If you could be in a relationship for 20 years....

[Robb]

Here's the ponderance of the night:

If you could choose between two relationships, each one a long one, would you prefer:

1. The stable, steady relationship, little or no drama, even-keel, scarcely super-hot or super-down, or

2. The crazy, up and down all the time, dramatic, huge, super-hot highs, and terrifying lows?

Vote. Discuss. :evilgrin:

[u4ic]

1. Funny,

my relationship with Steven was the crazy, up and down all the time, dramatic, huge, super-hot highs, and terrifying lows. :shrug:

I'll take door #1. Steady doesn't necessarily mean boring.

[AlienGirl]

2. Steady. Drama sucks. nt

[LynzM]

3. Second that.

It makes my stomach hurt. I've had enough of it for a lifetime already, thanks :(

[BleedingHeartPatriot]

4. I thought you were going to ask what you would value most

My husband and I have been married for twenty years, with ups and downs...

two things keep us going, even when times are tough...

our combined sense of humor and, well, I must confess, the sex.

:blush:



MKJ