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Tue Sep-13-05 03:50 PM
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How old were you when you first fell in love? |
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Tue Sep-13-05 03:51 PM
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1. I was 15 and it was with my now husband. |
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We were high school sweethearts!! :loveya: I am so lucky!! :loveya: It makes me want to go home and hug and kiss him right now!
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Tue Sep-13-05 03:51 PM
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2. Well, I was married at the age of 9 |
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In my back yard by the neighbor, who was a minister's daughter. The first time I fell in LOVE was when I was 20. He was my "first time," and he broke my heart, but I stupidly allowed it to be broken.
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Tue Sep-13-05 03:52 PM
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3. 19, though I thought I had a half-dozen times before that (nt) |
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Tue Sep-13-05 03:58 PM
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Tue Sep-13-05 03:59 PM
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5. 17. Or, at least I thought it was love. |
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:shrug: i don't think it really was. i think i was more in love with the idea of being in love.
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Tue Sep-13-05 03:59 PM
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Tue Sep-13-05 03:59 PM
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Olivia Newton-John wearing black leather pants in "Grease"
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Tue Sep-13-05 04:00 PM
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8. First "real" girlfriend was at age 19 |
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She was the first one of any real consequence. We dated for four years, off and on, through college and afterwards for a year or so until she dumped me for good.
I actually shed more tears over our breakup than I ever did over the breakup of my 9-year marriage, believe it or not. She broke my heart, and good.
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Tue Sep-13-05 04:01 PM
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Tue Sep-13-05 04:14 PM
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15. And I feel like a freak! |
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Am I the only one who took so long?
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Tue Sep-13-05 04:17 PM
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Tue Sep-13-05 04:21 PM
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Tue Sep-13-05 04:44 PM
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26. Well, I'm 23 and I've never fallen |
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Still, the romantic in me finds something erotically poetic in saving myself for "the one."
Perhaps I read too many 19th century novels.
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Tue Sep-13-05 04:11 PM
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We were both art majors, and after a semester of being drawing class buds (with him dating someone else), I came back the next fall looking hot.
He dumped her and got with me. It only lasted a year, but I was totalled for a long time afterward. Didn't have a serious guy for 4 years after that.
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Tue Sep-13-05 04:11 PM
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Tue Sep-13-05 04:13 PM
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But she already had a boyfriend from three grades ahead with the height, muscles, body hair and forehead slope of King Kong, so I kept it to myself.
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Tue Sep-13-05 04:16 PM
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16. 6. Boy next door. Don't laugh. |
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I said DON'T LAUGH.
I used to have a heart. Thanks, Chad!
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Tue Sep-13-05 04:25 PM
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Don't worry, I bet he ended up living in mom's basement, working at the comics store, and spendings his weekends at gaming cons.
Hey waitaminute...
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Tue Sep-13-05 04:28 PM
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23. Unfortunately for all of us... |
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nevermind. I'm still too bitter to write about my relationship-related hatred.
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Tue Sep-13-05 07:34 PM
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37. I guess he left you hanging. |
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Tue Sep-13-05 04:21 PM
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20. I'm 20 and I haven't been there yet |
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Tue Sep-13-05 04:26 PM
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Tue Sep-13-05 04:35 PM
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I'm fussy--always have been.
I can be in "like" with all sorts, but for genuine love, I require someone who has a wide-ranging intellect and a dry sense of humor in addition to all the usual good qualities (kindness, honesty, liberality...).
I was 22 before I met someone who fit the profile. That was when I first really understood what all the love songs were about. :-)
Unfortunately, aside from being brilliant and funny, he was seriously messed up emotionally, and although I was only one of a crowd of young women who were after him, he didn't get together with any of us. :-(
However, I googled his name a while back and discovered that he is married, so he must have gotten over whatever it was that was keeping him from connecting with anyone.
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Tue Sep-13-05 04:37 PM
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Well, I guess a lot of people Google their exes. I? Have never had the guts.
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Tue Sep-13-05 08:57 PM
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39. I Googled all my exes |
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Tue Sep-13-05 04:47 PM
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I don't really count high school stuff.
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Tue Sep-13-05 04:47 PM
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19, if you consider it was love because someone finally screwed me.
24, if you consider real love.
34, if you count true, everlasting, the real-thing, OMFG love. 10 years later and it's only gotten better!
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Tue Sep-13-05 05:08 PM
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Tue Sep-13-05 05:10 PM
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We dated until I was 18 then drifted apart. Nothing dramatic just got older and moved on.
The next time was when I was 34.
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Tue Sep-13-05 05:14 PM
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Tue Sep-13-05 05:22 PM
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Luckily, I managed to escape that trap before it snared me. :)
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Tue Sep-13-05 05:49 PM
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Suzie White... where did you go? You were my across the street neighbor, but tragically, you moved away before I could declare my emotions.
I would not fall in love again until the age of 8 (the humiliating "Jennifer Dowd incident". :cry:)
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Tue Sep-13-05 06:19 PM
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34. 6. She sat next to me in "circle" time in first-grade. |
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Her birth-mother was a lesbian and her birth-father a gay man. :loveya:
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Tue Sep-13-05 06:20 PM
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35. I'll let you know when it happens. |
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Tue Sep-13-05 06:22 PM
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36. 7, in second grade... |
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I chased him around the playground & he fell against the monkey bars and chipped his tooth. For some reason, at that age, girls always chased the boys.
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Tue Sep-13-05 07:39 PM
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when I had my daughter. That was when I realised what real love felt like, and I didn't have that for her father. Thank goodness I was not married. Now, falling in true love with a partner, was when I was 27, when I met my husband. It was love at first e-mail/sight. Married at 28 and have been married for over a year. We have been together for 2 years just this month.
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