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More Than A Feeling Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 04:01 PM
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Poll question: If you met your 21 year old self today, what would you think of yourself?
Edited on Mon Sep-26-05 04:03 PM by Heaven and Earth
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Magrittes Pipe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 04:02 PM
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1. Heh -- that dumbass actually thinks he can change the world.
:D
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More Than A Feeling Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 04:04 PM
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2. So what happened?
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Magrittes Pipe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 04:06 PM
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3. Reality bit me.
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Fox Mulder Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 04:06 PM
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4. It was just like yesterday...
because I'm only 23. :)
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Guy Fawkes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 04:09 PM
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5. Mungo
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Texasgal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 04:09 PM
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6. " I didn't even recognize myself"
I was so much hotter when I was 21..... note the word "much"! :evilgrin:
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More Than A Feeling Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 04:17 PM
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7. We all know you're still a total hottie
;-)
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Coventina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 04:20 PM
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8. I was still an idiot at 21. Thinner and better looking, but an idiot.
:evilfrown:
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skygazer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 04:55 PM
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9. Older but not a lot different
My outlook and way of living has not changed too drastically since then. I drink less and weigh more, I've got a bit of gray in my hair but I was a pretty responsible, hardworking 21 (I had 2 kids when I was 21) and I'm a pretty responsible hardworking 44. I was very socially conscious then and I have most of the same opinions now.
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tigereye Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 05:03 PM
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10. I like myself much better now than I did then
Edited on Mon Sep-26-05 05:03 PM by tigereye
so that's good.

I would tell myself to relax, all will be well. ( and go to Europe now, cuz it might be a while!) ;)
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Left Is Write Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 05:04 PM
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11. "Wow...she's too young to be a single mom. She's got a lot on her plate."
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Taverner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 06:15 PM
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25. Dude...take the plane to Havana, Cuba instead of San Francisco
You'll know what I mean when the time comes....
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BikeWriter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 05:09 PM
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12. Naive young troop!
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skygazer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 05:10 PM
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14. BikeWriter, you sweet young thing!
Can't resist a man in uniform. :shrug:
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BikeWriter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 05:19 PM
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18. LOL! Thank you. That was taken many moons ago. :-)
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LisaM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 05:10 PM
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13. Just how many hours a day DO you work out?
Clearly more than now.
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asthmaticeog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 05:11 PM
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15. I was a shithead.
I much prefer my 35-year-old self, except for one thing - can I please have my old ability to drink in large quantities and not be hung over back?
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neuvocat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 05:12 PM
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16. Hey man, there's something about yourself that...
you really need to know."
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trof Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 05:14 PM
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17. Kid, you were an idiot. Lucky for you, you survived
and grew out of it.
A little bit.
;-)
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jonnyblitz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 05:20 PM
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19. what a twink. nt
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Crazy Guggenheim Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 05:22 PM
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20. I voted other. What would I think of myself? "You are great!"
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 05:23 PM
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21. I'd say........
Get ready, sweetie, it's going to be a bumpy ride......




:shrug:
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LSdemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 05:27 PM
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22. Ahh, going way back to 2002
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nickgutierrez Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 05:30 PM
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23. I'm 21 now.
:)
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philosophie_en_rose Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 05:31 PM
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24. Why aren't you making me some money, slacker?
How about a summer job? What about those pints of blood you never sold? The lotto tickets you never bought? Those wet t-shirt contests you walked past?

You knew that Bush was screwing the country over! Why didn't you start stockpiling duct tape and stuffing your mattress with money, when you could.

;)

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Patiod Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 06:16 PM
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26. Man, you're hot - stop eating NOW, and start saving money!
Was much thinner with no work at all back then!

Also, two words:
Compounding interest.

Okay, three more:
Buy some goddamned real estate!!!! And don't buy dot.coms!!!!
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 06:16 PM
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27. I'd tell that idiot not to do drugs and don't make bad
choices in men. I'd also have to tell myself to quit dressing like a wh*re.
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miss_kitty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 06:19 PM
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28. Total dumbass time waster
x(
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The2ndWheel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 08:49 PM
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36. Always did hate time
Evil human construct.

If I knew in 1999, what I know today, I'd still be a pessimist. But a pessimist that actually paid attention and gave a damn a few years earlier.
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livetohike Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 06:29 PM
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29. 1973. I would tell myself to keep the stars in my eyes
and don't give up my Idealism :-).
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Gregorian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 09:29 PM
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45. Wow. Same here.
Edited on Mon Sep-26-05 09:33 PM by Gregorian
A smart Democrat kid. I got punched in the nose by society. I'm just about 50, and almost coming back to my senses.

Edit- Actually, I didn't give up my idealism. Just today I was talking with my mom about how I refuse to lower my expectations. I feel that we can all live together. I am now beginning to realize that it's not true. I'm just beginning to lose my idealism. I spent many years hoping and expecting. Ah. Too much for one post. I'll leave it at that.
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livetohike Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-27-05 09:05 AM
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49. Hang in there
I'm glad this thread was started because I feel myself slipping and I don't want to become that person (age 53).

We need to do that which we can do and remember the words of MLK and Gandhi, JFK, RFK and others.

I like the phrase "Let there be peace on Earth and let it begin with me."
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Nikia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 06:29 PM
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30. I was much better then
I was full of hope and enthusiasm. I had a strong body and didn't worry so much what it looked like because I was strong and was so much more than my body anyway. I was happy most of the time and didn't worry so much. I was such an optimist because I was so naive. I was enjoying life at college, being intellectually challenged, praised by a number of people for a number of things regularly, and being surrounded by many friends. I saw my future as bright.
Now, six years later, I have severe anxiety and have developed an eating disorder. I have few friends. I have a job that I dislike because any idiot could do it and my work is not appreciated. I feel that I have done nothing worthwhile and am nothing worthwhile. My husband has also gone downhill on attitude since becoming unemployed over a year ago. I don't have much hope or enthusiasm. I see my future as bleak.
If I were myself then, I might be able to get myself out of this because I was so much stronger then, physically and mentally.
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YankeyMCC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 06:31 PM
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31. Nice enough guy
but no idea what he's in for and he's gotta find a clue about what he wants to accomplish with his life.
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Joey Liberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 06:43 PM
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32. I was a drunken idiot
But I had a pretty good sex life:)...........
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kid a Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 06:48 PM
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33. i'd drag his ass to the nearest bar . . . I was a number crunching nerd
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Telly Savalas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 08:23 PM
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34. "Mutherfucka! Get yourself a degree in accounting or something
marketable! I'm having a fuck of a time trying to find a job!"
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 08:53 PM
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39. lol! i would say that to me too
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RFKHumphreyObama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 08:27 PM
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35. My 21st year was only 3 years ago
I guess I would have told myself to be more focused on my ambition and to stay at university for longer
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 08:50 PM
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37. train to go to business school dearest
you cant change the world anyway
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 08:50 PM
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38. train to go to business school dearest
you cant change the world anyway
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LaraMN Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 08:55 PM
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40. I'd think I plucked my eyebrows waaaaay to thin!
among other things too numerous to list.:eyes:
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TheProphetess Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 08:56 PM
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41. Other - I wasn't an idiot but I was very naive
I'd let myself keep that innocence for awhile because it doesn't last long.
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WoodrowFan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 09:13 PM
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42. give me those f***ing knees NOW!
and that waistline, hand it over. (mutters) stupid kid.
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bleedingheart Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 09:14 PM
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43. I would say...Go to Washington DC...take the job with the
Navy...take it...it is your opportunity to run away!!!!!

although all worked out...I did eventually meet Mr. B ...
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Pale Blue Dot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 09:16 PM
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44. I'd punch myself in the face.
Then I'd throw myself in a car trunk, blindfolded, and drop myself in the middle of Connecticut. I'd kick myself in the ass, and shout "follow your dreams" as I drive off, laughing.
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raptor_rider Donating Member (517 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 09:38 PM
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46. "Kid you were an idiot.."
also what a washed out druggie!!

I've grown so much since then. Quit all drugs right after I turned 22, I had to. It was time to face reality and grow up!!
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IChing Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 09:45 PM
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47. IS THIS A TIME TRAVEL QUESTION?
OR A QUESTION OF AN AMBIGUITY OF EXISTENCE AND TIME

Would we be thinking of "yourself" in that time or in this time?

I think we would probably destroy each other or combined to form the greater self.

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Lydia Leftcoast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-26-05 09:48 PM
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48. I'd take my younger self aside and tell her how to avoid some of
the mistakes I've made. But she probably wouldn't listen.

On the whole, I'd consider my 21-year-old self to be naive and sheltered but itching to break loose.
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NaturalHigh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-27-05 09:07 AM
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50. The word "dork" comes to mind.
Oh yeah, and I would wonder why I was about to vote for Ross Perot next year (1992).
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motherearthdying Donating Member (12 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-27-05 09:14 AM
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51. Done with my BA and on to grad school
at least that's the plan. But I'm already thinking about changing majors my first semester. lol
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BlueIris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Sep-27-05 09:15 AM
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52. You! Are on EXACTLY the right path. But
when C. propositions you: RUN. Biggest mistake of your life. Fucks said life up but good in some permanent ways. He's evil in vernacular disguise. RUN. LIKE THE WIND. FAR AWAY. Don't look back.
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