So, all of you relationship junkies - what would you do

[HEyHEY]

I met a fairly interesting girl the other night at a party. Thing is she lives four hours away, I'm planning to be living there in four to six months.
My question, would you ask her out ASAP or wait until you're down there... I'll see her again as we have a mutual friend.

Well?

EDIT: She'll actually be in my area next weekend, but I doubt I'll see her as I'm at a drink fest for solstice with 14 buddies and she's at a staggete, IF by FLUKE I see her though...

[mac56]

1. ASAP.

No question.

[Left Is Write]

2. Ask her now.

She might not be single in four or six months.

[xultar]

3. What if you get there and the whole town is fulla hunnies?

Then you have the ole'ball n chain.

[Hepburn]

Now......!!!! n/t

[greatauntoftriplets]

4. ASAP.

She might not want to wait that long until you are down there. Who knows who might come along during the interim?

Let her know that you are interested and want to get to know each other. Good luck, and be nice.

[RetroLounge]

5. Now...

and I don't mean tomorrow. Get off the damn keyboard and call her now...

We'll wait...

RL

[Pale Blue Dot]

6. Why wait?

You don't have to ask her out, just call her and talk on the phone. See where it goes from there.

You're only going to kick yourself if she's unavailable in six months.

[HEyHEY]

9. that is one fear - but I worry if we began long distance....

it could effect my future decisions before I move down there.

BTW Heard the new Blue Rodeo?

[babylonsister]

7. Woo her - now. It worked for

me! :evilgrin: And we've been married for 23 years, got married 6 months after we met, because he was in the service and had to move.

Edit to add: I'm stickin' to it!

[JVS]

8. wait

That will give you more time to cultivate a bad-assed Quebec seperatist persona that she'll think is really cool. Then she'll want to have lots of sex with you

[HEyHEY]

13. Dude, we already met - she knows I'm not french Canadian

Wait, I'll tell her I was faking an English Accent "PRetty good uh? Hon hon hon"

[JVS]

16. Since when does one need to be French Canadian to be a radical separatist?

You can make up some story about your separatist room-mate in Quebec chaining you under the bed and teaching you the secret ways of the FLQ until you had become assimilated into the movement!

[HEyHEY]

17. Or I'll just tell her I'm a BC separatist

[JVS]

20. That is not nearly as cool and probably won't help you to get away...

with chain-smoking, not shaving more than thrice a month and questionable sanitary habits. Chicks dig the pissed off and smelly revolutionary chimney thing

[HEyHEY]

21. But it's more cutting edge!

[JVS]

22. OK GO AHEAD AND BE A LAME BC SEPARATIST!

BUT YOU'LL BE SORRY WHEN YOUR SITTING THERE ALONE WITH YOU BIG OLD BC INDEPENDENCE BONG AND SOME BERET WEARING SCRUFFY SMELLY GUY IS RAILING HER INTO NEXT TUESDAY WHILE PUTTING HIS CIGARETTES OUT ON HER ASS!

[HEyHEY]

23. You're right, I won't let that happen again!

[sparky_in_ma]

10. ASAP

He who hesitates is stuck with an inflatable friend.

[Dogmudgeon]

11. Ask her now

After a four or five hour drive for you to visit her, she will be nice to you out of a sense of obligation. No, it doesn't mean "instant sex"; "nice" means she won't be inclined to cop any attitudes.

Of course, if instant sex happens, so much the better.

If she has a boyfriend, keep in touch anyway. The half-life for boyfriends when a woman is in her 20s is usually about 4 months. (Yep, they tested it at MIT and all.)

--p!

[HEyHEY]

12. Yeah but did they use MIT guys?

"she will be nice to you out of a sense of obligation"

WOOHOO!

[In_The_Wind]

14. ASAP

why wait

[The Flaming Red Head]

15. Any excuse for a road trip

What are you waiting for?

[yvr girl]

18. Offer to show her your panties

Wait...that might scare her off.

I say go for it. You're down here fairly regularly aren't you?

[HEyHEY]

19. true, but come winter...

[enigmatic]

24. ASAP

Plant the seed, as they say.