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Thu Jun-09-05 01:26 PM
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Poll question: Straight/Bi Ladies & Gay/Bi Men: Do you enjoy male strip clubs? |
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Edited on Thu Jun-09-05 02:16 PM by redqueen
I know I don't... ick... those guys are disgusting. I mean yeah they're attractive... but swinging that banana hammock around and leering... it does NOTHING for me.
But I've heard of these places being attended by rioutously enthusiastic women... I'd like to know how many here are into that sort of thing.
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Thu Jun-09-05 01:27 PM
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1. you don't like it when I swing my banana hammock? |
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Thu Jun-09-05 01:28 PM
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Soft stuff just does not excite me. At all.
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Thu Jun-09-05 01:29 PM
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5. How about if I swing my grape-smuggler instead? |
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Thu Jun-09-05 01:30 PM
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Thu Jun-09-05 01:31 PM
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9. LOL..Redqueen you are a minx |
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Taken any train rides lately, hmmm?
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Thu Jun-09-05 01:32 PM
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What?
I'm not sure what to make of that...
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Thu Jun-09-05 01:28 PM
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Edited on Thu Jun-09-05 01:30 PM by BushIsAPooHead
think guys with gigantic muscles and oiled-up skin are very attractive. Ich.
:hi:
On edit: Gimme naked nerds anyday. They do make better lovers after all. :)
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Thu Jun-09-05 01:29 PM
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Welcome to DU! :hi:
As for me... I loves me some muscled, oiled-up mens... just not too close and swinging stuff at me, thanks. :)
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Thu Jun-09-05 01:31 PM
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10. Thanks for the welcome ... |
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I can see how the swinging parts can be pretty hazardous.
;-)
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Thu Jun-09-05 01:29 PM
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4. The local Gentleman's Club has Ladies Night a couple times a year |
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and the lines are out the door and around the building. And the behavior is reported to be ... well ... quite aggressive.
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Thu Jun-09-05 01:32 PM
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12. Dass what I'm saying! |
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I hear about this behavior... and I do. not. get. it.
Wait... Ladies Night at a Gentlemen's Club? Why don't they just have both sexes strip and rake in the cash every night?
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Thu Jun-09-05 01:34 PM
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18. Because most guys are homophobic and can't stand |
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to see another man naked, except behind the privacy of the locker room door at the gym.
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Thu Jun-09-05 01:35 PM
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19. Probably to build up the energy. |
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How often would the average female go to a strip club as opposed to the avg male?
It's all about supply and demand.
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Thu Jun-09-05 01:32 PM
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14. That's what I've always heard |
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The female strippers will make you think you have a chance. With the male ones, you have more than a chance, a likelihood.
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Thu Jun-09-05 01:33 PM
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Thu Jun-09-05 01:30 PM
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I like them, myself. There's a bar in Toronto called Remington's....where the guys take ALL off. All have a good time...and one can procure a lap dance from the strippers if one wanted to. :-)
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Thu Jun-09-05 01:33 PM
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SORRY! Yes, thanks... glad you chimed in. :)
I deserve a spanking for that. :(
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Thu Jun-09-05 01:35 PM
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20. No....don't worry about it! |
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I have a tendency to just barge in a conversation, sometimes.
I saw where you included guys in your question. I just didn't see it. :-)
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Thu Jun-09-05 01:37 PM
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23. No silly I edited that in... |
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Edited on Thu Jun-09-05 01:37 PM by redqueen
I'm happy you barged into this conversation. :)
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Thu Jun-09-05 01:39 PM
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It's a great question. Plus, the nighttime folks will want to chime in, also. :-)
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Thu Jun-09-05 01:32 PM
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Don't want to.
Plainly put...the mostly- or fully-nude male body is kind of funny looking. I'm not saying I don't appreciate it...but it's funny looking, whether it's tanned and toned or bony or soft or whatever.
And the women there would just get. on. my. nerves.
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Thu Jun-09-05 01:35 PM
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But haven't you seen male strippers at birthday parties & stuff?
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Thu Jun-09-05 01:41 PM
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Someone else's party at the same restaurant(!) that my parents and my grandmother and I went to(!). The view was blocked, but the women were screaming and swooning.
Never at a private party, though, and I suspect that would take care of the screaming, swooning women, though, as I can't imagine any of my girlfriends doing that (then again, you never know). My friends tend to do the standard dinner/drinks type parties, even for bachelorette parties.
There were no strippers at my own bachelorette party -- I didn't want them, for the silly factor listed above.
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Thu Jun-09-05 01:48 PM
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30. A restaurant allowed that?! |
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Whoa... weird. And nasty.
I've seen a few... one at an office birthday party (only a few women, so it was up close and personal), and once at a birthday party at a club.
Yeah... if you think they're funny looking, I doubt you wanna see the gyrating up close... *grimaces*
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Thu Jun-09-05 02:02 PM
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36. It was a "private room" at a restaurant, and the door was open. |
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Yeah. Weird and nasty just about covers it.
I don't know... I don't want to get the thread locked or my post deleted...but if a man's crotch is in my face, it's for a reason other than I've paid him to gyrate. ;-)
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Thu Jun-09-05 02:11 PM
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Trust me, that's a much better reason... maybe it's just me, but being up close to flopping, flaccid units are not my idea of a good time. Unless I know the guy... :P
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Thu Jun-09-05 02:12 PM
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Thu Jun-09-05 01:32 PM
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LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL!!!
I'm howling here.
*gasp*
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Thu Jun-09-05 02:11 PM
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Glad you got a good laugh out of that. :hi:
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Thu Jun-09-05 01:35 PM
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21. i can respect and do acknowledge how others might enjoy it..... |
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it ain't for me, but netither were any of the choices in your pole. i mean poll! what do people say about the mental health and morals of male strippers? nada. interesting.
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Thu Jun-09-05 01:39 PM
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27. I do wonder about that... |
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Edited on Thu Jun-09-05 01:39 PM by redqueen
It isn't talked about much, but then neither is parents' reluctance to tolerate "tomgirl" (?) behavior from their sons, despite their acceptance of "tomboy" behavior from their daughters.
Yes, I do wonder if pushing males to recognize sexuality as a power struggle has something to do with their sexual behavior...
And what would your answer be? I'd love to add it for you. :)
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Thu Jun-09-05 03:31 PM
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43. i know other women enjoy it, but i think it's just a goof |
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Edited on Thu Jun-09-05 03:35 PM by bettyellen
kinda sums it up for me. i went to chippendales once merely because it was free, my friend knew a bartender, and it was too early to go to a club and we were drunk at 7 pm (she had crashed my company x mas party. all the other women there were much older and suburban and married. they had a hoot, the time of their lives. i didn't get it at all at the time, becasue sex was pretty easy to get for me... but i think they all had husbands who also "stopped trying" to be attractive and alluring and playful, and they were just loving it. it is just about fantasy, you know? i was not into them myself, but kinda facinated. one performer's intro was swinging in on a vine like tarzan, very high poduction values. from what i could see, the guys were similar to a lot of women i knew. they wish they were acting/ singing in hollywood, but this paid the bills. it was kinda cool seeing the shoe on the other foot. but why aren't people judging the guys and saying they're victimizing themselves? this is what i don't get. some people, men and women, can handle the just playing thing better than others, i think. they're not all victims from what i've seen. i think the "sex has to be with love" people don't get that, and they pathologize what is not their norm. i betcha i don't respect a lot of their norms too. but i don't think they're screwed up.
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Thu Jun-09-05 03:43 PM
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In fact, I've used those same arguments in the "porn victimizes women" debates.
I'm still slightly conflicted about it... but that may be from my personal experience, so...
:shrug:
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Thu Jun-09-05 03:53 PM
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45. i think the older i get, the more i respect other peoples needs |
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and don't judge them. at the time i was like, WTF how could these women enjoy this at all? getting older and seeing people married for 15 years, i kinda see why it would be a treat for them. the strippers are just another fantasy, harlequin romances come to life. not my cup of tea, but so what?
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Thu Jun-09-05 01:37 PM
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24. I've never been to one. |
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From what it sounds like, for me personally, it would feel like too much. I don't like that aggressive aspect thing that I hear it can be. I like men. I like men's bodies, but that "in my face thing" is too much in terms of a man I didn't know. Plus, I don't like pushy men. I'd rather have something more in private from a man I'd actually want to sleep with. I'd rather have a pretty girl I didn't know do that kind of stuff because I can deal with aggressive woman more than aggressive men. It may be funky, but we all have our little quirks and preferences I suppose. :shrug:
If someone's into it though, cool. :)
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Thu Jun-09-05 01:50 PM
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31. Oh they're pushy alright. |
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Whoa nelly!
I've never had a lap dance from a woman, but I've been to strip clubs and I was always pretty bored.
:shrug:
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Thu Jun-09-05 05:08 PM
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51. That would turn me off. |
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Edited on Thu Jun-09-05 05:08 PM by SarahBelle
Nope, not me. No pushy guys. :thumbsdown:
Never been to a strip club and watched women, but I would most definitely try that. I'd probably rather see a sex show in all honesty, but I think one has to go to Amsterdam for that stuff. Maybe NYC? Who knows? I'm sure when the time is right I could easily find whatever I'd want.
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Thu Jun-09-05 01:38 PM
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Thu Jun-09-05 01:47 PM
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with a bunch of girlfriends. I found the experience loud, threatening and just really very stupid. The strippers were so aggressive. They came into the crowd and grabbed the girls and pulled them on the stage to "dance" with them. I am not a prude but it felt very intrusive and uncomfortable to me to have some dopey looking muscle boy in a sling grab me. When I wouldn't go he did a headstand on my chair (his head between my legs) and wrapped his thighs around my neck.
Personally, besides that experience, I found it all very stupid. Naked men are great things but the whole performance thing was just silly.
Some women were wild though and loved it. :shrug: Female strippers, at least the ones I have seen, at least seemed somewhat arty about it. I suppose that is often not the case though.
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Thu Jun-09-05 01:51 PM
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He put his thighs around your head? I dunno what's worse... that or the time this stripper grabbed my hand and physically encouraged me to touch his (flaccid) package.
:scared:
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Thu Jun-09-05 01:56 PM
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In my one experience I found that you had no option, either join in willingly or they will grab you. One poor embarrassed younger woman ran into the bathroom and the guy went after her, she got away and ran into the parking lot and he went after her and dragged her back in. I don't know if they have calmed down at all since those early days, this had to have been 1982 or so. It just felt really intrusive and creepy.
So he made you touch? Ick. I find nothing about forcible sex enjoyable.
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Thu Jun-09-05 02:14 PM
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40. No, he TRIED to make me touch. |
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I'm surprisingly strong. :)
That guy chasing ... I woulda freaked out. That's so wrong. I'm sure not going back to find out if it's any different.
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Thu Jun-09-05 02:28 PM
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Nope, never again. Besides, it is much sexier to be with a guy you like and want than to watch one you don't even know prancing around shaking his stuff. Really, I don't find it attractive at all.
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Thu Jun-09-05 01:58 PM
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35. I guess my post did not go through |
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but I responded to you in the other thread on this matter. I can take it or leave it.
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Thu Jun-09-05 03:58 PM
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46. Those guys always ask me to stay until the end of the show! |
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I'm not going to sit there for 8 hours stuff $1 in underwear!
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Thu Jun-09-05 04:21 PM
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48. You could just show up right before they close... |
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Thu Jun-09-05 04:14 PM
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47. I Don't Go "All The Time"... But When I Do Go, I Love It. |
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As much as one *can* love something like that. It's fun... titillating, and when you can cop a free feel for a dollar or two... a real bargain!
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Thu Jun-09-05 04:21 PM
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I suppose it is a bargain, at that!
:hi:
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Thu Jun-09-05 04:27 PM
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now i figured what i did... i responded to the wrong thread :silly:
no shit... after i posted the first time, i was like 'was this the thread i just read?' :wtf:
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