Is it worth it to meet with an evil-ex?

[Taverner]

And is Evil Ex Sex worth it?

[SmokingJacket]

1. Only to get your stuff back.

And it better be good stuff.

[Taverner]

2. Is the black t-shirt worth the trouble?

[sundog]

3. not something i do

when i walk away from something, i don't go back

[wallwriter]

4. Ask your private parts. What do they say?

[Taverner]

5. Oh its not for me

Completely hypothetical

[wallwriter]

9. Well then, one should ask one's private parts...

[On the Road]

6. Those are Two Entirely Different Questions

I'm all for meeting people from your past to make peace and come to terms with things. It can prevent trouble for years to come.

But sex? That's a different matter entirely.

[VelmaD]

7. NO!

What are you, out of your fucking mind?!?!?

[Taverner]

8. This is just hypothetical

[no name no slogan]

26. THANK YOU VELMA!!!!!

I wholeheartedly agree. I just got a phone call at work from my soon-to-be-ex-wife. Turns out she hasn't been taking care of our cats after all-- she just took her stuff, moved out of the house, and left them to fend for themselves-- just as I suspected :grr:

She even said she was going to put them in a shelter if I didn't get them-- even though she KNOWS I can't take them until next week. Thankfully I'll see them tonight so I can take care of them.

My ex is evil I tell you. E-V-I-L. I'm glad I'm paying the lawyer to take care of the legal stuff. It may cost me, but it's worth sanity preservation and the peace of mind.

:grr:

[bicentennial_baby]

10. Speaking specifically to you...

not unless you are a complete idiot, Tav. :)

[Wickerman]

11. In this case, take an example from you sigline, and do the exact opposite

don't open that door, son.

"Ignorance is not bliss - it is suicide." - Fred Cohen

[ET Awful]

12. I hate to think what would happen if I were to encounter my evil ex

I would never use physical violence, not my thing, but there are a hell of a lot of things I'd like to tell her (all of them true) that wouldn't exactly have her grinning when she left.

:grr:

[Tyler Durden]

13. My ex just doesn't have the common decency...

...to get run over by a speeding gasoline truck, taste her own blood, die, then burn to ashes in the ensuing conflagration to allow us to bypass any funeral arrangements.

Some people just don't think about others, y'know?

PS: this is after a marriage peppered with infidelity, prostitution on the side, and abandonment with 3 small children, FOUR frivolous lawsuits (the last one still pending), looting TWO >$10,000 kids' college accounts to pay the bail so her illegal alien boyfriend could skip on a murder charge, and not one nickel for support over the last 11 years since the divorce.

I think I've earned my opinion, thank you.

[Taverner]

14. Wow

just wow

[Tyler Durden]

16. And I'm being GENEROUS.

Let's just say my infinite patience and forgiving nature were taxed beyond the limits of human endurance.

I would definitely go out of my way to attend her funeral and shit in the grave.

So to speak.

The worst part is the next "Friend of the Court" bit. She won't sign a "change of domicile" paper, even though we'll be closer and I tried to bury the hatchet. She made it clear that she will do ANYTHING to fuck up my day/week/year/life.

Evil ex sex? You don't want me to describe the fantasies as I am heartily ashamed of them.

[Shell Beau]

15. Stay away! Take no chances!

[ladeuxiemevoiture]

17. It's not worth it.

Find somebody new who will work better with you, relationship-wise, and don't waste another minute on that sucky ex.

[rosalux]

18. how evil?

[Dukkha]

19. Only if you've been living well

and her life took a downward spiral. Then you can gloat on your revenge at her.

[matcom]

20. depends

how was the sex?

[ladeuxiemevoiture]

21. Even then, it's not worth it.

you do the sex and then you're face to face (or whatever) with that evil ex who did this horrible thing to you once, whatever. Good sex is a powerful incentive to meet up again with someone, and the meeting could end up benignly, but I just don't think it's worth the risk that it WON'T end up harmlessly.

[davidinalameda]

22. have we dated

I'm usually the evil ex

[Left_Winger]

23. My Ex was meaner than a water moccasin in a drought !!!

No, evil ex-sex is DEFINITELY not worth it to me!

:hide:

[Shell Beau]

24. Is this your ex or just a hypothetical question?

[Taverner]

25. Just hypotherical

Actually its a friend of mine...he kind of has issues.

He hates this woman, and at the same time lusts after her still. The emotional draw is gone, but the pure primal magnetism is still there.

[Shell Beau]

27. Usually only bad things come from meeting up with an ex.

[China_cat]

28. Hard to do when your ex's have had the good grace

to die.

[skygazer]

29. Not worth it to me

And the thought of sex with my evil ex just makes me want to vomit.