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THUNDER HANDS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 08:18 PM
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Poll question: What's The Average Length Of Time You Have Sex For?
Edited on Mon Nov-10-03 08:26 PM by Magic Rat
Sex is a very interesting and educational topic. For those who've never had sex, and there might be a few on DU *coughJohnKleebcough* please give them an idea of how long the magic lasts for?

Now, I know this is gonna vary. Especially because I'm sure there are some tantric folks out there who like marathons.

So what do you say, what's the average length of time for you and your booty partner. From the start of foreplay to the fireworks at the end. :)

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Padraig18 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 08:20 PM
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1. Daily total, or per-round?
:evilgrin:
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phaseolus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 08:21 PM
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2. Now, or when I was in my 20s??
n/t
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slinkerwink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 08:22 PM
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3. it's ten to twenty minutes for me if the guy or girl has enough stamina..
hahaha......oh, the nostalgia is setting in big-time.
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THUNDER HANDS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 08:23 PM
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4. nostalga?
Aren't you 21?

And, isn't 20 minutes a short ammount of time?

I always thought the average was like...45 minutes or so.

:shrug:
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Misinformed01 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 08:28 PM
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11. Would you PLEASE do all the adults here a favor
and just ask Slinkerwink out on a date, for Christ's sake???

Jesus, it's not like you guys live that damned far apart...how hard can it be for one of you to get to NYC or Boston for a weekend???

You are both cute; you are in about the same age group....get on with it.
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THUNDER HANDS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 08:29 PM
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12. duuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuude
I was working up to that....you're busting my mojo.

:P
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Misinformed01 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 08:33 PM
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13. Oh, screw your stupid mojo.
Edited on Mon Nov-10-03 08:34 PM by Misinformed01
Just get on with it.

And for God's sake, don't post and let us know the details, OK?

Furthermore, don't call me "dude."

Stephanie
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Rashind Donating Member (221 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 11:10 PM
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26. No way, I totally want details.
I'm getting some now, I'll trade. (details, that is. Not partners. I'm rather attached to mine.) :evilgrin:
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slinkerwink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 08:35 PM
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16. as austin powers would say, "Where's my mojo?"
God, that movie is one of my guilty pleasures...
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 08:57 PM
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18. You know funny thing is
Someone suggested I do the same one time.
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JanMichael Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 09:03 PM
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21. Honey, please, don't scare the children!
Bwahahahha! (for all of the curious people out there, yes, I do laugh uncontrollably (sp?) at times)

Off to Gitmo for more Piwo!

Love ya' darling!
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JohnKleeb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 09:06 PM
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23. heh
:hi:
Yes I do the same thing. BTW if anyone wants to work with me at Gitmo on the Escape Commitee, I am in need of volunteers.
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radwriter0555 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-11-03 03:00 PM
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37. Yeah, I second that. Geesh. GET A ROOM already...
fercryinoutloud.
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slinkerwink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 08:34 PM
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15. yes, I'm twenty-one
20 minutes is a short amnount of time but perfect in between classes---that was my average with my ex-boyfriend. With my ex-girlfriend, however, we would spend two hours kissing, then another hour or so doing foreplay, and about two hours having mind-blowing sex that involved multiple orgasms.
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THUNDER HANDS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 08:57 PM
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19. so we're comparing
20 minutes (men) to about the length of a NFL game (women).

Wow, lesbianism is sweet.

:)
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slinkerwink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 09:03 PM
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20. the problem with my ex-boyfriend was that he didn't have enough stamina
but this one guy I dated was soooo good......in bed.....he lasted for hours and hours......too bad he was only one of the five guys I dated that did me well in bed...
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THUNDER HANDS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 09:06 PM
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22. I wonder what gives women the stamina
It must be so cool to stay hot and heavy for hours at time.

:)
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piece sine Donating Member (931 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-11-03 02:27 PM
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36. Straights miss-out on bath-house orgies....
One loses all sense of time in the baths. Depending on the physical attributes of both prey and prowlers, the sex can go on for hours. And if your hot to trot, there's little or guesswork: all your partners are in towels so coy behavior is subverted to to all-out lust.

Flamers, forget the AIDS angle. Unsafe sex can happen in Mayberry, RFD as easily as anywhere else.

I feel bad for randy straights (men and women) because there's no really no outlet like it. And no, Plato's retreat doesn't even come close to your average gay L.A. or NYC bath....

So while folks here measure sex in minutes, geepers...I've gone from midnight until dawn and only stopped long enough for a quick shower and another round of tokes before continuing to screw around with everyone in the place I took a fancy too.

Gays suffer; we're reviled; blah-blah-blah.....we have some of the best sex in world!
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KoKo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 08:24 PM
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5. AGAIN! Magic....you gotta's get a life here. You're Obsessed!
Too Much!
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THUNDER HANDS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 08:25 PM
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7. so sayeth
someone who reads all of my sex threads.

:)
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dweller Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 08:25 PM
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6. You forgot the
no other choice, aka, the 24 hours of the day choice.
:evilgrin:

dp
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Faygo Kid Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 08:25 PM
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8. Where is none of the above? Like, not gettin' any?
Us older types at DU feel discriminated against here. Just wait, you young whippersnappers. You will know what I mean.
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THUNDER HANDS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 08:26 PM
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9. added
:)
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Faygo Kid Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 08:27 PM
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10. Thanks! Now I can vote!
Uh - thanks. I think. Damn.
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SiobhanClancy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-11-03 12:56 PM
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34. Don't worry..
My father(the smartest man I ever knew,btw)always told me that those who talk about it the most do it the least. I haven't seen or heard anything in my life yet to make me doubt the veracity of that observation:)
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LadeJarl Donating Member (197 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 08:34 PM
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14. All night long because..
I have a problem coming. It takes a lot of time and with most females I don't :)

I know this sounds like a luxury problems to all you "quick-shooters" out there, but trust me, it's not. I wish I wasn't like this.

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Jack The Tab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-11-03 03:01 PM
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38. I feel your pain....
It truly is no silver-lined cloud - It takes forever, my girlfriends have gotten tired, I've gotten tired..etc. This happens when I have daily sex. It's not so bad if we go every other day or every three days.

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mitchum Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 08:53 PM
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17. going on 30 years now
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Ellen Forradalom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 09:08 PM
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24. Now now, MR, let's not taunt the virgins
It's not nice. We can always organize a ritual deflowering like in 'Almost Famous.'

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Kat45 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-03 09:24 PM
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25. It depends on who I'm with, and his stamina
I've been with guys who were pretty quick about everything, and I've been with guys who will go for hours. BTW, I prefer the latter. :D
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VOX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-11-03 05:11 AM
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27. I'm a detail man. A good job or no job -- and I take my bloody time!
All night isn't enough on some occasions. I like us to be relaxed, start sloooowly, maybe bathe together, light some candles, massage each other, and let the cares of the day melt away.

I'm attentive and solitious, and I always make sure milady's been properly pleasured. And I will do whatever that takes.

Ahh, but enough theory -- time for some real-life practice! :evilgrin:
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BiggJawn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-11-03 07:35 AM
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28. I'll let you in on a little secret....
I'd rather do "foreplay" than "IT"...Just as long as I DO get off, I don't care how long it takes or what you want first...When I can only "talk her into it" twice a year, you'd better believe I wanna spend more than 10 minutes at it....
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Loonman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-11-03 07:54 AM
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29.  2 hours longer than Magic Rat
So that would be 2 hours and 8 seconds.
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VelmaD Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-11-03 08:33 AM
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30. Sometimes fast and sometimes slow...
it's not always the same honey. Sometimes a girl craves a quickie and it's hot and heavy up against a wall somewhere. Sometime though I want hours and hours of foreplay with lots of mind-blowing orgasms. If you do it the same every time it can get a little stale.
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THUNDER HANDS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-11-03 09:23 AM
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31. I'll remember that
:evilgrin:
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Amaya Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-11-03 09:29 AM
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32. I agree with you..
It all depends on my mood. Although I do enjoy the foreplay more than anything.. anticipation is the best part, in my humble opinion :evilgrin:
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BiggJawn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-11-03 01:17 PM
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35. My kind of Girl!
I love GIVING those "mind blowers" almost as much as the recipient loves getting 'em....
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Maine-i-acs Donating Member (989 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Nov-11-03 12:51 PM
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33. 5-6 hours but ...
That includes dinner, a movie and some begging.

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