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friesianrider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-05 10:57 PM Original message |
Need Divorce advice - very long drama here ;) |
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Proud2BAmurkin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-05 11:03 PM Response to Original message |
1. Isn't spousal support rare these days |
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IChing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-05 11:05 PM Response to Original message |
2. she old enough to retrieve balls if she wants to |
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friesianrider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-05 11:10 PM Response to Reply #2 |
5. t does harm me...incredibly |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-05 11:06 PM Response to Original message |
3. She needs to talk to a lawyer |
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Lex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-05 11:09 PM Response to Original message |
4. If his infidelity can be proven, that usually cancels out |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-05 11:13 PM Response to Reply #4 |
9. Infidelity doesn't mean much |
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Lex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-05 11:14 PM Response to Reply #9 |
10. In my state, we still have alimony, but infidelity or abuse can disqualify |
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friesianrider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-05 11:19 PM Response to Reply #10 |
14. We're in PA... |
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Lex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-05 11:25 PM Response to Reply #14 |
16. That's why she needs at least an initial consultation with a |
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autorank (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-05 11:15 PM Response to Reply #4 |
11. Not in Virginia. Infidelity has little if any bearing on spousal support |
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Floogeldy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-05 11:11 PM Response to Original message |
6. Can your mom spell A-T-T-O-R-N-E-Y? |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-05 11:11 PM Response to Original message |
7. Each state has different laws |
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autorank (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-05 11:12 PM Response to Original message |
8. You need to deal with your mother. |
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friesianrider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-05 11:22 PM Response to Reply #8 |
15. She's afraid to confront him...on much... |
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autorank (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-05 11:34 PM Response to Reply #15 |
17. That's her problem. She needs to be told how you feel about it. |
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micrometer_50 (367 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-05 11:16 PM Response to Original message |
12. Why do you let Mom do 99% : couldn't you do 5%? |
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friesianrider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-05 11:19 PM Response to Reply #12 |
13. On edit... |
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readmylips (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-05 11:46 PM Response to Original message |
18. How long have they been married?... |
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friesianrider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 01:51 AM Response to Reply #18 |
25. 15 years. |
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DesEtoiles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-05 11:56 PM Response to Original message |
19. is it a community property state? is there a prenup? |
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leftofthedial (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-20-05 11:58 PM Response to Original message |
20. what's your mother's phone number |
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gardenista (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 12:19 AM Response to Original message |
21. you've gotten great advice re: legal help. Hope your mom avails herself |
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madeline_con (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 01:19 AM Response to Original message |
22. there are ways... |
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friesianrider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 01:49 AM Response to Reply #22 |
24. I LIKE the way your mind works... |
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Droopy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 01:30 AM Response to Original message |
23. The guy is a leech |
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friesianrider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 01:52 AM Response to Reply #23 |
26. Absolutely a leech. |
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Droopy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 01:54 AM Response to Reply #26 |
27. I don't know about that |
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friesianrider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 02:04 AM Response to Reply #27 |
29. She was not abused... |
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CaliforniaPeggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 02:01 AM Response to Reply #26 |
28. She may feel as though she doesn't deserve any better treatment |
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friesianrider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 02:05 AM Response to Reply #28 |
30. Yes, a very big mess. |
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LiberallyInclined (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 02:15 AM Response to Original message |
31. kill him with kindness. |
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deebo550 (58 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 09:46 AM Response to Reply #31 |
32. my first post =) |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 10:00 AM Response to Reply #32 |
34. You should have taken him up on it and kicked his ass. |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 10:02 AM Response to Reply #32 |
35. Welcome to DU! |
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Modem Butterfly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 09:52 AM Response to Original message |
33. Don't get involved in someone else's relationship |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 10:06 AM Response to Original message |
36. A lot is going to depend on how long they have been married. |
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Bridget Burke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 10:20 AM Response to Original message |
37. She needs to talk to a good divorce lawyer... |
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