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jiacinto Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 07:15 PM
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Attack on me





On Monday afternoon, at around 12 PM, I came home from
the FLL airport. From Broward County I drove my car to
my home in North Miami Beach.

When I came home my apartment was in tatters.
Shambles. A robber had buglarized my home. Taken were
my comptuer, DVD player, TV set, and Aerobed to start
off with. Also gone were my passport, gold AMEX card,
and Dickinson Mastercard. My checkbooks also were
taken. The robber took away my telephone landline too,
so all I have right now is my cell phone.

But it gets even better. The robber took my car keys,
the ones with the chip. I have a key to my car, but
they have a set too. Now this means that they can find
my car and drive off with it. To that end I am trying
to find a hotel in Broward County, probably maybe even
Palm Beach County.

I am now looking for a hotel to stay in and am
planning my departure from Florida. I am terrified for
my safety. Someone is after me and I am scared. Over
the next few days I will be arranging for my departure
from Florida.

For now this is the email account I will be using, as
my earthlink address is now held by the robbers. If
you get any message from my earthlink account it is
from the robber, not from me.

The insurance adjuster is coming on Wednesday morning.
Right now I am afraid because this person has all my
information. I am afraid of becoming victimized by identity theft.

I don't know why this is happening to me or why my
life has been turned upside down. I need something to
go my way.

I will be in touch. Take Care
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Swede Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 07:20 PM
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1. There's not a worse feeling of helplessness and rage when they invade
your home. Good luck.
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jiacinto Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 07:22 PM
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3. I am unhinged
nt
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Scott Lee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 07:26 PM
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Hang in there man - at least you weren't hurt physically
Not trying to minimize what happened to you but, it could have been worse. Keep us informed.


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Blue-Jay Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 07:20 PM
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2. Holy crap, Dude!
I'm glad you're OK and getting the hell out of there. Be careful.
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DisgustipatedinCA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 07:23 PM
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4. Good luck, Carlos
It doesn't sound like Miami has been good to you.

In your absence, I'll make sure to remind myself that Ralph Nader is Satan if I stray and begin to think good things about the Greens.

Meantime, take care of yourself and good luck with the move.
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onebigbadwulf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 07:25 PM
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5. Identity theft is a massive pain
So you're gambling on how clever your theif is.

Cancelling all your cards and changing all your bank accounts is a given.

If you think identity theft is coming and you know he took your SNN, apply for a change in your SSN.

Make sure they didnt take your birth certificate. That's dangerous.

With the car keys, tough call. Make sure you have theft insurance, recent photos, and proof of recent mileage for the most acurate compensation if it does get stolen.

You don't have to leave florida, but definitely look into a different apartment. Try changing the PWs on your E-mail accounts and instant messager services, if it doesn't work, terminate them. Good luck.


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jiacinto Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 07:26 PM
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7. Already done that
nt
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Cheswick2.0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 07:26 PM
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6. Carlos, I am so sorry
Please do yourself a favor and place a flag on your credit report with all 3 agencies. They will make it very difficult for anone to borrow money in your name.

In the meantime, get out of there.

PS.. no one is after you, just your stuff
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jiacinto Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 07:26 PM
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9. already done that
nt
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DemExpat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 07:26 PM
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8. Carlos, get the heck out of there asap!
If I lived stateside you could come stay in my home to catch your breath, get your bearings, and make some plans.

This will all seem like a terrible nightmare in a couple of months.

Please take good care,

:hug:

DemEx
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JanMichael Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 07:31 PM
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10. Alright dude. Want to drive to Sarasota?
You can crash here for a couple of days, if you wish, while you prepare to skeedaddle outta Florida.

It's a studio so it's only the couch for guests but I've passed out on it plenty of times and my back is OK the next day.

Your call.
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jiacinto Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 07:33 PM
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12. I need to say here
The adjustor is coming. I then need to pack. I have a part time job here.

So many things to do here.
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JanMichael Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 07:35 PM
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13. No problem.
You're welcome to come over once you get your shit together.

Good luck.
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arcos Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 07:33 PM
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11. good luck! n/t
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hlthe2b Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 07:36 PM
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14. I'm sorry to be dense, Carlos, but all this AFTER you were
mugged last week?

Do you have ANY idea who is doing this?

I wish you the best of luck in getting things quickly resolved and making your exit back to a locale where you can feel safe and at peace. Take care.
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jiacinto Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 07:51 PM
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18. It has to be someone who knows me
nt
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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 07:36 PM
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15. Oh my god Carlos!
I cannot believe this is happening, on top of everything else! Reading this post just makes me want to cry for you, it's so fucking unfair. :cry:

See JanMichael's post above, you should take him up on his offer, so you can get your head straight.

I'm sending you all the good energy I can muster. If you need to talk, pm me.

:hug:

-heather
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Rowdyboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 07:42 PM
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16. Jesus, man...
if it wasn't for bad luck, you'd have no luck at all. It literally HAS to get better for you! I wish you the best...
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jiacinto Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 07:44 PM
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17. Yeah it does
nt
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wtmusic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 07:53 PM
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19. Sorry to hear it Carlos
Thanks for keeping in touch--we're thinking of you.

That Bastard!
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Kamika Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 07:53 PM
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20. Atleast you have your computer
everything isnt so bad
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jiacinto Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 07:56 PM
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22. I am at Kinko's
nt
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Kamika Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 07:58 PM
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23. atleast you have your health
everythin isnt so bad
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jiacinto Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 07:58 PM
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24. my mental health is going downhill
nt
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Kamika Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 08:00 PM
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25. atleast you have food
everything isnt so bad
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onebigbadwulf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 08:16 PM
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29. AHAHAH
Kamika.. you silly vixen you. :loveya:
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Kamika Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 09:13 PM
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37. I know I know
I'm silly but I can't help it
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JanMichael Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 08:00 PM
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26. "All is for the best in the best of all possible worlds!"
Dr. Pangloss would be proud;-)
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Insider Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 07:54 PM
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21. good luck, carlos
good luck as you take you next steps. be safe.

www.greatday.com

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jiacinto Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 08:06 PM
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27. I will be back here at Kinko's tommorrow
nt
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barbaraann Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 08:14 PM
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28. Kinko's in Miami?
You must have gotten lost from being upset. If I were you I would be contacting family or friends for help asap.
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Darranar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 08:18 PM
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30. That's horrible!
I hope things start getting better for you.

Good luck.
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KoKo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 08:34 PM
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31. Carlos...pack up that car....and just drive, drive, drive. FLA has NOT
been the place for you. Find any city on the way up and look for "Social Services" if you don't have any money.

Go to a church...if you're Catholic a priest will loan you money (really) find a church and keep looking until you find the Priest who will help you from "discresionary fund," or go to a fundie church and swear you are a Freep....just do something to keep yourself going.

That place has been bad news since you got there. Say goodbye the the damned roaches and mold and get the hell out! Milk and "Cheeze toasts w/peanut butter" from Convenience Stores on the road will keep you going. We humans don't need much to live on in the way of food.....and just keep going searching for "Social Services" in the "Yellow Pages" along the way!

Go to the Salvation Army if you get so desperate you have nothing. (Although I know some DU'ers have had some bad experiences with it.....you don't need to be with them that long...you do have your degree....you can get on your feet...but you need help...and with no family or close friends you need it from the "outside." Take it!
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 08:36 PM
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32. Jesus Christ man...
Here I was bitchin' about being sick w/ the flu, and now I feel WORSE after reading this.
I hope you get out of Miami and find a place that will only shower you with peace and comfort. Good luck Carlos!
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shepard Donating Member (63 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 08:54 PM
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33. Best Hopes
Tache ushte tache ehe techihhila
MAY THE GREAT SPIRIT WATCH OVER YOU ALWAYS Ahe'ee Nehemah
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YellowRubberDuckie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 09:00 PM
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34. I so wish I could do something.
Edited on Mon Nov-10-03 09:01 PM by YellowRubberDuckie
I wish I could help you, but all I can send is my love and prayer for you that you'll be ok. :grouphug:
Have the police done ANYTHING?
Duckie
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Kahuna Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 09:03 PM
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35. Good thing you have insurance....
A lot of apartment dwellers don't have insurance. I hope everything goes well for you. Keep the faith.
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Booberdawg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 09:11 PM
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36. OMFG Carlos. I am so sorry. Please, just get the fuck out of Florida
This has been a nightmare for you. I can't stand to see you go through this anymore. Just get the hell out of there.

Oh and hugs :hug:

*sigh*
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jiacinto Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-11-03 11:21 AM
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49. yeah I am leaving here
nt
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Booberdawg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 09:16 PM
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38. Carlos, if you need to pass through Iowa, Omaha NE area I can put you up
I am out of town right now but will be back home the 21st. Have plenty of room and an extra bedroom. Please PM me if you need a place to flop for a while.

Linda
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MrMonk Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 09:18 PM
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39. Carlos - if you're still online
Sleep somewhere else tonight, if you can. The first couple of nights after a burglary can be hell on the nerves.
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jiacinto Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-11-03 11:02 AM
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47. I am sleeping at hotels now
nt
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lpbk2713 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 10:06 PM
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40. Your world has turned to chit ever since you've been in Florida
Ever think of maybe....... oh I dunno......... Alaska?
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rppper Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-11-03 12:19 AM
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41. jaysus k-rist carlos....glad you're alive.....
i had just made a post earlier tonite wondering how you were. i'll be the next to say it...forget what i told you in the "professional thug" post and GTFO there...get the f@*k outta...at least get out of the south florida area. really, don't think the whole state is as bad...there is good opportunity in the orlando or tampa area...a little more laid back there too...try the space coast...cocoa, titusville or even new smyrna beach...hell carlos...come up to daytona and stay a day or two here...if you dont mind several cats and a 80lbs lap dog.

positive thoughts to your dark cloud going away carlos...you need them.....
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jiacinto Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-11-03 11:07 AM
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48. I am leaving FL altogether
nt
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XanaDUer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-11-03 01:08 AM
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42. God Carlos
take care, and it does sound like this has been taken to another level. Although, in South Florida, it is entirely possible to be the victim of a crime (not connected) right next to each other in time.

Sounds like you have done what you can.

Take care and keep in touch.
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jiacinto Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-11-03 10:53 AM
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46. I will stay in touch
nt
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CanuckAmok Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-11-03 01:52 AM
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43. YEEESH!
So sorry to hear.

At least you hadn't bothered to get that gun yet, so the robber isn't in possession of that, too!

I think the other DUers are right--stay somewhere else tonight--the adjuster will certainly understand you not wanting to be there.

Cancel everything.

Get a "Club" for your car, and take the distributor cap or some ignition fuses out every night---it'll make it slightly more difficult to steal, and they probably won't bother.

Hang in there!!

(sending metric measurements of good thoughts your way)
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marzipanni Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-11-03 02:30 AM
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44. I think you should try this-
it might give you some ideas since your luck has been crappy in Florida lately.

http://www.FindYourSpot.com/



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RebelOne Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-11-03 07:08 AM
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45. So sorry, Carlos
That's one of the many reasons I moved out of South Florida--the high crime rate.
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jiacinto Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-11-03 03:50 PM
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50. Thank you
nt
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jeter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-11-03 03:52 PM
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51. Hey Carlos, weren't you robbed in front of your home
weeks back? Could there be a connection?
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jiacinto Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-11-03 04:00 PM
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52. I think so
nt
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