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Similar...but ultimately silly.
I came from a family of 8, a one-income house with little income to speak of. If we kids wanted to do college, we did it through scholarships and money we earned doing shit work. I saved all through Jr High & HS, and after HS graduation, went to a 4-year college in Music Ed. I needed 192 semester hours to earn a degree. I wanted to make the most of my college experience, so I took heavy course loads all the time, summer sessions too. If I ran out of money, I'd go to the local branch of the school and work part-time from home to get the $ to get back to the main campus.
After 4.5 years, I was ready to graduate. My student teaching was done, I had a 3.14...and 240 hrs of coursework. But by that time, I had decided I didn't want to teach, I wanted to perform. So, I filed out my graduation papers and headed to NYC to pursue a singing career opportunity.
After about 2 months in NYC (now employed and singing around town), I get a notice from the U - "You have an incomplete in a required piano course that must be finished to process your graduation." Huh? Yep. The fucking grad student who ran the course fucked up! Well, I was in debt to the school to the tunes of thousands of dollars, had established myself in NYC and was earning a living, and had about enough of the academic/bureaucratic BS (in addition, I had found a great singing teacher who was busy fixing what my college teachers had fucked up in my voice), so I said, "to hell with it."
Over the next 8 years, I slowly paid off my college loans. Every couple of years, I'd inquire to see if there was a way to finish that degree, just to have it (so much work and nothing to show for it). At the same time, I got out of the music performance racket and started making real money in a totally different discipline...which pushed the desire and need to finish that degree farther down the pecking order. The last time I inquired was back in 2003, but I didn't do anything about it.
Now, I'm looking into the CA system to see if I could finish this degree by proxy. I could have done it years ago, and I probably should have. If I had had the $ resources back then, I should have probably turned around from NYC and headed back to finish that never-to-be-used degree simply because THAT was the time to do it. But I didn't have the $ and the frustration clouded my better judgment.
So, while I can understand your frustrations about the incompetence of the system, you're better off eating their shit NOW than dealing with it down the road.
At the end of the day, I'll find the time to finish that degree, even though it won't mean anything to my professional life, even though I have never and will never be a music teacher in the PE sector. But, I owe it to myself to do it. And you owe it to YOURSELF to put this thing to bed ASAP and move on to real life.
Who knows, it may even be fun!
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