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Mutley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 07:33 AM
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I'm getting married.
May 6, 2006. Now I must eat a salad for breakfast so I can lose weight for the wedding... muuuussssstttt eeeeeaaaaaattttt saaaaallllaaaaaadddddd.

Anyway... OH MY GOD I'M GETTING MARRIED :wow: :scared: :hide:
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BlondieK143 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 07:34 AM
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1. Awwww! CONGRATS!!!
That's wonderful and I'm so happy for you!!! :hug:
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Mutley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 07:35 AM
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4. Thanks.
I'm a little freaked out. It didn't really sink in until yesterday when my stepmother was dragging me around looking at venues...
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Magrittes Pipe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 07:34 AM
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2. Congratulations!
:toast::bounce::party:
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Mutley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 07:36 AM
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7. YAY
So much for "I'll never ever get married" Eh, who cares?
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meegbear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 07:35 AM
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3. Congratulations!!!!
You blushing bride you!

:woohoo:
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Mutley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 07:37 AM
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8. Heh... FREAKED is more like it!
:rofl:

I don't know why I'm so nervous.. we've already been together for 7 years.
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ghostsofgiants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 07:36 AM
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5. Congratulations!
(insert array of smileys to show happiness and jubilation)
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Mutley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 07:38 AM
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11. Lol thanks
:bounce: :toast: :scared: :party: :scared: :hide: :applause: :popcorn: :hide:

How's that?
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ghostsofgiants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 07:39 AM
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12. Haha, that works quite well!
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KG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 07:36 AM
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6. ok, that 10s months away - plenty of time to change your mind!
j/k, good luck
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Mutley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 07:39 AM
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13. Thanks
I'll need it. I recently heard that the children of divorced parents have double the chance of being divored themselves... and if both people are children of divoreced parents then the chances are quadrupled!
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intheflow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 07:37 AM
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9. Congratulations!!
You sound so shocked! But you shouldn't be. Who wouldn't want to marry someone as fabulous as you?

:toast: :party: :toast: :party: :toast: :party: :toast: :party: :toast: :party: :toast: :party: :toast: :party:

Don't be scared, and don't hide. And no damn salad for breakfast! Your partner obviously loves you "as is," so why torture yourself?
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Mutley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 07:42 AM
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14. Thanks!
I thought I'd never get married. When my parents divorced I swore to myself I would never get married... so much for that :rofl: And I've been wanting to lose weight for awhile ... now I have a reason!
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MissHoneychurch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 07:37 AM
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10. wonderful news
Congrats!!!!!!!!!!!

:bounce: :toast: :beer: :woohoo: :applause:
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Mutley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 07:42 AM
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15. Thanks MissHoneychurch!
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lavenderdiva Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 07:44 AM
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16. Congratulations!
What wonderful news! I got married 3 years ago, and remember how daunting all of it felt for a good long while. All the planning, decisions, etc. sometimes made it difficult to keep my eye on the fact that this was a wonderful time in my life, and one to be enjoyed. It sounds like you and your future MIL have a good relationship, if you are going around looking at venues... That is great! One good tip: I got so overwhelmed with magazines and pictures that represented the 'look' I wanted, that I started cutting them out, and pasting them into an over-sized blank book. I put section tabs to designate flowers, dresses, shoes, etc. and took that book with me everywhere when I was talking to vendors. It was so much easier to show them a picture of what I had in mind than describing what I was after. They each remarked that they hadn't seen anything like that, but thought it was a good idea, and really helped both of us communicate about what I wanted. Have fun!!!

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Mutley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 07:46 AM
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18. Great smiley!
And that's a wonderful idea! All the recent bitching about weddings here in the lounge has given me lots of great ideas on what NOT to do. And congrats to you too!
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Mutley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 07:44 AM
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17. I want to be The Runaway Bride Episode II
Except I'm going to be abducted by aliens and taken to Mars.
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Spinzonner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 07:47 AM
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19. WOmen go (back) to Venus
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Mutley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 07:49 AM
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20. Well, they're going to be male aliens that want to keep me for themselves.
:tinfoilhat:
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Debbi801 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 07:54 AM
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21. Yay! I am so happy for you!!!
That is wonderful! Make sure you have fun planning it and don't get overly stressed out. :-)

Debbi
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Mutley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 07:56 AM
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22. I probably won't
My stepmother is more excited than I am so she's ready to do all the planning... I just have to make sure I stop her from getting hula dancers and crazy things like that.
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Debbi801 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 08:01 AM
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24. At least here in MD, there is an overabundance of cool places...
to have a wedding.

Hula dancers could be fun. :rofl:
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Mutley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 08:02 AM
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25. lol... I'm actually having it near their house in DE
and yeah... hula dancers probably would be fun... I just don't want them to spend that kind of money!
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trigz Donating Member (679 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 07:58 AM
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23. Congratulations!
It really is as nice as you think it will be.

Best of luck,
Trigz - happily married
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Mutley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 08:03 AM
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26. Thanks!
It's comforting to see all the happily married DUers around here!
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Shell Beau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 08:33 AM
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27. Congrats!
:toast:
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Mutley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 08:35 AM
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28. Thanks!
:party:
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JimmyJazz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 08:39 AM
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29. Congratulations!
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Mutley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 08:44 AM
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33. Heehee, Thanks!
And great smiley as always!
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khashka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 08:43 AM
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30. Woohoo Mutley! Congrats!
I wish you all possible happiness :)

Khash.
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Mutley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 08:45 AM
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34. Thanks! And you too!
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Beware the Beast Man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 08:43 AM
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31. Woo-hoo! Congrats!
:bounce:
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Mutley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 08:45 AM
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35. Yay!
I'm all jittery and excited and :scared:
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Beware the Beast Man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 08:46 AM
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37. If you know it's right, there's no reason to be scared.
For a person who panics if I run out of milk in the morning, I had absolutely no jitters before I got married.
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Mutley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 08:49 AM
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40. We've been together for 7 years
so I know it's right. I just have a little bit of marriage phobia.
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Zuni Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 08:44 AM
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32. Congratulations
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Mutley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 08:46 AM
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36. I love your little crackhead guy
very appropriate for a wedding thread... :rofl:
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progmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 08:48 AM
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38. yay!!!!!!!!
:bounce:

don't start obsessing about your weight, babe. you'll look beautiful on that day no matter what. :)
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Mutley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 08:50 AM
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41. Awww... thanks progmom!
:loveya:

I'm not gonna obsess too much. I don't need to be all perfectly thin or anything... I've been feeling a little bloaty lately anyway so this is the perfect reason to get some of that off.

And this is another reason why I'm in a daze...
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progmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 08:52 AM
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44. funny - i just asked you that in my funk thread
:)
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Mutley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 08:53 AM
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46. heehee!
I was about to go back to that too. We're thinking alike again :scared:
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progmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 08:58 AM
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49. i had forgotten about that. that was freaky.
:)
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Mutley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 09:01 AM
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52. I guess we both like blueberry muffins
:P
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underpants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 08:48 AM
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39. CONGRATULATIONS
:party::toast:
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Mutley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 08:51 AM
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43. Thanks!
I almost can't believe it!
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mdmc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 08:51 AM
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42. congratulations
peace and low stress,
mdmc
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Mutley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 08:52 AM
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45. low stress would be great.
there is no way I'm having some huge expensive wedding. that's way to much work and not much fun for anyone.
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mdmc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 08:59 AM
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50. perhaps the gifts could balance out the expense
request a gift certificate for a local breakfast restaurant for your return from your honeymoon (what a great gift idea!).
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Mutley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 09:02 AM
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53. That IS a good idea
hmmmmm
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Left Is Write Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 08:55 AM
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47. Congratulations!
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Mutley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 08:56 AM
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48. Thanks!
I'm all in a daze!
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Parrcrow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 08:59 AM
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51. Congratulations!
I'll start getting a couple of tons of confetti ready

:applause: :woohoo: :applause:
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Mutley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-30-05 09:03 AM
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54. Wow. Tons.
That might be bad for the environment. :rofl:
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