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Tue Jul-26-05 06:01 PM
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Poll question: Is it possible to love and hate the same person? |
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Tue Jul-26-05 06:02 PM
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Tue Jul-26-05 06:05 PM
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2. Love and hate are neither opposites nor mutually exclusive |
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The opposite of both love AND hate is having no feelings whatsoever toward someone.
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Tue Jul-26-05 06:06 PM
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The sex is better that way.
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Been at it for years. I just wish he would fucking die, guess that means hate is winning.
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Tue Jul-26-05 06:11 PM
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5. Yes, it is called "marriage" (n/t) |
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Tue Jul-26-05 06:12 PM
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6. I was just going to say that! |
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Wed Jul-27-05 10:37 AM
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14. I was going to say that too! hehehe |
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Tue Jul-26-05 08:05 PM
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I have never seen love turn to hate better than a marrige gone bad! It is absolutly amazing how love and adoration can turn into such contempt.
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Tue Jul-26-05 08:07 PM
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8. Indeed. They're flip sides of the same coin. |
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Intense emotional response in the positive and intense emotional response in the negative.
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Tue Jul-26-05 08:16 PM
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Wed Jul-27-05 10:33 AM
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I have never felt hatred to my SO but it was definately been the other way around.
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Wed Jul-27-05 10:35 AM
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Just because these concepts are mirror images of each other does not logically mean that you can therefore harbor both feelings towards the same individual.
I still maintain that's a pretty good definition of insanity... or idiocy.
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Wed Jul-27-05 10:35 AM
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12. It is possible to love someone but |
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hate certain qualities about them. But hate is the ooposite of love.
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Wed Jul-27-05 10:39 AM
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15. Actually, I think indifference is the opposite of love. |
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It has been my experience that when a wronged spouse or SO purports to 'hate' the other spouse or SO, that they are still emotionally entangled. When they profess indifference, they are truly ready to move on.
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Wed Jul-27-05 10:41 AM
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16. That is a good point! |
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Edited on Wed Jul-27-05 10:42 AM by Shell Beau
But if you truly hate someone, then you can't possibly love them, right?
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Wed Jul-27-05 10:36 AM
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13. whatever is going on in your soul is what you project onto the world |
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Wed Jul-27-05 10:54 AM
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17. That's a good thought for the day. |
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Wed Jul-27-05 11:12 PM
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18. I love my husband immensely and would do anything for him. |
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But he makes lots of noise when he eats, and I get a visceral reaction that is really similar to how I feel when I see * on television. If that isn't hate, I don't know what is.
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Wed Jul-27-05 11:25 PM
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19. I don't think you can love anything with hate in your heart, So, No. nt |
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