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Sat Jul-30-05 12:07 AM
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Have You Ever Been Madly In Love with Someone You Cannot Have? |
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Me neither.
Cocktail, anyone?
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Sat Jul-30-05 12:09 AM
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1. How did you know my answer? |
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Are you psychic or something?
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Sat Jul-30-05 12:10 AM
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Sat Jul-30-05 12:10 AM
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I learned early about unrequited crushes as a kid. A waste of emotion. Concluded it was best to go for what one can get!
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Sat Jul-30-05 12:19 AM
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I only go for the ones I can't have. Anything less would be settling for someone who would like me.
That's sad when I type it out.
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Sat Jul-30-05 12:11 AM
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4. Yes. And I don't even know her name. |
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:cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:
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Sat Jul-30-05 12:13 AM
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Well now shes my ex sister in law , but I had a huge crush on her.
Hey, it was out of my control. Lighten up:)
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Sat Jul-30-05 12:14 AM
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ADS...you know who you are.
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Sat Jul-30-05 01:24 AM
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33. wow if this can even happen to you |
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maybe there is hope for us mere mortals out there. :)
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Sat Jul-30-05 01:26 AM
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He wasn't even that attractive - physically i mean. |
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Edited on Sat Jul-30-05 01:31 AM by friesianrider
He was kinda overweight actually.
Gorgeous, gorgeous soul though. Pre-med and very intelligent. I still miss him and love him very much :(
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Sat Jul-30-05 01:34 AM
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You're an awesome woman, you know that? :):hug:
On another note, WTF, was that guy thinking? :)
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Sat Jul-30-05 01:47 AM
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I have spent the last 4 years attempting to figure out what he was thinking. All indications were that he felt the exact same way I did - then all of a sudden he broke my heart. I wish I knew why...
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Sat Jul-30-05 01:52 AM
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you can never explain. Never can quite figure them out. But, on the bright side, I see from that other thread, you have some pretty big male fans here at DU. Not the least of which is me. :loveya:
But seriously, WTF was that guy thinking? :)
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Sat Jul-30-05 01:55 AM
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47. Care to tell him that? |
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I do wish he felt the same way you did...you're very sweet :)
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Sat Jul-30-05 02:01 AM
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48. and let him whisk you away from me? |
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Sat Jul-30-05 12:15 AM
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7. It's a wasted year if I don't!! |
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Don't let kids learn to fall in love by listening to Dolly Parton's "I will always love you." Really screws up that whole "love is supposed to be a good thing" perception.
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Sat Jul-30-05 12:20 AM
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9. I had a crush in high school |
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but I was such a shy nerd that I couldn't get a date with anybody, so basically, EVERYONE was unavailable to me then.
Then I had an instant crush on a woman I saw in a store once. I was married, and she was wearing a wedding band, so, yes, I couldn't have her. But... several years later, after I had been divorced for a while, I ran into her again, and she had been divorced in the meantime. One thing lead to another and a year later we ended up getting married. Strange how that works sometimes.
Of course she left me two years later. Oh well.
Now I'm a celebate hermit, and loving every minute of it. ;)
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Sat Jul-30-05 12:20 AM
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10. Yes, and I still am right now. |
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Well, maybe not madly, but I still really like her.
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Sat Jul-30-05 12:23 AM
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11. Depends on what you mean |
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Have as in keep or have as in Know Biblically?
My boyfriend's ex. I finally got him into bed after a dozen jello shots, a promise to have my boyfriend committed against his will, and a half hour discussion about the joys of snot. By the time I got him into the hotel room I had kind of lost my taste for the whole thing, as you might expect. I was no longer madly in love with him and I sure didn't want to keep him.
Khash.
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Sat Jul-30-05 12:26 AM
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12. Oh, I was madly in love with him, and I had him, I just couldn't keep him. |
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Sat Jul-30-05 12:30 AM
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I have always had a thing for men who some would call geeks. They never would approach me since the "bad boys" usually hung out w/ me. My dates in high school and college were w/ the "bad boys"-because they were the ones who would ask me out. People made comments about it all the time. Truthfully, I wish that one of the smart guys would have asked me out instead. I would have been better off w/ one of them. I figured that they wouldn't ask me out because they didn't like me. Turns out they were afraid of me and afraid that I would turn them down. The classmates that I think about the most(whenever I look back) were always the smart guys in school who were in the chess club, computer club and the marching band. I don't have to think about the others since I can drive to my old hometown and find them still living there.
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Sat Jul-30-05 12:34 AM
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14. Well put XMas, Well Put..... |
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I spent almost my high school experence pining after the good girls while the bad one's wanted me....
Oh well, it all works out in the end I suppose....
At least for someone.....
Someone must be happy somewhere....
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Sat Jul-30-05 01:07 AM
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20. I hope that those guys are happy now. |
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The smart ones deserved to be happy after everything they went through in high school.
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Sat Jul-30-05 01:10 AM
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They did go through a living hell...
there is a sense to it that those who loved high school are doomed to stay in that time set...
Those who didn't move on and enjoy life to the fullest...
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Sat Jul-30-05 01:13 AM
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25. I have run into a few of them. |
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I used to apologize for HS and they always told me that I was never the person who did anything to them. One of them recently informed me that he had a major crush on me in high school (it had to do w/ the fact that a girl watched Trek and beat him in Risk). I wish that he had acted on that crush. I would have gladly taken him up on the offer.
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Sat Jul-30-05 12:40 AM
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15. Funny you should mention that. |
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I had a crush on a popular girl in high school, but I was a classic geek, and was afraid to even say hello to her, she was way unattainable.
Recently (I'm 60 now) my mom mentioned having run into that girl a few years ago. The girl admitted to my mom (more than 40 years too late) that she had had a crush on ME in high school, but was afraid to approach me because I seemed so "aloof". Truth is, I wasn't aloof, just painfully shy.
Ah, what could have been. Youth truly is wasted on the young.
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Sat Jul-30-05 01:10 AM
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If I had it to do over I would have walked right up to a guy that I knew in high school and asked him out. He was so smart and funny, when you got to know him (and knew all the best lines from Star Trek. I never could mention my love of all things Trek w/ the bad boys around.). Now he's in aerospace engineering, I believe.
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Sun Jul-31-05 03:40 PM
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56. Almost same story fizi |
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Too shy to ask a girl I really liked for years.
She used to show up places that she knew I'd be.
Never asked her. Wish I had.
Saw her name in the news recently 30 years later so I wrote her a short note. She wrote a nice note back.
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In high school I hung out with the stoners. I was a geek and a brain and they were the only ones who would hang out with me. And the only ones who were cool with my being gay. But I yearned for those skinny geeky boys in glasses.
I found out later that they were afraid of me and afraid of my friends. Only person who made a pass at me was the star football player :) And so he and I dated for a while. I hope he's doing great now.
Khash.
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Sun Jul-31-05 05:50 PM
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78. It took me many years to realize what my "type" was. |
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Now I have realized that the "geek" was always my type. I like intelligent men who have something to say and can explain something to me. I was singled out by the stoners and the motorheads early on. I still feel comfortable around those men. We can sit down, drink a beer, talk about music and I can admire their handiwork on various vehicles. But there is no true attraction on a sexual level to any of them. My real attraction has always been to "smart guys". I did everything that I could to get them to notice me but they were too shy to ask. And guess what? Most of the "stoners" and "motorheads" that I hung out w/ would have accepted one of the geeks if they were w/ me. Most of them just wanted me to be happy. Of course, they weren't above revenge if someone hurt me.
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Sat Jul-30-05 12:44 AM
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It's very motivational, though, if you can harness that energy somewhere else. Somewhere less humiliating.
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Sat Jul-30-05 12:45 AM
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17. yep, its the best way really. |
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you can skip right to the heartbreak, you dont need to be happy beforehand. quite efficient.
not that im bitter, or anything... :crazy:
-LK
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Sat Jul-30-05 01:13 AM
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24. no you dont sound bitter |
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and your avatar doesnt add to that AT ALL
warmest wishes to you lk and a hug you sound like you may need one
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Sat Jul-30-05 01:23 AM
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31. LK is my brother-in-arms on this one |
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but yeah, you'll get your day in the sun. Just wait and see. And, it'll be everything you ever dreamed of.
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Sat Jul-30-05 12:53 AM
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18. Yes, and she was the only woman I ever loved |
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This young woman was intelligent (a dream student), gentle (she worked with children), feminine (she only wore dresses), and staggeringly beautiful (think Natalie Portman with glasses).
And on the day I was to profess my love to her, she relayed a story involving her fiance. (What can I say, I was 19...I didn't think to check for rings.) That ended my infatuation right quick.
Sad to say, it's been three years, and I haven't fancied anyone since.
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Sun Jul-31-05 03:55 PM
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I feel that, I'm going on over two years with a similar situation.
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Sat Jul-30-05 01:07 AM
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19. Not since Donny Osmond |
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and now I know that the gods knew better than I.
Too early for a cocktail, but I'll accept your pity.
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Sat Jul-30-05 01:15 AM
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26. when i was 7 or 8 i had his album with "puppy love" |
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and his little poster on my wall
yes donny osmond was adorable of course when youre 8 then most boys are arent they
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Sat Jul-30-05 01:17 AM
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27. For my 12th birthday . . . |
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my parents let me go see The Osmonds in concert. I was oh-so-fetching in my purple (Donny's favorite color) jumper and matching lavender knee-socks. :eyes:
(I don't think I knew about boys when I was eight, though. ;) )
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Sat Jul-30-05 01:36 AM
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39. i think i did start too young |
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i had my little boyfriends starting in 1st grade you know serious stuff
but my first head over heels *real* boyfriend was in 6th grade seriously we only broke up because my family moved but we were tight esp thinking about 6th grade now he was adorable manly yet sensitive (at all of 10 yo) but he played all the sports and bought me little presents incl when he went on vacation
and sadder i think i was about 30 when i finally got over him (because i talked with him over the phone and that took care of that) good thing
guess it might be time to get rid of his 6th grade presents....
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Sat Jul-30-05 01:38 AM
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40. You were an early bloomer, that's what you were. |
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Sat Jul-30-05 01:45 AM
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41. ok... thats a nice way of putting it |
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Sat Jul-30-05 01:48 AM
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I had boobs before I had good sense, too. ;)
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Sat Jul-30-05 01:51 AM
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45. well i cant say that so i guess it makes us even |
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in some way though im not quite sure what i just said here initially it made sense
ok i just checked the clock and its 3 am so i guess that answers that
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Sat Jul-30-05 01:22 AM
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Sat Jul-30-05 01:26 AM
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Laugh at my pre-pubescent angst. ( :rofl: )
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Sun Jul-31-05 03:53 PM
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I was sooooo in love with Donny when I was in the second grade. Mmmmm......
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Sat Jul-30-05 01:08 AM
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21. Yes, at least 3 or 4 times |
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sometimes painful...but in the long run, I've understood why.
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Sat Jul-30-05 01:18 AM
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28. It's sad to belong to someone else when the right one comes along |
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You could almost write a song about it.
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Sat Jul-30-05 01:21 AM
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29. yeah twice and once is right now |
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but, I threw a hail Mary the other day and something just might work out. We're in contact again anyway. :)
The other one was godawful and I never want to think about it again. :)
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Sat Jul-30-05 01:24 AM
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32. Little LuLu and Garfield |
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When is the last time someone has gone out on a date with a piece of paper?
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Sat Jul-30-05 01:26 AM
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34. well if you count that magazine I just get so I can read the articles..... |
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Sat Jul-30-05 02:24 AM
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52. I didn't know that they had anything other than articles in them? |
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Sat Jul-30-05 02:51 AM
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54. me too, at least if anybody is asking anyway |
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Sun Jul-31-05 04:11 PM
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65. see people joke about that |
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but seriously I did find alot of good reading in those magazines.
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Sat Jul-30-05 01:28 AM
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36. Hmmmm, how much time do we have? |
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Those were the women I could talk to. They were non-threatening to me because there wasn't that expectation of a relationship, like gay guys and straight women. But since their love was already for another I was left to worship them from afar. And no, I never lured any of these ladies away. I didn't want that done to me should I have found anyone and I just didn't come on like that. I kept it stricly friends. Maybe I just wasn't ruthless enough.
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Sat Jul-30-05 01:33 AM
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37. I make it a point to only fall in love with someone I cannot have. |
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Well, I don't fall in love with these people. I just feel it's safer to get close to them. I don't have to worry about the whole "relationship" thing that way.
Yeah, I have issues. :D
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Sat Jul-30-05 02:12 AM
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49. Actually, yes...sorry, no details. It's over, now...nt |
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Sat Jul-30-05 02:19 AM
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51. No, because I think I can have them. |
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Life is a very long time as they say, and why wouldn't Adrien Brody be in love with me? :crazy:
But honestly--if I like/love someone, I obviously think I have a shot. Insurmountable odds can become quite surmountable indeed.
There's a difference between your question and 'Have you been in love with someone who doesn't love you', I think.
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Sun Jul-31-05 03:51 PM
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57. I always fall for women who are too young for me |
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Legal, of course, but I would be too old for them.
Age is the one area in relationships where discrimination is accepted.
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Oh, well. If it had gone anywhere, I may not have met Mrs. V.
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Sun Jul-31-05 04:02 PM
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62. You mean there's an alternative? |
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Unrequited is my middle name...
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Sun Jul-31-05 04:07 PM
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63. All the freaking time. |
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I'll have that cocktail now. :beer:
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Sun Jul-31-05 04:10 PM
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Twice. One I still keep in touch with, though I am no longer madly in love with him. The other one, no.
Mz Pip :dem:
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Sun Jul-31-05 04:17 PM
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66. is Tom Cruise a looney-tune? (nt) |
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Was madly in love(lust?)with the wrong person... we both knew how wrong we were, all fire works and explosions, great sex or great fights but nothing in between. So... we both walked away for sanity sake. It was the most difficult adult thing I had done to that point, it was a College thing. Friends now and we talk every other year or so but the spark is gone but time has proved that we did the right thing. We still drive each other insane with such huge differences in how life should be lived and both think the other one is crazy. But it was an exciting and intense 3 years!
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Sun Jul-31-05 04:20 PM
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68. Currently going though something like that |
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Not madly, but I do like her alot. Pretty sad, at my age. But, the heart goes where it goes. It IS sapping my energy and concentration that would best be spent on other things, however.
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Sun Jul-31-05 04:27 PM
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69. Oh yes, and just last year in fact |
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Sun Jul-31-05 04:37 PM
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70. A number of times, particularly being in love with someone who |
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was not in love with me and would not fall in love with me. But in some cases, I could "have" them (in the Biblical sense), but I could not have them in the in-love-with/involved-with sense. That has been my situation quite frequently, and it can be maddening.
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horrible thing to go through.
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Sun Jul-31-05 04:52 PM
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73. Unfortunately, yes. Sucks. Bad for the skin. |
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Sorry if that's the wrong answer for this thread.
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Sun Jul-31-05 04:56 PM
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74. Yeah- and I had JUST now gotten over it- |
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then you went and reminded me about it again!
:cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :beer: :cry: :cry: :cry: :beer: :beer: :beer: :puke: :boring: :boring: :hurts:
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Sun Jul-31-05 06:42 PM
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81. Been there. Done That. Professional Relationships with Women |
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Taboo. But when the intellectual synergy happens-sometimes the sexual tension builds also:pals:
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Sun Jul-31-05 04:58 PM
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75. I've never been madly in love with someone I *can* have! |
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would call "long term unrequited crushes"..talking years long here. Never been rejected before because I've never thrown it out there.
Before they've all mostly been well-known aquaintances..but the one I have now is actually a good friend. I don't get much vibes from him, but I'm guessing that I don't give off that many vibes either. Maybe he's not interested or maybe we're too alike.
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Sun Jul-31-05 05:52 PM
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79. almost constantly since my stb-ex made it clear it was over |
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there are some amazing, but unavailable women in my life.
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Sun Jul-31-05 06:43 PM
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82. Patience and Good Eye site will prevail! |
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Your time will come. Patience.
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Edited on Sun Jul-31-05 06:25 PM by SarahBelle
I've had difficultly with relationships at time that hurt on various levels, but I can't say I ever been "madly in love" with someone who didn't have any feelings for me. I make it clear how I feel about someone and if they don't reciprocate or can't be with me, I move forward. I can't imagine not being direct when it comes to this stuff. Life is too short.
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(and it's one of the best things life has to offer).
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85. Yes. And it hurts like a mother-fucker... |
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but I still live in hope. Which hurts like a mother-fucker too. :(
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... If not love then at least a crush/infatuation that is virtually indistinguishable from love in many circumstances :)
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