was not hurt physically.
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Wed Jun-01-05 08:44 PM
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96. Bravo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And I love all the powerful women |
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here.
GrrrrrOWWWWWWFF!
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Deep down you know it was the right thing to do. You're just looking for applause aren't you? ;) Anyway, he got a lighter punishment that he deserved.
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in case you missed it, the uh, 'terrible person' bit was sarcasm. Just FYI
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107. You're not NEAR mean or awful enough; |
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he deserved to have been kicked in the nuts.
Good and hard.
He's god damned lucky that you only dumped the Coke on him.
Next time you go out for a burger, let me go with you. I'll show you how assholes like that need to be dealt with.
Fuck, I hate it when some guys act like that. It reflects badly on the rest of us.
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Wed Jun-01-05 09:44 PM
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I was being sarcastic with the 'I am a terrible person' bit, but yeah. I hate it when guys act like that too, not cause it reflects badly on all guys, but because it's not right or fair. At least, I don't let it affect my interactions with men, aside from having a higher level of caution with strange men than strange women. But thats pretty normal :shrug:
And thanks for the support :)
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Wed Jun-01-05 09:58 PM
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I just have a REALLY low tolerance for the kind of crap that you described.
And, being a guy, my first reaction to hearing about an injustice is "OK, whose ass can I kick to fix this problem?"
Damn, we really are all the same, aren't we? Sorry, can't help it.
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Wed Jun-01-05 10:00 PM
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someone knew ;)
You're not all the SAME, a lot of you are... similar in some ways... and I love you for it :hug:
Wanting to stand up for people who're treated unfairly is not a bad thing.
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110. Yes, you are a terrible person. |
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116. Anything for a friend. |
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I know somebody who gets $125/hr. to say shit like that while wielding the cat-o-9.
And she can write a hella line of prose.
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I'm going to resist the urge to be a total pig right now *bites tongue* Do do do
Hows it goin dude? Hair still sticky?
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113. Am I the only person that wants to see a picture of your behind? |
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I want to see what caused all this chaos.
Good job, by the way. I'm sure he learned a lesson, but you should be careful with these psychos.
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:P
It's actually better to stand up for yourself and assert that you are not an easy target, and draw attention to the situation, than it is to just try to ignore it (if the person is really dangerous). People around you will take notice, so you're harder to isolate, and the assaulter will generally think twice about trying again since he now knows you aren't an easy mark.
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127. All it takes is a flash of anger for him to pull out a gun or a knife |
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People like that don't rationalize about who's watching or whether you're an easy target or not.
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studies show that to be untrue :shrug:
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137. I'm not trying to ignite a flame war here |
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But I used to work as a newspaper police reporter and it's not uncommon for men to physically assault women when they feel they've been rebuffed.
We're not talking about a guy who smiles at you on the street or just tries to pick you up. This is a guy who has already shown he is unable to physically restrain himself (regardless of what the "studies" say).
I wrote a story once where a man grabbed a woman's ass in a San Bernardino nightclub and she threw a drink in his face and then slapped him. He knocked her out and slashed her face. She survived and he got arrested. She will never look the same.
Another time, when I worked in Phoenix, I wrote a story about a 15 year old girl who was sitting in the passenger seat of a car at a traffic light. Four men pulled up next to her. The driver started saying things. She rolled her eyes and looked away. He shot and killed her. They were never caught.
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139. Also not trying to fan any flames, but |
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I come from a totally different culture. While thats not to say that it 'never' happens, the instances are so rare that I've heard of maybe one. In every situation I've ever been in where I've had unwanted attention of this sort, I've done SOMETHING about it. Now, it doesn't tend to happen on the street often, at least to me. With this guy, what he said was so vulgar and offensive I just kind of went off. But in every other situation, the person has been forcing attention on me, and I got loud and violent (elbowing, kicking, etc) so that people saw what was going on. The guys always backed off. Same with my friends. I think a lot of it has to do with the society I live in.
Also, to be fair, the studies I'm referring to are generally about situations a lot more dangerous than the one I was describing, or than the ones you are. And by dangerous I mean the people were being attacked physically and felt very unsafe. In those situations, drawing attention and fighting back is always a better option IMO, because one way or another the person is being violent and very abusive, and it's better to try and escape and get help than pacify them.
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I probably would have been to stunned to do anything other than walk away quickly. I wish you would have kicked him in the no-no's.
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Standing up for yourself or drawing attention to yourself (if in public as I was) is the best way to handle it IMO
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Wed Jun-01-05 10:07 PM
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118. How could anyone expected anything different? |
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:shrug:
If it weren't for actions like yours then more assholes would openly harass more women.
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122. I don't think he was |
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expecting soda ;) but I think that standing up to dinks does cause them to think twice about wandering hands in a lot of cases
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a very understandable reaction to a dickhead.
I can relate. If Ann Coulter or Barbara Bush Sr. tried to grab my ass I'd spill acid on them. (provided I had acid...)
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123. Do you carry acid often? |
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129. no, just on wednesdays |
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(sorry, I'm just in a very random mood tonight :) )
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that sucks what happened to you. It must be the glasses that drives men crazy ;)
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that *I* drive men crazy. I think they started out that way. ;)
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125. GIC was in the right, but... |
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...some of the other posts in this thread are surprisingly vicious.
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sexual harassment and intimidation tend to make people vicious
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168. maybe gmoney never faced harassment |
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and it's entirely possible he or she has no clue how it feels when someone physically more powerful than you steps over the bounds. You wonder: are these crude comments going to escalate into further verbal abuse? Is he drunk/cranking beyond any semblance of reason? How far will this go?
Add unwanted physical contact to the mix and all bets are off.
You have to be vicious in order to summon the strength to be assertive or these pukes will run all over you. (And if you let them run all over you you are "naive" or "enabling" or "drawn to danger." If you fight back, they tell you you should have been "submissive." Goldurn what's a gal to do?:wtf:)
Thankfully 99% of men are not that way (at least where I live - can't speak for anywhere else) but when a woman encounters one she damned well better be ready to defend herself.
GIC :headbang: did the absolute right thing under the circumstances. Shame you had to waste the caffeine on such a loser, Girl, but I'm glad you put the buttmonkey in his place.
:smoke: have a smoke on me....
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are not like that. It's sad that any of them do things like this, and sad I had to waste such a lovely cool drink.
Thanks :)
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what is " uggie fast food '
Waste of a good Coke if you ask me . . . a knee to the groin would have been more appropriate.
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uggie is just like, gross, icky, etc.
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and get some pepper spray. I wasn't worried until I started reading all the other posts on this thread.
We are really not all like that, you know.
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:loveya: You are an intelligent beautiful, sexy person. That man is an abuser, if he comes around again get the cops, PLEASE! Or get some pepper spray, please!
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If I see him in any situation I'll defiantly get help.
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141. You are welcome. REMEMBER: |
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Just because you are so, so SEXY does NOT make it okay to be hurt like that! You probably get that already, but some dummy always has to make stupid comments concerning such...so just reinforcement.
Good Luck! Hope that he does not bother you again!
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138. If your description is true |
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I'd have kicked him in the nuts as hard as I could.
(I'm a man.)
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142. No, you're a good person, but Jesus still hates you. |
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He told me to tell you that....personally.
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he and I had patched things up.
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He's still bitter about that time you burned him on that coke deal in Tahoe.... I mean, 40 large is is a lot of money to pony up for that many kilos upfront.
Shit, you'd think the son of God wouldn't have a deviated septum, but there it is.
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Shekels and dinars from 1 AD aren't worth shit in this economy. I TRIED to explain it to him, but he was all "I'm the son of god, bitch, don't lecture ME about your impure money"
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Wed Jun-01-05 11:19 PM
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146. Yes, It's Terrible You Didn't Kick Him In The Nuts |
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A sentiment I'm sure I'm not the first to post.
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152. mmmm yeah not the first |
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148. Lemme guess: You were walking along North Main?? |
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There's certain neighbourhoods you need to avoid.
But kudos to you!! You did an awesome thing!!!:thumbsup:
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153. What time of night was this?? |
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I've walked along South Osborne at night, and I never had any problem. Although I am a large-built male who has a black-belt in Karate.;)
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154. It was so bizarre, it was like, between 5 and 6pm |
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But, we've been getting a lot more trash in the neighbourhood lately. I used to live on Wellington Cres. and I'd get jerks... My sister had someone follow her home, etc. Doesn't really matter what area of the city.
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156. Yikes. Looks like Winnipeg needs better public safety. |
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It's the exact opposite here in Fargo. The population is growing at a staggering rate, and as a result, a lot more police officers are being hired. But the problem is that there are too many officers in relationship with the amount of crime in the city. The crime in the city hasn't risen in proportion with the growing populace. So what happens is that the cops start acting like fascists, because they don't have as much crime to fight compared to other cities of similar size. I had to deal with one of those cops a couple years ago. It's why the FPD is known as the Fascist Police Department around here.
And the idiots in the suburbs STILL cry about wanting to give more of their tax dollars to the police department.:eyes:
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155. You're not a mean, awful person. |
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It sounds like he was essentially threatening you with rape. If I'd have been in that situation, I'd have probably crapped my pants and run home in a panic. I admire you for being alot braver than I would be.
The guy had it coming, and I'm glad you were brave enough to give it to him. I just hope he's not out there doing more than just talking.
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it's probably a good thing you didn't have to work your way through college as a cocktail waitress in l.a.
i've had to bash my tray on the head of more than i can count on both hands. little red riding hood/big city blues are a bitch, super-large coke or no...horny goof balls throwing their buisness cards in my window what's a girl to do :shrug: but find it all so :boring:
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I'm glad I didn't, and sorry you had to deal with that crap
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I'm glad it was a super size...:)
I once had a middle age man press right up against me (from behind) while we were part of a crowd watching a game at a festival - keep in mind that I was probably 12 years old at the time. I kept moving forward, away from him, because I felt uncomfortable but he kept moving forward up against me as well. I didn't know what to do - I was a young, naive little girl and didn't realize that something like that could happen. I eventually walked away from the game I was watching to permanently get away from him (which did work).
I often think about that situation and wish I had had the smarts to yell "get the fuck away from me you pervert" and getting the police but girls are raised to be polite and friendly and that can really come back to haunt us at times like that.
You're my hero! :yourock:
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I'm glad you managed to get away from that creep! I'm sorry :hug:
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It sucks that things like that happen (especially to young girls), but it could have been a lot worse - we've all heard the stories.
If something like that would have happened to me today, I think I would seriously hurt the man. I have zero tolerance for that kind of behavior. So, I applaud you and your super size soda! :)
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In fact, find him tomorrow and do it again!
:yourock: :applause:
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avoid any further encounters ;)
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except that you had no beverage with your meal
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so it was ok in that regard
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