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Niccolo_Macchiavelli (641 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 09:22 AM Original message |
Remind me why love is good... |
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Bridget Burke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 09:26 AM Response to Original message |
1. So--you constructed a fantasy around her & she didn't go along with it. |
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Hugin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 09:28 AM Response to Reply #1 |
2. It's the "anger" phase... |
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Niccolo_Macchiavelli (641 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 09:38 AM Response to Reply #1 |
5. a fantasy? |
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Ready4Change (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 09:47 AM Response to Reply #5 |
7. Love is a two way street. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 09:31 AM Response to Original message |
3. Forget about this jerk and move on. |
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johnnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 09:33 AM Response to Original message |
4. Ehhh |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 09:49 AM Original message |
That didn't take long. n/t |
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johnnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 09:54 AM Response to Original message |
9. What didn't? |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 10:04 AM Response to Reply #9 |
11. The insinuation that all women love jerks. |
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johnnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 10:08 AM Response to Reply #11 |
12. Sorry |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 10:13 AM Response to Reply #12 |
14. It's no big deal. |
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johnnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 10:20 AM Response to Reply #14 |
16. I know |
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Niccolo_Macchiavelli (641 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 10:08 AM Response to Reply #11 |
13. FYI |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 10:13 AM Response to Reply #13 |
15. I know... |
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Niccolo_Macchiavelli (641 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 10:27 AM Response to Reply #15 |
20. Non native English speaker/writer (eom) |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 10:25 AM Response to Reply #4 |
19. See, here's the Great Young Guy Legend stated in all its glory |
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johnnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 10:31 AM Response to Reply #19 |
22. Well |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 11:44 AM Response to Reply #4 |
30. well |
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johnnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 12:05 PM Response to Reply #30 |
33. Thank you for the kind words |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 12:12 PM Response to Reply #33 |
35. sure! |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 06:32 PM Response to Reply #30 |
58. It's that neurochemical thing that'll send you to the loony bin! |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 09:44 AM Response to Original message |
6. That's sad. |
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MissMillie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 09:49 AM Response to Reply #6 |
8. Well said |
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Niccolo_Macchiavelli (641 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 10:02 AM Response to Reply #6 |
10. I'll hope i die before i do. |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 10:21 AM Response to Original message |
17. I've been there, Niccolo, but in the end, it takes two to play, and |
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Niccolo_Macchiavelli (641 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 10:48 AM Response to Reply #17 |
25. as sad as it is... |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 11:46 AM Response to Reply #17 |
31. nicely said LL |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 10:25 AM Response to Original message |
18. Isn't moneyanity lovely? |
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Debbi801 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 10:29 AM Response to Original message |
21. I'm sorry... Sometimes some women do stupid things... |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 10:31 AM Response to Original message |
23. If you're not attractive to a woman, no amount of niceness will work |
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StopTheMorans (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 10:41 AM Response to Reply #23 |
24. exactly |
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simpleplan (37 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 11:04 AM Response to Reply #24 |
29. You have recieved a lot of great insight today. |
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nini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 10:55 AM Response to Original message |
26. oh grow the fuck up. |
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prolesunited (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 11:01 AM Response to Reply #26 |
28. My, aren't you the sensitive one. |
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nini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 12:29 PM Response to Reply #28 |
38. When it comes to misogynistic crap like this - YES |
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Niccolo_Macchiavelli (641 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 06:16 PM Response to Reply #38 |
54. Actually it was a summary feeling |
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nini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 06:30 PM Response to Reply #54 |
57. You've had shitty experiences then.. |
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Niccolo_Macchiavelli (641 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 06:58 PM Response to Reply #57 |
61. concerning relationships that was really a shitty indeed |
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nini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 07:12 PM Response to Reply #61 |
65. the jerk boyfriend will behave for a while but once he is comfortable.. |
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Zomby Woof (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 01:07 PM Response to Reply #28 |
42. She is actually VERY sensitive |
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Susang (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 12:13 PM Response to Reply #26 |
36. Yikes |
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Zomby Woof (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 01:05 PM Response to Reply #36 |
41. I think she handled it perfectly |
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Susang (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 04:08 PM Response to Reply #41 |
44. I just saw a guy in pain lashing out |
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GirlinContempt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 05:05 PM Response to Reply #26 |
47. I missed the part |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 06:34 PM Response to Reply #47 |
59. Check this post... |
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prolesunited (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 10:59 AM Response to Original message |
27. My perspective |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 11:47 AM Response to Reply #27 |
32. as usual Proles |
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Niccolo_Macchiavelli (641 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 12:27 PM Response to Reply #27 |
37. just to make that clear |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 12:37 PM Response to Reply #37 |
39. Don't assume that discontent has to be voiced, or else everything |
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fudge stripe cookays (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 12:55 PM Response to Reply #37 |
40. Don't assume... |
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Niccolo_Macchiavelli (641 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 01:48 PM Response to Reply #40 |
43. since i'm not a telepath yet... |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 04:15 PM Response to Reply #43 |
46. I think what FSC and I are trying to say is that you may not ever GET |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 05:28 PM Response to Reply #37 |
49. Niccolo, if she's trying to be "nice" and "pleasant" and |
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Niccolo_Macchiavelli (641 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 06:27 PM Response to Reply #49 |
56. you might have a point there |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 06:54 PM Response to Reply #56 |
60. And sometimes you just have to give them up, unfortunately |
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Niccolo_Macchiavelli (641 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 07:08 PM Response to Reply #60 |
63. yeppers |
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cestpaspossible (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 05:50 PM Response to Reply #27 |
52. Infatuation isn't love, but it also isn't obsession. |
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leftofthedial (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 12:06 PM Response to Original message |
34. love is a delusion |
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KG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 04:10 PM Response to Original message |
45. relationship are over-rated; self-love is where it's at! |
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BreweryYardRat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 05:24 PM Response to Original message |
48. Ouch. |
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Nikia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 05:36 PM Response to Original message |
50. I didn't always get the guy who I "loved" either |
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cestpaspossible (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 05:44 PM Response to Original message |
51. You said yourself why love is good |
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sendero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 05:52 PM Response to Original message |
53. Wow.. |
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Niccolo_Macchiavelli (641 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 06:18 PM Response to Reply #53 |
55. no challenge? |
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sendero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 07:04 PM Response to Reply #55 |
62. Sort of... |
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Niccolo_Macchiavelli (641 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 07:12 PM Response to Reply #62 |
64. good point |
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Fleshdancer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 07:14 PM Response to Original message |
66. Thank you for being so wonderful. |
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Niccolo_Macchiavelli (641 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 07:57 PM Response to Reply #66 |
67. you do me too much honor |
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Fleshdancer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 08:12 PM Response to Reply #67 |
68. well.... |
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Niccolo_Macchiavelli (641 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 08:23 PM Response to Reply #68 |
69. habit. |
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rstlne (65 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-21-05 08:47 PM Response to Reply #69 |
70. love being in love |
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