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Sun Sep-18-05 03:11 PM
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Poll question: Have you ever had a one night stand? |
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Sun Sep-18-05 03:23 PM
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1. No, but I'm willing to. |
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Taking all applications! I prefer brunettes.
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Sun Sep-18-05 03:48 PM
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4. Yes. Luckily I began having sex about 3 years before AIDs and HIV were |
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discovered.
I literally remember reading the article in the Tallahassee paper at breakfast, about a mysterious virus killing NYC gay men...
I remember dating a fellow shorly thereafter who told me of his single homosexual experience a couple years prior, and actually doing the math in my head, wondering if it was something I should worry about.
So, I at least got to have some wild, late 70's one night stand sex before it became lethal.
*sigh*
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Sun Sep-18-05 03:24 PM
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2. Too many to count....... |
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Mon Sep-19-05 01:44 AM
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Mon Sep-19-05 01:45 AM
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18. My dear KitchenWitch... |
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Are you still up?
Feel like chatting? Call if you do....
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Mon Sep-19-05 01:48 AM
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21. Sure Peggy, let me log in. |
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Mon Sep-19-05 01:56 AM
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24. Oh that's me all right..... |
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Chris Green, Male Prostitute......
Nah, I never got paid to get .....
Let me just say this...
The seventies, drinking way too much and sprinkle some drugs on top of that mess.....
Let's just pray to the gods of love and I will thank them I never had the pleasure of contracting an STD......
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Mon Sep-19-05 02:05 AM
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I know a lot of folks who were not so fortunate. HIV, Hepatitis, Herpes, the whole nine yards.
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Sun Sep-18-05 03:44 PM
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I would have gone steady with her, but it wasn't meant to be.
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Sun Sep-18-05 06:03 PM
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10. The closest I've come is a three-night stand |
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I think I get your drift, Billy.
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Mon Sep-19-05 02:08 AM
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28. Listen to Lucinda Williams These three days...... |
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It's heart wrenching....
Those are worse than the one night stands....
ONS are like a test drive....
But three days, a lot of heart can be involved and torn and tattered....
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Sun Sep-18-05 04:13 PM
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5. Eventually grew away from them. |
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Not that I had so many that I was a tart. They began feeling empty, so I veered away from them. Later, if I was feeeling randy, I'd look back with regret. The moral: Might as well go for it, as long as it's up front and mutual.
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Sun Sep-18-05 04:19 PM
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Sun Sep-18-05 05:56 PM
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7. I haven't had any...... |
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Long marriage, no temptations as yet...
But one never knows about the future.......so I put that I'd be willing to have a one-night stand......
:shrug:
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Sun Sep-18-05 06:10 PM
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12. Good lawd, Peggy! You shock me! |
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I think I have an attack of the vapors.:wow:
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Mon Sep-19-05 01:42 AM
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14. I'm not entirely surprised at your being shocked, my dear Fuzzy Slippers |
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I do believe that most folks here see me as a fairly straight-laced married woman...
Who might not have the appetites of the younger women....
Suffice it to say that I am a well-rounded female with all the appetites and needs of anyone....
And if someday I am deprived of my marital state, I just might find myself in the one-night-stand situation...
I don't really expect it, but you never know....
Never is, after all, a VERY long time.....
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Mon Sep-19-05 03:20 AM
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32. I'm not really shocked, Peggy. |
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I've done it myself.:blush:
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Sun Sep-18-05 06:00 PM
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8. Does masturbation count as a one night stand? |
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If so, I have one every night. :P
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Sun Sep-18-05 06:02 PM
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sounds like a committed relationship to me! B-)
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Sun Sep-18-05 06:04 PM
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The most devoted partner I've ever had. :p
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Sun Sep-18-05 06:13 PM
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13. Yes, and tried to turn it into a relationship |
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but it didn't work out. It was 10+ years ago, and I'm much more selective about that kind of thing now.
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Mon Sep-19-05 01:45 AM
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In my younger musician days. It was a fun time in my 20's..
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Mon Sep-19-05 01:47 AM
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19. Yeah, I've had plenty. I wish it wasn't considered such a |
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taboo thing...what's wrong with two people getting together with no strings attached?
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Mon Sep-19-05 01:49 AM
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But what I wouldn't give for one of those to turn to love.
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Mon Sep-19-05 01:49 AM
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23. Yes and I won't do it again. n/t |
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Mon Sep-19-05 02:00 AM
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25. For some reason, I clicked "no, but I'm willing to." |
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Edited on Mon Sep-19-05 02:01 AM by BlueIris
Mostly because although I cannot say that I would desire to be in a relationship anytime ever again, I could, at some point in the future, perhaps see myself sleeping with someone. So, one stand stand it is, even though, back when I was dating, that sort of thing didn't work for me at all. I was always one of those "have to know them first" types.
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Mon Sep-19-05 02:07 AM
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but didn't mean to really, sorry, my only one was at the Comfort Inn in Riverside California....and Brenda if you are out there, thanks.
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Mon Sep-19-05 02:09 AM
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29. Damn - I wish I was going to DC. |
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Edited on Mon Sep-19-05 02:10 AM by RevCheesehead
There are bound to be a few that weekend, aren't there? :evilgrin:
edit: sorry, meant to respond to original post.
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Mon Sep-19-05 03:17 AM
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31. Damn you ARE naughty aren't you? |
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Mon Sep-19-05 11:05 AM
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37. I certainly have my moments. |
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Mon Sep-19-05 03:11 AM
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30. No, even in my wilder days that sort of thing never interested me |
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Mon Sep-19-05 04:42 AM
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33. I've tried, they just kept coming back for more |
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Mon Sep-19-05 07:32 PM
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44. I can understand why. |
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Mon Sep-19-05 07:53 AM
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35. Once. It was really, REALLY unfulfilling. |
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Mon Sep-19-05 07:54 AM
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36. I don't know -- does it count if it was your best friend at the time? |
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If so, then yes. But there was a lot of lead-up (we both had major crushes on one another, but we were almost never single at the same time), and the friendship continued after the initial awkwardness wore off. (We had a couple of make-out sessions after but only did the deed that once. I was 16 or so.)
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Mon Sep-19-05 11:07 AM
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38. Nope, never have probably never will since I am married! |
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Mon Sep-19-05 11:44 AM
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40. Yes, I had one this weekend! |
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with this HOT redhead I picked up at a wedding in Lake Geneva, WI.
She was wearing this fantastic green beaded flapper dress with 4" black heels and could dance like an angel. I loved watching her dance all by herself on the dancefloor, and every guy there was staring at her. So I walked up and asked for the next dance, and she softly touched my cheek and said yes, and we then danced together all night.
And she was the sexiest woman I had ever met in my life, with a smile that made my heart melt, and big green eyes that I could get lost in and never resurface.
She was at once beautiful, gentle, confident, intelligent, vulnerable, charming, caring, funny, tender, and amazingly exciting.
I instantly fell in love.
We danced until 2am and then she came with me to my room and I thought I had died and gone to heaven.
RL
Oh, wait a minute, that was my wife... :shrug:
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Mon Sep-19-05 11:54 AM
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Edited on Mon Sep-19-05 11:54 AM by VelmaD
though most of them have turned into 2 or 3 day flings. Sort of more like one-weekend stands. :) The first one I had in college...not so good. But the couple I've had since then...wonderful. :)
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Mon Sep-19-05 01:09 PM
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43. Wasn't planned that way... She did mention I was guy #150! |
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Or it could have been that three way one nighter. Does that count for anything at all around here?? :dilemma:
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Mon Sep-19-05 07:37 PM
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46. I'd prefer to forget about it. |
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