LastKnight
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Wed Jun-08-05 05:42 AM
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i havent been here in awhile... |
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but i figure i can always count on DU for a friendly place... just need somethin to keep my mind off the recent lobotomy of my soul via girlfriend breaking it off out of the blue...
so, whats up, DU?
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BlondieK143
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Wed Jun-08-05 05:45 AM
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We've missed you around here! Sorry to hear about the breakup though. :hug: You've got quite a few single gals here that would hop on ya in a heartbeat. :D
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LastKnight
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Wed Jun-08-05 05:47 AM
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2. thanks for the encouragement. |
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had breakups before, none hurt this bad... it just feels bad when she can bring me to tears and destroy me and i hardly hear her flinch, and 3 days ago she was going on and on and on about how happy she was with me. I dont get women.
-LK
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Wed Jun-08-05 05:53 AM
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And trust me, sometimes we don't even get ourselves fully. I know it's hard and it sucks, but think of it this way - do you really want to spend the rest of your life with someone that changes their mind in a few days? You're a great guy and there's someone amazing out there for you. :hug: Until then, try to enjoy being single and do things YOU like to do instead of trying to make someone else happy all the time.
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LastKnight
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Wed Jun-08-05 05:55 AM
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6. heh. thats a way to look at it... |
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Edited on Wed Jun-08-05 05:56 AM by LastKnight
why do i always seem to run into you needing a smile, and how come you always seem to put one on me, making at least a small difference? dont get me wrong, its a good thing, i just wonder how you tend to do it.
thanks Blondie.
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Wed Jun-08-05 05:59 AM
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You're more than welcome. :)
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Wed Jun-08-05 05:49 AM
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Sufis say that when a heart is broken, it opens it up for more capacity to love. In my life, much of my spiritual growth seems to happen after a time of trouble and tribulation.
You may wish to try visualizing the perfect partner for yourself. Then be patient. From personal experience, I can tell you the practice and the wait can be well worth it.
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LastKnight
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Wed Jun-08-05 05:53 AM
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although i may try and wait on that visualization, i think the only thing ill come up with tonight is what put me in this situation.
but i understand what youre sayin, that which does not kill us, right?
-LK
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Wed Jun-08-05 05:56 AM
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7. Hey! Sorry to hear about the ol' ball and chain. Come on in.. |
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grab a seat and watch the stream of loonies roll on in. :pals:
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LastKnight
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Wed Jun-08-05 05:57 AM
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what kinda loonies we talkin?
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Wed Jun-08-05 06:04 AM
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10. You sure need some cheering up |
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:pals:
Pull up a seat, grab a drink, and let's all have some fun.
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LastKnight
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Wed Jun-08-05 06:05 AM
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ill have what yer havin...
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Wed Jun-08-05 06:28 AM
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12. Working at the moment - but given the weather |
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I'd go for either gin and tonic (mixed 50-50), or Pimms (which is pure sunshine and wonderfulness in a bottle).
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LastKnight
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Wed Jun-08-05 06:29 AM
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13. hell, ill take both... |
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2 of both, i could use it.
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Wed Jun-08-05 06:31 AM
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14. I mix drinks very strongly |
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I take it that this is a good thing.
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LastKnight
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Wed Jun-08-05 06:33 AM
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15. i usuially dont drink...ever. |
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but i think i may change that. at least ill see.
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