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Maddy McCall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-19-05 04:42 PM
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To DU's moms raising kids alone: Happy Father's Day!
My son woke me up this morning and told me "Happy Father's Day, Mom." He said that he has a mother and a father all rolled up in one.

:toast: to us women who do it all alone.

HAPPY FATHER'S DAY!
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knowbody0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-19-05 04:45 PM
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1. back at ya Maddy McCall!
can we still be feminists if we are mom/dads?
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Maddy McCall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-19-05 04:52 PM
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5. Heck yeah.
:D
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knowbody0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-19-05 04:53 PM
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7. OK then,
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MountainLaurel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-19-05 04:51 PM
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2. Ditto
Edited on Sun Jun-19-05 04:57 PM by MountainLaurel
I used to wish that my mom were single, my dad was that much of an emotionally destructive (to my brother and me) asshat.

:applause:
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Maddy McCall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-19-05 04:53 PM
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6. ....
:grouphug: :D
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acmavm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-19-05 04:51 PM
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3. How nice. Thank you.
I let my son go to Lincoln to see his 'father' today even though he hasn't done a damn thing for him in his life. (The state is trying to collect back child support for me.) But my son loves him. I had to let him go even though I didn't want to.

Oh well, so goes life.
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Maddy McCall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-19-05 04:54 PM
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8. You are a wonderful mother.
A double :toast: :toast: to you. Good luck on the child support. And :hug: to you for taking the high road.
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acmavm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-19-05 05:03 PM
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11. Again, thanks a lot. I hate the high road. Sometimes I find myself
getting nosebleeds from the altitude I'm up there so much.

But it's that or run the risk of my son resenting me for the rest of my life. Believe me, I'm not a martyr, don't think I am. I let him go so that he doesn't hold it against me that they don't have a relationship. If I thought otherwise, who knows how I'd act.



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Maddy McCall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-19-05 05:05 PM
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12. He will know the truth one day.
As I said in a thread yesterday, it amazes me that some parents refuse to provide any financial support for their children.

I don't get child support, either. :hug:
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maveric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-19-05 04:52 PM
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4. As a single Dad I beleive that single Moms have it much tougher.
A salute to single Moms everywhere!
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Maddy McCall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-19-05 04:55 PM
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9. Hey, Single DAD!
Here's a :toast: to you. You are a rare gem and your children are lucky to have you.

:hug:
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GetTheRightVote Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-19-05 05:02 PM
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10. thank you !!
:kick:
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