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Bunny Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-03-03 09:02 AM
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Backhanded Compliment?
I work with people with mental retardation. We have a woman here, about mid-thirties. Every day when she sees me she says "Bunnyj, (not my real name)you're beautiful. Compared to nothing."

It cracks me up every time cause I'm not sure how to interpret it. Am I so ugly that I'm only beautiful when you compare me to nothing? Or, am I so beautiful that nothing can compare to it? You be the judge...

Anyway, it's always good for a chuckle. :)
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Guaranteed Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-03-03 09:09 AM
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1. That's a tough one.
I'd go for the second one, though. :) Sounds like you've got a friend.
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izzie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-03-03 09:20 AM
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2. To her you are and that has a right to make you so,
Be happy.
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arwalden Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-03-03 09:29 AM
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3. Your Reply...
"Well, thank you Mary. I feel exactly the same way about you. We make quite a pair, don't we?"

If she's intending to compliment you... then she will be complimented in return. If she's insulting you purposely... then she gets a dose of her own.

-- Allen
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Robb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-03-03 09:53 AM
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4. Reminded me of an employee review
"Ms. Smith never fails to live up to our expectations. She works well under constant supervision."

:)
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