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GiovanniC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 07:50 AM Original message |
Question About Wedding Registries |
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shoelace414 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 07:52 AM Response to Original message |
1. I have a friend who |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 10:18 AM Response to Reply #1 |
54. register at a liquor store |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 07:58 AM Response to Original message |
2. I believe the etiquette experts would also call it tacky in the extreme. |
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newportdadde (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 08:02 AM Response to Original message |
3. I think your both too far along in your lives for wedding registries. |
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GiovanniC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 08:22 AM Response to Reply #3 |
8. If We Could Get Away With It, We Would |
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progmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 08:39 AM Response to Reply #8 |
14. yes - that is exactly true |
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BeTheChange (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 10:28 AM Response to Reply #8 |
57. You are right... |
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Orangepeel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 10:48 AM Response to Reply #8 |
60. anyone who will give you a George Foreman grill would give you one anyway |
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Mizmoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 08:03 AM Response to Original message |
4. The honeymoon thing won't work |
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Bridget Burke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 08:04 AM Response to Original message |
5. If you know the people, why not explain what you need? |
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radwriter0555 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 08:18 AM Response to Reply #5 |
7. You just said it all. |
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GiovanniC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 08:32 AM Response to Reply #5 |
12. Because |
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cassandra uprising (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 08:17 AM Response to Original message |
6. I'm in a similar boat myself. |
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GiovanniC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 08:28 AM Response to Reply #6 |
10. That's My Feeling As Well |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 08:31 AM Response to Reply #6 |
11. Actually, the etiquette mavens DO consider registries of any sort |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 08:24 AM Response to Original message |
9. No, asking for money is tacky, which is too bad |
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GiovanniC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 08:37 AM Response to Reply #9 |
13. I Was Told That Putting "Please, No Gifts" on the Invitation |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 08:43 AM Response to Reply #13 |
16. I don't think so at all |
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GiovanniC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 08:53 AM Response to Reply #16 |
20. *You* Don't Think It's Tacky and *I* Don't Think It's Tacky |
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BeTheChange (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 10:35 AM Response to Reply #16 |
59. Saying no gifts on an invite makes it look like you have the presumption.. |
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northzax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 08:53 AM Response to Reply #9 |
21. don't mention gifts at all |
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GiovanniC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 09:04 AM Response to Reply #21 |
30. I've Told People Close to Us |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 08:41 AM Response to Original message |
15. *Ahem* Here's what you put in the invitations: |
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Thtwudbeme (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 08:47 AM Response to Reply #15 |
17. This is the correct solution; I used to do wedding planning |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 08:51 AM Response to Reply #15 |
19. Doh.... didn't know you said the same thing... |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 08:50 AM Response to Original message |
18. Ask them to donate to causes you support instead of buying gifts. |
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northzax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 08:57 AM Response to Reply #18 |
23. but that doesn't solve the problem |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 08:58 AM Response to Reply #23 |
24. Well.... I was offering a suggestion that would be my choice... |
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northzax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 08:59 AM Response to Reply #24 |
25. that's kinda what we're all dancing around |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 09:02 AM Response to Reply #25 |
27. thanks... |
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GiovanniC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 09:10 AM Response to Reply #23 |
31. The Problem Isn't Really Paying For the Honeymoon Per Se |
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northzax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 09:15 AM Response to Reply #31 |
32. I know! a handmade wedding! |
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distantearlywarning (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 08:56 AM Response to Original message |
22. I got married last December, |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 09:02 AM Response to Reply #22 |
28. It's stupid it's okay to say where you are registered, but NOT "no gifts" |
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Bridget Burke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 09:22 AM Response to Reply #28 |
40. You can "say" anything you want to friends & family. |
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northzax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 09:25 AM Response to Reply #28 |
41. no, it's not ok to advertise where you are registered |
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Bridget Burke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 10:09 AM Response to Reply #41 |
46. That's assuming the happy couple actually talks to the guests! |
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northzax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 10:15 AM Response to Reply #46 |
50. I don't want semi-strangers at my wedding, personally |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 10:13 AM Response to Reply #41 |
49. Oh, *I* know it's not okay to advertise it, but the majority of America |
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GiovanniC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 09:18 AM Response to Reply #22 |
36. This is EXACTLY, EXACTLY, EXACTLY What I'm Saying |
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LynneSin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 09:01 AM Response to Original message |
26. I personally think asking for cash is a good thing |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 09:04 AM Response to Original message |
29. Asking for money is extremely tacky. Don't do it. |
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GiovanniC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 09:15 AM Response to Reply #29 |
33. The Way It Has Been Explained To Me, Repeatedly |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 09:18 AM Response to Reply #33 |
35. I never heard that, to be honest. |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 10:16 AM Original message |
I was going to suggest charitable donations myself. |
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distantearlywarning (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 09:18 AM Response to Reply #33 |
37. But registries don't assume that the guests will buy you gifts??? |
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GiovanniC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 09:20 AM Response to Reply #37 |
38. I Know! |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 10:16 AM Response to Reply #37 |
52. Yes, they do. |
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distantearlywarning (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 09:17 AM Response to Reply #29 |
34. Actually, I heard the |
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LynneSin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 09:21 AM Response to Reply #29 |
39. That tackiness is because people running wedding registries... |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 09:26 AM Response to Reply #39 |
42. That is possible, but I think that wedding registries |
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LynneSin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 09:59 AM Response to Reply #42 |
45. But I don't see those lists as something that the bride/mother-to-be.. |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 10:17 AM Response to Reply #39 |
53. They're not in cahoots with Miss Manners. |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 09:51 AM Response to Original message |
43. Okay, Miss Manners has spoken: |
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GiovanniC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 10:11 AM Response to Reply #43 |
48. What About People Who Want No Gifts At All? |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 09:57 AM Response to Original message |
44. Wait, check this out: |
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BeTheChange (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 10:11 AM Response to Original message |
47. www.thehoneymoon.com |
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GiovanniC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 10:16 AM Response to Reply #47 |
51. This Is What We Looked At |
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BeTheChange (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 10:53 AM Response to Reply #51 |
61. Middle america... |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 11:15 AM Response to Reply #61 |
63. messages on the beach? What's that? |
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BeTheChange (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 11:18 AM Response to Reply #63 |
64. massages on the beach.... |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 11:20 AM Response to Reply #64 |
65. Oh, massages |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 11:11 AM Response to Reply #51 |
62. Go for it |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 10:23 AM Response to Original message |
55. You can make it easier |
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cally (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 10:26 AM Response to Original message |
56. I like the idea of a honeymoon registry |
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Orangepeel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 10:35 AM Response to Original message |
58. We didn't register and I'm very glad that we didn't |
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