Deja Q
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Fri Aug-05-05 09:12 AM
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Do 'friends with benefits' ever become more? |
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Fri Aug-05-05 09:13 AM
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1. Not usually. I guess it is not impossible though! |
Deja Q
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Fri Aug-05-05 09:17 AM
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But it's still okay. Life is a journey, not a destination.
Maybe we were meant to be more; butit was good for him to make the distinction.
I also think I know why it wouldn't work anyway...
He's still a good guy and I'm not really a marriage type anyway though I've always romanticized about it. Seems some people just aren' that type. :shrug: It's obvious he figured me out from the first couple of days. :D
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Fri Aug-05-05 09:29 AM
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14. Well it's best to learn that early on than to figure |
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that out after you've invested a lot into it!
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Fri Aug-05-05 09:14 AM
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2. Not in my experience... |
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Haven't actually seen it happen.
But, I'm only one person.
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Fri Aug-05-05 09:14 AM
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That phrase is too stupid to be used by anyone except Alanis Morisette.
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Fri Aug-05-05 09:16 AM
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5. I had someone pull it on me once... |
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I was like... "Hey, you like the milk, but, you don't want the bull... eh?"
It's almost as bad as, "Lets be friends...Mmmkay?"
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Fri Aug-05-05 09:18 AM
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9. I don't know whether to laugh or cry! Forgive me, my naivity. |
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:wow:
:rofl:
Human nature was never my strong point. Indeed, it's been my folly...
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Fri Aug-05-05 09:16 AM
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4. Who would ever want that to become more? |
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Why fuck up a great situation?
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Deja Q
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Fri Aug-05-05 09:19 AM
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11. Good point! Once again, it's the folly of my romantic nature. |
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I still like the concept of marriage/relationship, as does he in general. Especially in this society as it has been made for us to live in.
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Fri Aug-05-05 09:17 AM
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6. You mean like a tax writeoff? |
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Fri Aug-05-05 09:17 AM
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8. what's a "friend with benefits"? n/t |
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Fri Aug-05-05 09:18 AM
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10. Friends who "get jiggy" with each other, interpret that any way you'd lik. |
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Fri Aug-05-05 09:19 AM
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Fri Aug-05-05 09:26 AM
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13. Oh come now! You think I can give a straight answer?! |
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I can't even think straight!
:rofl:
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Fri Aug-05-05 09:19 AM
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12. I think it means a dental plan and full hospitalization |
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Fri Aug-05-05 04:32 PM
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16. 401K with 50% matching!!!!! |
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Dont settle for anything less in your friends.
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Fri Aug-05-05 04:24 PM
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15. I thought that was all I wanted. |
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My heart was cold, cold, cold.
It's much more now. I guess we were open to possibilities though. If both people are, anything is possible. :)
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