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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 06:00 PM Original message |
Why is fidelity important? |
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4323Lopez (307 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 06:10 PM Response to Original message |
1. Cheating is wrong |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 06:20 PM Response to Reply #1 |
7. Isn't that what condoms are for? |
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4323Lopez (307 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 06:22 PM Response to Reply #7 |
8. yes, but... |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 06:32 PM Response to Reply #8 |
11. So do you also advocate absinence until marriage? |
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4323Lopez (307 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 07:41 PM Response to Reply #11 |
32. I'm not that extreme or hollow. |
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wryter2000 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 06:10 PM Response to Original message |
2. I think it's a feeling of having something stolen |
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THUNDER HANDS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 06:11 PM Response to Original message |
3. because |
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ant (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 06:12 PM Response to Original message |
4. I'm not sure that it's fideltiy but honesty that matters |
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1monster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 06:12 PM Response to Original message |
5. Why? Because we all feel the need to have at least one relationship |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 06:13 PM Response to Original message |
6. I think knowledge and consent enter into it. |
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rucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 06:24 PM Response to Reply #6 |
9. My wife and I have an arrangement |
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Nikia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 06:29 PM Response to Original message |
10. Good question |
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izzie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 06:34 PM Response to Original message |
12. You give your word and that should mean something to your self. |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 06:40 PM Response to Reply #12 |
14. Only if you're married |
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Nikia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 07:02 PM Response to Reply #14 |
19. I do think that things get "serious" too quickly |
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Hell Hath No Fury (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 07:14 PM Response to Reply #14 |
23. Huh? |
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TopesJunkie (979 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 09:35 PM Response to Reply #14 |
41. Huh? |
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radwriter0555 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 06:39 PM Response to Original message |
13. It's about commitment to the relationship. Respect for the person |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 06:53 PM Response to Reply #13 |
17. Marriage and fidelity aren't the same. |
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Hell Hath No Fury (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 07:23 PM Response to Reply #17 |
27. Open sex life for whom? |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 07:30 PM Response to Reply #27 |
30. Not quite |
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corarose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 06:42 PM Response to Original message |
15. Why would you get married if you were gong to play around? |
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Nikia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 06:48 PM Response to Original message |
16. Monagamus marriage works well for introverts |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 06:59 PM Response to Reply #16 |
18. So you agree that it's strictly societal? |
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Nikia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 07:22 PM Response to Reply #18 |
26. We're social creatures though |
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gratuitous (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 07:03 PM Response to Original message |
20. Why is fidelity important? Why is fidelity important?! |
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Character Assassin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 07:05 PM Response to Original message |
21. If you take an oath, you stick to it. |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 07:24 PM Response to Reply #21 |
28. Uhhh....Islam is the most apparent |
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Character Assassin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 07:32 PM Response to Reply #28 |
31. Umm.....perhaps I wasn't clear enough |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 07:48 PM Response to Reply #31 |
33. I guess I wasn't clear either |
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mitchum (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 07:11 PM Response to Original message |
22. So you can hear all of the instruments clearly |
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gratuitous (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 07:29 PM Response to Reply #22 |
29. What a lame joke! |
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mitchum (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 08:05 PM Response to Reply #29 |
36. Sorry, didn't mean to steal (I'm not Milton Berle or Robin Williams) |
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indigo32 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 07:14 PM Response to Original message |
24. It's about respect and caring |
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salmonhorse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 07:18 PM Response to Original message |
25. "Why is fidelity important?"? |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 08:02 PM Response to Reply #25 |
35. So you answer is: Because God says so? |
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salmonhorse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-04-03 02:37 AM Response to Reply #35 |
47. Hey...you wanna lie, cheat, steal... |
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alwynsw (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 07:56 PM Response to Original message |
34. I know that i certainly don't want a stereo with poor sound |
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geniph (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 08:18 PM Response to Original message |
37. I'm not monogamous, but I am faithful to our agreements |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 08:31 PM Response to Reply #37 |
38. If monogamy is cultural... |
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geniph (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 10:00 PM Response to Reply #38 |
43. Neither of us are into social conformity, to start with |
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HuckleB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-04-03 12:03 AM Response to Reply #43 |
46. It's actually not so rare. |
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arwalden (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 11:58 PM Response to Reply #37 |
45. Thanks For Posting This... |
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populistmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 08:38 PM Response to Original message |
39. I have no problem with monogamy |
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TopesJunkie (979 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 09:32 PM Response to Original message |
40. It's a choice. |
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DoNotRefill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 09:49 PM Response to Original message |
42. Because I love my wife. |
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HuckleB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-03-03 11:56 PM Response to Original message |
44. Lots of reasons -- |
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