I'm sad.

[disenfranchised]

That's it. I'm a sad man. Men aren't supposed to be emotional, but I am. I'm a recently singled, 33 year old cry baby.

[chicagojoe]

1. Start Drinking Heavily!

[fleabert]

2. men are very emotional...most just hide it or express it all as anger.

you are brave and smart for expressing yourself. :hug: things will get better, I promise.

[henslee]

3. Lighten up wuss. You are free. Time for a road trip.

[disenfranchised]

4. Okay.

Looks like I got to take a road trip, get drunk and fight. I'm thinking Tijuana.

[enigmatic]

5. In TJ, go to The Chicago Club

You won't regret it...

[disenfranchised]

6. Cough up the details.

[Lucky Luciano]

8. That's the spirit!

Partying will indeed help your situation! In a couple weeks you will nto remember the name of the one who hurt you!

[enigmatic]

10. Women. Lots of them.

Adventurous women. If you get my drift.

[henslee]

7. TJ -- too spooky.

I've been hung up on a girl before. Sucks. But its not the end of the world. Use the solo time wisely.

[enigmatic]

11. I love TJ

When I lived in the southwest TJ was a twice a year roadtrip. Saw some incredibly crazy shit there..

[Lannes]

9. Men internalize

We are emotional in a different way.

[disenfranchised]

12. F it.

From now on, I'm getting drunk.

[Lannes]

13. dont forget to pay some good blues music

It always helped me.

[hfojvt]

14. um, isn't alcohol a depressant?

I prefer to be manic - with a little help from my caffeine.

[khashka]

15. I'm agreeing with fleabert on this one

What the fuck is wrong with expressing your emotions? I maintain that the measure of a true man is whether he can allow himself to cry - in front of other people.

"Men aren't supposed to be emotional" Yeah well fuck that shit.

You have a choice - be an automaton who feels nothing nor be a human being who feels deeply.



Khash.,

[enigmatic]

16. Human Robots are not good...

I absolutely agree with that..

[Lannes]

17. Some men have trouble crying

I being one of them.Its not a macho thing.To be honest there were times I wish I could have cried.Bet I would have felt better afterwards.

Doesnt mean Ive never cried,just that it isnt a matter of turning on a switch for some of us.

In my case I put on some good blues music and let the guitar do the crying for me.There is also blues that you can listen to when you arent feeling sad but thats another story.