bertha katzenengel
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Wed Aug-10-05 02:59 PM
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have you ever had to relinquish your ATM card to |
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your other half?
I have. :blush:
Am I alone?
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Wed Aug-10-05 03:01 PM
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Wed Aug-10-05 03:19 PM
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Wed Aug-10-05 03:02 PM
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2. He'll have to pry it out of my cold, dead hands. |
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Wed Aug-10-05 03:20 PM
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self-control that i do not possess?
:hi:
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Wed Aug-10-05 03:04 PM
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3. Not without my permission |
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Sometimes I don't want to go to the ATM for cash and I let him use it. (I trust him ... but I ALWAYS get the receipt!)
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bertha katzenengel
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Wed Aug-10-05 03:21 PM
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7. I get to keep my card from the small account w/ just my name on it - |
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the one i use for groceries etc.
It's not that she doesn't trust me. It's just that five years have shown her that I never learned to balance a checkbook....
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Wed Aug-10-05 03:23 PM
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9. Two words. Online Banking. |
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The only thing that keeps me from losing the house.
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Wed Aug-10-05 03:34 PM
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12. I've been trying to set everything up for autodebit, but when I do |
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I forget shit's gonna hit and then SHIT hits. The fan. :(
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Wed Aug-10-05 03:35 PM
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13. We have two checking accounts. |
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Both joint. I pay all the bills out of one of them automatically, or on the web., and the other one is used for daily expenses, like the grocery store, whatever. That way, I don't forget to record a transaction so that the mortgage doesn't get paid.
Works okay.
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Wed Aug-10-05 03:37 PM
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15. That may be what my husband and I start doing. We |
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have a joint account. It would still be a joint account, but have one for bills and the other for daily expenses!
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bertha katzenengel
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Wed Aug-10-05 03:39 PM
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16. i suggested to mrs. v. that we hire someone to keep our books and |
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pay our bills... that went over like a lead balloon. it's what i'd have to do w/out her.
She is a goddess, a gem, the most patient and loving woman on the planet.
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Wed Aug-10-05 03:04 PM
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4. No, but vice versa. I had to get on to my hubby several times |
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Edited on Wed Aug-10-05 03:05 PM by Shell Beau
with our Chevron card. He went grocery shopping there daily. Snacks, drinks, etc. Finally I said "no more"! He's good, though, with the ATM/debit card!
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Wed Aug-10-05 03:22 PM
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8. that's me - 10 here, 20 there, and for god knows what, because |
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Wed Aug-10-05 03:32 PM
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11. I hear ya! Sounds just like my husband. |
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Wed Aug-10-05 03:24 PM
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10. No, I have to beg to get my SO to let me use it (my name on it) |
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He says I lose it (I have)
But in order to get control of our finances, I have to get it away from him.
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Wed Aug-10-05 03:35 PM
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14. I cut off my wife's ATM privileges. |
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The less said about that the better. Let's just say I feel empathy for Mrs. V.
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