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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 04:45 PM Original message |
Does this make me sound racist? |
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Goldmund (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 04:47 PM Response to Original message |
1. Um... no. |
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bertha katzenengel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 04:48 PM Response to Original message |
2. No. |
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Goldmund (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 04:50 PM Response to Reply #2 |
5. I agree |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 04:53 PM Response to Reply #5 |
8. Well, it is a contributing factor... |
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Goldmund (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:03 PM Response to Reply #8 |
27. They would instead... |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 04:53 PM Response to Reply #5 |
9. I agree with you. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 04:57 PM Response to Reply #9 |
15. Oh you have no idea how livid I was... |
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Zuni (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:04 PM Response to Reply #9 |
33. agreed |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 04:53 PM Response to Reply #2 |
7. Well... |
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bertha katzenengel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 04:59 PM Response to Reply #7 |
18. Some people are going to think you're a racist no matter what. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:00 PM Response to Reply #18 |
21. Thanks for the advice. |
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bertha katzenengel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:13 PM Response to Reply #21 |
46. It's too late . . . . Then I'm sorry I suggested it. |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:13 PM Response to Reply #18 |
48. Agreed--that is the line that troubled me. |
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Kikosexy2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 04:48 PM Response to Original message |
3. Nope... |
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Kraklen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 04:49 PM Response to Original message |
4. Tough call. |
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SouthoftheBorderPaul (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 04:52 PM Response to Reply #4 |
6. Wow, what a situation. Sorry you're going thru this. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:04 PM Response to Reply #6 |
29. Thanks! |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 04:54 PM Response to Reply #4 |
11. Why? |
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Kraklen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 04:56 PM Response to Reply #11 |
14. You wanted my opinion, there it is. |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 04:58 PM Response to Reply #14 |
17. I don't think she is avoiding the school b/c of the racial |
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Kraklen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:00 PM Response to Reply #17 |
20. Little kids are "teased and threatened" at all schools. |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:03 PM Response to Reply #20 |
25. I don't think it is racist. Her child may not be able to learn |
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Kraklen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:04 PM Response to Reply #25 |
31. I think that's what's essentially going on. |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:13 PM Response to Reply #31 |
49. How can you say that based on what she wrote? |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:05 PM Response to Reply #20 |
34. I don't take the racial makeup pretty seriously! |
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Kraklen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:07 PM Response to Reply #34 |
35. The kid who roughhoused your daughter... |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:08 PM Response to Reply #35 |
40. That wasn't really her point! |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:08 PM Response to Reply #35 |
41. I don't even know! |
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Kraklen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:10 PM Response to Reply #41 |
43. So you weren't even a witness? |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:13 PM Response to Reply #43 |
47. I know she asked for opinions here, but you seem to be |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:14 PM Response to Reply #47 |
50. Deleted message |
Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:15 PM Response to Reply #50 |
51. Wow! What an assumption to make on someone you don't even know! |
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Kraklen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:16 PM Response to Reply #51 |
53. She asked. |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:18 PM Response to Reply #53 |
55. You don't think there is anything personal about calling |
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Kraklen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:21 PM Response to Reply #55 |
58. Nope. |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:24 PM Response to Reply #58 |
61. Maybe there is no problem, Doctor. |
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Kraklen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:29 PM Response to Reply #61 |
71. A question was asked. |
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Goldmund (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:20 PM Response to Reply #53 |
57. And you base that on what? |
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Kraklen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:22 PM Response to Reply #57 |
59. LOL. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:24 PM Response to Reply #51 |
62. Would you please kindly PM me the contents of that post? |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:27 PM Response to Reply #62 |
65. Check your PM! |
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Kraklen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:28 PM Original message |
I answered your original question in the affirmative. |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:30 PM Response to Original message |
72. You sound so proud! I think most people would take that personally! |
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Kraklen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:28 PM Response to Reply #62 |
69. I answered your original question in the affirmative. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:30 PM Response to Reply #69 |
73. Um, calling someone a racist is, *by definition*, personal. |
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Kraklen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:32 PM Response to Reply #73 |
75. Why'd you ask the question then? |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:34 PM Response to Reply #75 |
77. She didn't ask if we thought she was a closet racist. |
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Kraklen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:39 PM Response to Reply #77 |
88. Would you rather I lie? |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:42 PM Response to Reply #88 |
91. Judging people you don't know is a large problem as well! |
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Kraklen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:46 PM Response to Reply #91 |
94. I was asked a question. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:34 PM Response to Reply #75 |
78. Ugh. |
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Kraklen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:35 PM Response to Reply #78 |
82. You're splitting hairs. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:36 PM Response to Reply #82 |
85. Logic = splitting hairs? |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:36 PM Response to Reply #78 |
84. Sometimes the ignore button can come in handy!! |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:37 PM Response to Reply #84 |
86. You just said a mouthful! |
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Kraklen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:40 PM Response to Reply #86 |
89. Yes, "ignoring" things can come in handy. |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:43 PM Response to Reply #89 |
92. Yeah if there is a problem to begin with! |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:40 PM Response to Reply #86 |
90. No problem! And don't worry about what some |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:23 PM Response to Reply #43 |
60. No, the teacher told my husband about it after school. |
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Kraklen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:27 PM Response to Reply #60 |
67. Looks like I assumed exactly what happened. |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:29 PM Response to Reply #67 |
70. You sure are something else, I tell ya! |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:33 PM Response to Reply #67 |
76. Where do your kids go to school? |
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Kraklen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:35 PM Response to Reply #76 |
80. Kindergarten age kids fight. |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 07:04 PM Response to Reply #80 |
103. A COMPETENT kindergarten teacher |
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Kraklen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 07:05 PM Response to Reply #103 |
104. Mmhmm. |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-23-05 08:21 AM Response to Reply #104 |
105. No you are giving the teacher the benefit of the doubt |
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July (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 06:42 PM Response to Reply #34 |
98. redqueen, protect your child. |
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July (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 06:39 PM Response to Reply #17 |
97. Have to agree. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 04:59 PM Response to Reply #14 |
19. No... you misread. |
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Kraklen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:02 PM Response to Reply #19 |
22. Sound like typical child roughhousing to me. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:07 PM Response to Reply #22 |
37. Why did you edit out the last part of that sentence? |
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Kraklen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:09 PM Response to Reply #37 |
42. Because that was the relevant clause. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:26 PM Response to Reply #42 |
64. You're quite wrong. You're doing what O'Reilly does, do you know that? |
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Kraklen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:32 PM Response to Reply #64 |
74. The second half of the post IS irrelevant to the first half. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:34 PM Response to Reply #74 |
79. Okay... yeah. This is pointless. |
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July (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 06:46 PM Response to Reply #79 |
99. Don't bother arguing with someone who has decided you're "bad." |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 04:54 PM Response to Reply #4 |
12. Explain please! |
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DebJ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 04:54 PM Response to Original message |
10. I can understand. Let me tell you what happened to my family. |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:02 PM Response to Reply #10 |
24. "Most school children are VICIOUS" |
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Zuni (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:07 PM Response to Reply #24 |
38. it is immaturity and lack of well developed judgement making facilities |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:15 PM Response to Reply #38 |
52. and it is a lack of empathy and compassion in children |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:19 PM Response to Reply #38 |
56. I think children are born selfish (me, me, me) and then some |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:11 PM Response to Reply #24 |
45. children are very representative of their parenting |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:17 PM Response to Reply #45 |
54. you got that straight...I see it all over my family and |
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paula777 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 04:55 PM Response to Original message |
13. Nope |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 04:57 PM Response to Original message |
16. hmmmm....my son was stabbed in the chest with a pencil |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:02 PM Response to Reply #16 |
23. It seems you're insinuating that I think the violence is due to race. |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:07 PM Response to Reply #23 |
36. Do what you feel will help your child the most. Who cares |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:28 PM Response to Reply #36 |
68. You're so sweet! |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:39 PM Response to Reply #68 |
87. Logical people think that way, others, on the other hand, well |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:08 PM Response to Reply #23 |
39. have you spent a lot of time around a lot of children? |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:10 PM Response to Reply #39 |
44. Well I certainly have while working at the YMCA for a long time and |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:35 PM Response to Reply #39 |
81. I *did*. |
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July (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 06:50 PM Response to Reply #23 |
100. Life is messy, but you're not required to tolerate difficult circumstances |
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Zuni (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:03 PM Response to Original message |
26. fuck what people think---do what is good for your little girl |
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Burma Jones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:27 PM Response to Reply #26 |
66. Agree - Your Kid always comes first |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:03 PM Response to Original message |
28. no |
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Crunchy Frog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:04 PM Response to Original message |
30. It's not right for any kid to be teased because of her skin color. |
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Jara sang (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:04 PM Response to Original message |
32. There is only one definition for racism |
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mark414 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:25 PM Response to Reply #32 |
63. huh? |
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Jara sang (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:35 PM Response to Reply #63 |
83. What do you mean? |
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jonnyblitz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 06:50 PM Response to Reply #83 |
101. you're post made sense to me. |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:45 PM Response to Original message |
93. The thing is, it's not a very well worded paragraph |
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bluestateguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 05:47 PM Response to Original message |
95. Never play politics with your child's education |
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El Fuego (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 06:32 PM Response to Original message |
96. No, you are a realist. |
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Logansquare (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-22-05 06:59 PM Response to Original message |
102. Some friends of mine moved because of this situation |
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tjwmason (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-23-05 08:38 AM Response to Original message |
106. No - not in the slightest |
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