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Mon Sep-19-05 10:45 PM
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Any other ladies hate "chick flicks?" |
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I have a hard time getting up the enthusiasm to go out with my galpals for movie night, because they inevitably want to throw down money to watch crappy romance/relationship movies. The whole genre of "chick flicks" pretty much repulses me, save for the likes of "Thelma and Louise." I would much rather, for instance, see "the Exorcism of Emily Rose" than "Must Love Dogs." But, seeing as I am always unanimously outvoted, guess which I've seen.:mad: :puke:
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Mon Sep-19-05 10:47 PM
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1. Yes...can't stand them |
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They are usually too sappy and void of any real interesting content. I'd much rather see a horror movie or a dumb comedy.
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Mon Sep-19-05 10:50 PM
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2. Anything with John Cusack derserves at least a look see.... |
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But, Mrs. WCGreen always goes to see those with the MIL....
We took my 85 year old MIL to see 40 year old Virgin...
She laughed so hard I was glad she was wearing depends
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Mon Sep-19-05 10:53 PM
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6. Oh yes! I Love John Cusack! |
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He's definitely reason enough to warrant watching most things, but even his charm and good looks couldn't bail the water out of that foul boat.
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Mon Sep-19-05 11:14 PM
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11. Yea it looked that way to me too.... |
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My favorite 90's movie is Grosse Pointe Blank....
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Tue Sep-20-05 09:32 AM
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40 Year Old Virgin last weekend, and reprehensor was crying he was laughing so hard.
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Mon Sep-19-05 10:51 PM
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My sweet neighbor will come over and watch one with me now and then,just to be nice, but that necessitates alot of eye-covering and grabbing onto me. Slightly annoying.
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Tue Sep-20-05 10:48 AM
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38. I wish I had someone to watch horror movies with. |
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My husband will, once in a great while, watch a semi-horror flick with me. And he'll watch thrillers.
But for regular ol' horror movies, I'm on my own.
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Tue Sep-20-05 10:51 AM
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39. When horror movies arrive from Netflix, |
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my husband get the old eye-roll going. I also think he's pretending to like Napoleon Dynamite, because his brother and I both do, but in reality he doesn't "get it."
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Mon Sep-19-05 10:51 PM
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4. Do you like gangster movies? |
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Mon Sep-19-05 10:58 PM
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I like horror and thrillers. I like comedies, but I'm very picky about movie humor. I like action and scifi movies if they have a good plot or enough good special effects to detract from the fact that they have a lousy plot (good for a night when I want to be entertained w/out having to think.) I like intelligent, quirky movies (I love the Independent Film Channel.) I just don't like the sap-and-crap movies the market is continually saturated with. and apparently, as a woman, I'm supposed to.:eyes:
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Mon Sep-19-05 10:52 PM
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5. I cannot stand them...too schmaltzy for me. |
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Mon Sep-19-05 10:56 PM
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7. I like *good* chick flicks, which are far and few between. |
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Or whatever the saying is, LOL. There's not much to them, and that's what irritates me. It's like they have dozens of them in the film industry machine, just because women will see them. Not because they're original or good.
Chocolat, I liked. Pretty Woman, I liked (but I love Julia). I like romantic films, but so many chick flicks are of the basest kind of romance, just really mediocre love stories.
Must Love Dogs, Maid in Manhattan, the Wedding Planner, etc. etc. I would only watch on Encore. Maybe. If I happened to catch it, and nothing better was on.
But, I'd rather see one of them than Dumb and Dumber, or Barbershop 2, or some cheesy comedy like those.
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Mon Sep-19-05 11:01 PM
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9. I can't stand those movies. |
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Romantic comedies and the like make me want to barf.
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Mon Sep-19-05 11:06 PM
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Oh Winona-- how far you have fallen.:scared:
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Mon Sep-19-05 11:46 PM
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12. If it's starring Meg Ryan and Tom Hanks, I avoid, what's that say? |
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about me?
I avoided Shakespeare in Love because it was directly marketed to women (which isn't to say I may not rent it one of these days).
LOVED Joy, Luck Club. Some may consider it a 'chick flick' I consider it a fabulous film.
I've been known to seek out films starring Will Ferrell, the Wilson brothers and Vince Vaughn. I don't like school boy, toilet humour but can't wait for 40 year old virgin to die down so I can see it in peace.
Love Tarantino's films, I know a lot of women don't necessarily like his stuff... I've seen the Godfather more so many times I've lost count, also part two. Not opposed to Scorcese, yes I turn away from the violence, but have enjoyed his work, too...
I'm weird. I'm good with that though. :hi:
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Tue Sep-20-05 12:05 AM
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14. Weirdness requires no disclaimer. |
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It's a preferred state of being. Tarantino is neato.
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Tue Sep-20-05 11:45 AM
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I've spent the better part of my life, it seems apologizing for being different from most other women I've been acquainted with. :eyes:
Tarantino is neato, isn't he?
I absolutely did NOT expect to like Kill Bill, as I'm not usualy a fan of martial arts films. But I absolutely LOVED it. I've seen it so many times now, that I know lines from it.
I think that movie rocks! :headbang:
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Tue Sep-20-05 11:48 AM
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but I generally like movies where women kick serious ass!:smoke:
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Tue Sep-20-05 12:22 PM
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I hadn't encountered many films, prior to this one where women did kick ass. Very cool of Tarantino to be pro-woman that way.
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Tue Sep-20-05 10:29 AM
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30. Shakespeare in Love sucks ass |
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But I'm a sucker for period movies, especially Elizabethan period movies, so I saw it just for the outfits.
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Tue Sep-20-05 11:43 AM
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43. Thank you--you saved me a possible future rental. |
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I like period costumes, too.
I had a feeling if my mil saw this film and liked it, I would probably hate it. :eyes:
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my husband says that's the reason he married me (I can only hope he's kidding). The first time he came to my house, he saw that my movie collection was long on spaghetti westerns, Monty Python and everything 007 and short on anything with weeping, newly empowered females finding true love where they least expect it, he knew I was the one.:rofl:
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Tue Sep-20-05 04:02 AM
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15. There are VERY few chick flicks I like... |
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My DVD collection has mostly horror, sci fi, fantasy, suspense, comedy and animation. Out of 300 DVDs I MIGHT have 8 chick flicks. The only ones I really like and watch more than once are:
Chocolate Legend of the Falls A Walk in the Clouds Pay It Forward
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Tue Sep-20-05 09:12 AM
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21. "A Walk in the Clouds"---ah, under a waterfall with Viggo.... |
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Yes, that one has some redeeming features. The saccharine Meg Ryan/Julia Roberts/whoever films have NO interest for me.
I like some "historical" chick flicks. "Philadelphia Story" & "The Women" have plenty of wit to offer. "Now, Voyager" is primo 3-hanky material.
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Tue Sep-20-05 10:30 AM
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31. "A Walk on the Moon" Diane Lane and Viggo |
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"A Walk in the Clouds" with Keanu Reeves.
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Tue Sep-20-05 11:05 AM
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40. Sorry for the error..... |
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Tue Sep-20-05 12:57 PM
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55. YEAH, I like those films mentioned. As they say, they don't make |
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I hate love stories. A lot. I'm trying to think of an exception, but none comes to mind.
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Tue Sep-20-05 06:30 AM
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17. Another chick flick hater checking in |
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About five years ago I saw a cheesy horror pic in a video store about a killer snow man. When I told my brother about it he asked me to go back and rent it. Knowing what I wanted I walked straight to the horror section. I was the only customer there and I could here one cashier say here's your chance go and talk to her. The other cashier replied but don't you see were she is going? The first cashier said that was kind of hot. Before the next customer came in they spent some time discussing how they loved women who didn't make them watch chick flicks.
I once broke up with a guy after a trip to a video store. I realized we weren't meant for each other when he started to argue with me because I wanted to rent A Clockwork Orange and he wanted to see Romeo and Juliet.
There are a few good films in the chick flick genre but most are too sappy for me.
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The movie with the killer snowman is Jack Frost...I love that movie, it's just SO bad.
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She'll take a good action movie over one anytime
I Loooooove that woman
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19. I like movies. And I refuse to let them be pigeonholed by some dumb |
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Tue Sep-20-05 08:57 AM
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20. I have to admit to liking |
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some chick flicks. I also like some action adventure movies too. I also enjoy good murder mysterys.
I don't like gross out comedy flicks or horror flicks.
Also one type of movies that most people are reported to "Love" and are supposed to be "cool" and " always in", that I absoultetly deplore is "old classic films." It has nothing to do with them being filmed in black and white either.
I just find the acting too over the top. I know many actors were just starting to make the transition from theatre to film and thus this is why there was some over exagerration in terms of projecting the voice and making grand physical gestures. Knowing the reasons, however, still doesn't help me from getting distracted from the story by the "melodramatic acting." I am probably one of the only people alive who can't stand "Gone With the Wind" the film. I have had many a friend try to convert me in the past to an "old classics" fan but I still can't sit through them.
Is anyone else like me or am I in my "uncool uncouth" state all alone?
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Tue Sep-20-05 09:15 AM
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22. i am with you on that |
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i love all films but i am less attracted to the romantic comedies. I will see them but i get more excited about seeing an action film with lots of good fight secens and car chases. I do also like a love story but not a sappy romantic comedy.
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Tue Sep-20-05 09:49 AM
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24. I once dated a woman... |
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Many years back that insisted I bring her to see "Silence of the Lambs" on either our first or 2nd date.
My wife (and, my ex-wife for that matter) both love chick flicks. Nothing my wife hates more than a movie without romance and/or women (so, no war movies for her unless it has a serious love interest in it, like a "From Here to Eternity")
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Tue Sep-20-05 10:08 AM
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25. I'm a CHICK who HATES CHICK FLICKS! |
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And when I say "chick flick," I mean those truly stupid movies that seem to have been made for ten year old girls.
Like "Little Black Book," which a girlfriend insisted I rent. Uggghh!!! :puke::puke::puke::puke: Now I never take her movie recommendations.
And "Hitch"! :puke::puke::puke::puke:
My idea of a good romantic chick flick is "Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind."
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Tue Sep-20-05 10:19 AM
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26. "How to Make an American Quilt" is a total chick flick |
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It's one of my favorite movies, because it speaks to women's life, and the compromises women make, and how they adjust to those compromises. Basic message is: there's no such thing as happily ever after, just after.
My girlfriends, all tough working chicks went to see it, and we all cried at the end.
It depends on the movie. Something based on Nicholas Sparks is going to be awful. But condemn romances, and you're condeming good stuff like "Moonstruck" or even "Gone with the Wind" (let's forget about the politics of that one and just think about the cinematic experience)
Oh, and "Truly Madly Deeply" is a total chick flick, and again, one of my favorites.
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Tue Sep-20-05 10:23 AM
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27. I like GOOD movies, ones with originality, emotional depth, and plots |
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that I haven't seen before.
Most chick flicks do not fit those criteria.
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Tue Sep-20-05 10:23 AM
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28. I absolutely hate them. |
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Give me a good Sci-Fi, Action, Mystery, Adventure, etc. Hate that sappy gooey mushy stuff.
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Tue Sep-20-05 10:27 AM
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29. I hate them with the fire of a thousand suns |
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I hate that shit. I'm actually offended by it, that this is the crap that they aim at us.
BF took me to see House of Flying Daggers for Valentine's Day, and my dumb ass chick-flick loving sister was all like, "omg he took you to a kung fu movie?! Weird!" I love kung fu movies. Especially wu xia films...I think they're far more romantic than that Hollywood Julia Roberts/Reese Witherspoon/whoever bullshit.
Sci-fi/fantasy/horror for me, plz thnx.
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Tue Sep-20-05 10:33 AM
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33. Wow! I've totally got a sisterhood, here! |
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And for the record, I should acknowledge that I do absolutely believe that there are great romance movies out there, but if they have quality characters, meaningful plot and dialogue and are intelligent and affecting, I don't consider them "chick flicks." :hi:
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I completely agree. When I think "chick flick" I think of a movie with whoever Hollywood has deemed the "It girl" of the moment and Dermot Mulroney (he's in all these damn movies!), with a script cobbled together from mad libs. The title is usually three words, maybe four if they need to stick a pronoun in it somewhere. :P
I like romance, but I like it non-sappy and well done, with believable characters. Which means I hate chick flicks. The only one I even remotely liked was My Big Fat Greek Wedding, just because the family reminded me of my own (I'm not Greek, but black people act like that too :P).
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Tue Sep-20-05 10:38 AM
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34. I have never seen Beaches, When Harry Met Sally, Steel Magnolias, |
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Terms Of Endearment, Secrets Of The Ya-Ya Sisterhood, The Notebook, Four Weddings And A Funeral, Sleepless In Seattle, and many of the other so-called chick flicks.
I saw Bridget Jones's Diary and hated it. I didn't like Ghost either.
I did, however, like Runaway Bride and Dirty Dancing.
My favorite movies are thrillers, mysteries, action, and some types of fantasy/sci fi. I also like comedies and old movies.
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I love that movie, in spite of the schmaltz, because of the zingy one-liners. Olympia Dukakis and Shirley MacLaine were that whole movie as far as I'm concerned. I quote it all the time.
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Tue Sep-20-05 11:40 AM
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41. "Weezer--you have the handwriting of a serial killer..." |
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:rofl: "...it's like two pigs, fighting under a blanket."
I'm also quite fond of the lines from that movie!
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It also helps that I have an aunt that is basically a black Weezer. Down to the bastard ex-husbands and big, crazy dog. :)
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Tue Sep-20-05 09:49 PM
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59. omg--that must make for entertaining |
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conversations! Does she grow tomatoes, too? LOL!
:hi:
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Tue Sep-20-05 10:47 AM
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37. I won't pay to go see one. |
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I probally would'nt rent one either. And I will most likely change the channel if they come on free tv.
I don't watch movies about cheating spouses either. But I do like the tv show Cheaters. Go figure.
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Tue Sep-20-05 11:41 AM
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don't go see them. I hate them as well...it's my money, and a lot of it, that I'm shelling out to see a movie...and I'll spend it on something I actually want to see.
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Tue Sep-20-05 11:53 AM
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47. If I do that, I'll be a hermit.! |
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I don't get a ton of opportunities to go out-- kids and all. Maybe I can convince them we should go see a play, or something different. I haven't done that in a long time and I'd love to see some live entertainment.
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They're like love comics from the 50's.
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48. I'm a guy that hates "chick flicks" - is that good enough? n/t |
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50. Yep - and i detest those romance novels too. |
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Not that I've ever even tried to read one....
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but in terms of some women I've known that do--it's a good bet I would hate them.
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Tue Sep-20-05 12:30 PM
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53. Another woman who hates chick flicks |
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And chick lit, for that matter. I also hate the fact that so many otherwise good movies insist on sticking in some sappy love story to make it more "interesting" when in fact it just takes away from the plot. There are other relationships besides the romantic and life isn't always about "true love."
My hubby, on the other hand, likes a lot of that schmaltzy stuff - we joke that we get along so well because he was meant to be a woman and I was meant to be a man. We compromise - every once in a while we'll watch some sappy romance but we follow it up with a good, bracing war flick.
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Tue Sep-20-05 12:54 PM
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54. Chickflicks like watching "the view" on a loop |
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Tue Sep-20-05 01:47 PM
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56. I like ~good~ movies. And I won't go to see a bad one, even |
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if my friends all want to see it.
If I find myself at a movie that turns out to be bad, I get up and leave. I might have wasted my money, but I sure as shit won't waste my time.
And last but certainly not least, I have no problem going to see a movie by myself if I'm the only one who wants to see it.
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Tue Sep-20-05 02:21 PM
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58. I love going to movies by myself! |
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Being sporadically employed, I can also go during a weekday, and it's awesome. Cheaper prices (if it's a matinee theater), the brats are all in school so no screaming...it's awesome. Going by myself also means no having to round people up or wait for when they're free.
People look at me like I'm a freak when I tell them that, but I don't care. The only movies I go to with people are big event nerd flicks, which I go to with my nerd herd, at midnight in costume...it's the camaraderie aspect that makes the evening. We've already got our Slytherin uniforms ready for the next Harry Potter. :silly:
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60. anything romantic makes my skin crawl... |
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... same with the "heartwarming" tear-jerker stuff.
For good date films, I say stick to the scary/horror genre.
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