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Beausoir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 09:52 AM Original message |
When your parents died...did your siblings take EVERYTHING? |
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XanaDUer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 09:55 AM Response to Original message |
1. Only child here |
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KatyaR (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 10:27 AM Response to Reply #1 |
23. Same here. |
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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 06:53 PM Response to Reply #23 |
52. OT: Oh, fifthgendem, I love your Boston Terrier! |
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KatyaR (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 07:16 PM Response to Reply #52 |
54. That's Maggie, she's my third BT-- |
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Heddi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-07-05 06:32 PM Response to Reply #23 |
83. Only child here as well |
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Catchawave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-07-05 06:14 PM Response to Reply #1 |
82. In my experience, yes.... |
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JitterbugPerfume (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 09:56 AM Response to Original message |
2. how horrible for you |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 09:56 AM Response to Original message |
3. Not my family, but my husband's. |
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Pirate Smile (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 10:09 AM Response to Reply #3 |
14. I dread when my MIL and FIL die. It is going to be a nightmare. |
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LaurenG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 09:56 AM Response to Original message |
4. Oooo Owww |
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Beausoir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 09:59 AM Response to Reply #4 |
7. It is only stuff. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 10:02 AM Response to Reply #7 |
9. When my mom died, we moved my dad down here to live with |
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Beausoir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 10:06 AM Response to Reply #9 |
11. My brothers are fantastic, too. |
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LaurenG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 10:06 AM Response to Reply #7 |
10. Well I do understand |
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Beausoir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 10:09 AM Response to Reply #10 |
12. Heh. She's usually too busy with her own pity party to vote. |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 10:58 AM Response to Reply #7 |
30. Why don't you want something? Is there anything left that one of |
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agates (743 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 09:57 AM Response to Original message |
5. My sister and I agreed to not disagree |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 09:57 AM Response to Original message |
6. First, sorry for your loss |
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demnan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 10:02 AM Response to Original message |
8. No but I'm sure it will happen |
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Merlot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 10:09 AM Response to Original message |
13. When my grandmother died, she left a small cash nestegg |
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Kahuna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 10:16 AM Response to Original message |
15. Not really. My father made it known what we should get of his |
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Bluerthanblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 10:17 AM Response to Original message |
16. adding loss to loss- |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 10:18 AM Response to Original message |
17. What got me was that my brother, who lived with my mom at the |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 10:21 AM Response to Reply #17 |
20. I had a similar situation when my mom died. |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 10:45 AM Response to Reply #20 |
27. Isn't that something? |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 11:00 AM Response to Reply #27 |
31. I'm telling you. It is really a |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 11:02 AM Response to Reply #31 |
32. thank you for the giggle |
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trof (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 10:18 AM Response to Original message |
18. Too late, I guess, but here's what we did. |
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Beausoir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-07-05 01:59 PM Response to Reply #18 |
77. That's what we tried to do. |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 10:20 AM Response to Original message |
19. my aunt always gets there first and takes everything... |
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LibDemAlways (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 11:06 AM Response to Reply #19 |
33. I know a woman who , when her never-married aunt died in |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 11:11 AM Response to Reply #33 |
35. I'm speechless; that's super balls without consulting the others |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 11:11 AM Response to Reply #33 |
36. that's my aunt, not a moment of shame or embarrassment in her life. |
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Mutley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 10:21 AM Response to Original message |
21. My parents are still alive... |
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Jade Fox (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 10:22 AM Response to Original message |
22. Yes. Between my siblings and my stepmother..... |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 10:28 AM Response to Original message |
24. I was 14 when my mom died |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 10:42 AM Response to Original message |
25. We worked it this way |
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fortyfeetunder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 10:42 AM Response to Original message |
26. I'm not looking forward to this |
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LiberalEsto (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 10:51 AM Response to Original message |
28. My evil stepmother grabbed it all |
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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 07:02 PM Response to Reply #28 |
53. Well, this "evil" stepmother hopes to avoid the scenario listed above. |
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LiberalEsto (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-07-05 09:05 AM Response to Reply #53 |
62. At least you both agree and that's fine |
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The River (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 10:55 AM Response to Original message |
29. Been There |
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lavenderdiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 11:09 AM Response to Original message |
34. My parents died within a couple of months of each other, very unexpectedly |
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Jade Fox (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 11:32 AM Response to Reply #34 |
38. I understand your stance perfectly.....n/t |
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lavenderdiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 11:48 AM Response to Reply #38 |
39. Thanks for the affirmation! n/t |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 04:14 PM Response to Reply #34 |
41. I agree; if she treats you like that, who needs her |
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lavenderdiva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 07:40 PM Response to Reply #41 |
57. man oh man! What is it with these people? |
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readmylips (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 11:13 AM Response to Original message |
37. Thanks for all this information.... |
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El Fuego (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 11:49 AM Response to Original message |
40. I have been going through HELL. |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 04:43 PM Response to Reply #40 |
43. You can force her to sell it, correct? |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-07-05 09:55 AM Response to Reply #43 |
66. Yep..put the house on the market |
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El Fuego (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-07-05 10:29 AM Response to Reply #43 |
67. I can legally force the sale |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-07-05 10:36 AM Response to Reply #67 |
68. Instead of the lawyer route, try this.. |
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El Fuego (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-07-05 11:09 AM Response to Reply #68 |
70. I would love to do that but |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-07-05 11:14 AM Response to Reply #70 |
71. Maybe a lawyer (paid out of estate money of course) would |
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El Fuego (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-07-05 11:27 AM Response to Reply #71 |
72. Yes it will probably come to that. |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-07-05 02:22 PM Response to Reply #40 |
79. It's going to be a nightmare when my parents die. |
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khashka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 04:24 PM Response to Original message |
42. Just happened |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 04:46 PM Response to Reply #42 |
44. Khash, I have seen this over and over |
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khashka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 05:20 PM Response to Reply #44 |
46. Yeah |
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ellie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 05:07 PM Response to Original message |
45. No, not when my dad died, but |
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steely (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 05:37 PM Response to Original message |
47. Fat pig step brother took it all. |
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TheCentepedeShoes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 06:28 PM Response to Original message |
48. Only child here, too |
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China_cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 06:39 PM Response to Original message |
49. Well, mine isn't 'Daddy's dead' |
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gizmo1979 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 06:42 PM Response to Original message |
50. My sister didn't wait for her to die |
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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 06:44 PM Response to Original message |
51. I am an only child. Everything was left to me by default (no will). |
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elehhhhna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 07:19 PM Response to Original message |
55. Here's a FUNNY one: |
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OzarkDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 07:25 PM Response to Original message |
56. Life is too short |
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grace0418 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 07:44 PM Response to Original message |
58. My only hope is that my mom isn't in too much debt when she dies. |
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Kire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 07:46 PM Response to Original message |
59. Mom did. |
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goodboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 07:54 PM Response to Original message |
60. when my grandmother died, we found out that my aunt had stolen |
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jmm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-06-05 08:20 PM Response to Original message |
61. It's my extended family that I worry about. |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-07-05 09:10 AM Response to Original message |
63. Death does that sometimes. I haven't spoken to my brother |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-07-05 09:36 AM Response to Original message |
64. parents alive and well but plenty of horror stories here |
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bikebloke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-07-05 09:46 AM Response to Original message |
65. Have a sibling corrupt to the core |
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elehhhhna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-07-05 10:48 AM Response to Original message |
69. My girls are 9 & 11. They've already split up my jewelry. |
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graywarrior (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-07-05 11:39 AM Response to Original message |
73. Hell yeah. |
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MaryBear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-07-05 01:03 PM Response to Original message |
74. I've learned that this is very common. |
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Beausoir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-07-05 02:03 PM Response to Reply #74 |
78. That's why I decided I didn't want anything. |
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MaryBear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-07-05 10:36 PM Response to Reply #78 |
85. She may only know how to grieve through anger. |
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Arkana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-07-05 01:48 PM Response to Original message |
75. Oh, God...when my great-aunt died, my mother's family flipped. |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-07-05 01:53 PM Response to Original message |
76. Only my brother & I. The will was simple and straight forward. |
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silverpatronus (520 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-07-05 06:05 PM Response to Original message |
80. it's so strange reading all these stories about divided families... |
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CanuckAmok (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-07-05 06:10 PM Response to Original message |
81. My half-sister and her mom took everything when my dad died. |
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WCGreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-07-05 07:17 PM Response to Original message |
84. You want to avoid all of this.... |
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u4ic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-08-05 12:08 AM Response to Original message |
86. Somebody in my family didn't even wait for my mom to die |
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