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donheld Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-25-05 06:26 PM
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Say a little prayer for me or what ever it is you do
My company has desided to lay about 10% of it's staff off. I fear greatly that I may be one that gets cut. I don't know how I will handle it, but probably not great. So please think of me.
:scared: :scared: :scared: :scared: :scared: :scared: :scared:
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Mike03 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-25-05 06:31 PM
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1. So sorry
I have been through layoffs too... I will be thinking good thoughts fo your.
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bliss_eternal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-25-05 06:36 PM
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2. I'm so sorry, donheld!
I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers! You hang in there...

:hug:
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Metta Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-25-05 07:26 PM
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3. I can feel your insides are tied up in knots.
What I'd do: See yourself in the center of a perfectly formed and comfortable large circle. When you have that, fill it with violet flame. Deeply colored. Stay with it as needed and breathe normally.
That'll clean you up and balance you. Also help you sleep.
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donheld Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-25-05 07:28 PM
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4. I maybe worried too soon - but I get very worried
I wish I wasn't a worrier. It gets worse the older I get.
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Metta Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-25-05 07:40 PM
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9. Be a worrier. Let it out. Worries give you info. Your troubles begin
when you start looping. That's just crazy making. I suspect you're not a meditator. The stuff I gave you is killer for clearing and healing. If you want one or two more very simple things that'll help go to www.shambhudance.com. Meditations are on page two. There's an indepth explanation of the circle, fyi I recommend going over that and doing alternate nostril breathing which is at the top of the page. Start with the very first step and stay with that for awhile before proceeding, if you choose to proceed at all. That'll give you more room to breathe, focus your mind and replace all its spinning with a focus that links you directly to peace of mind.
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donheld Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-26-05 02:04 AM
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14. I was raised a bible beater. Meditation wasn't a strong suit
I still don't really know how to meditate.
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Metta Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-26-05 04:33 PM
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17. There's lots of good stuff in the Bible to chew on.
As for meditation, I use www.shambhudance.com. The meditations are on the second page. I recommend starting with the circle, part way down the page, then the hand on the heart hand meditation followed by alternate nostril breathing at the top of the page. They're simple and easy to follow. You'll get the hang of these in no time. They really take less time to do, once you understand what you're doing, than to read through them through. They'll bring focus, balance, calm and protection. Let me know if you want and I'll pass along a grounding page for you. That'll add a greater dimension to your peace of mind and focus.
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donheld Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-26-05 10:56 PM
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20. I left the bible beaters long ago
Maybe i'll try those meditations.
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Metta Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-27-05 08:28 AM
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22. I hope they haven't poisoned the well for you.
Lots of good stuff to chew on, as you know. Grist for the mill. I'm sure you can separate the holiness from the dogma. Hey, if you try the meditations, let me know. I'd be happy to validate and fine tune your results.
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Az Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-25-05 07:29 PM
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5. I hear ya
Last year the same message came through our company. On the day of the layoffs the word going around was that they would be done between 2 and 4. 4:45 rolled around and I was still there.

Then the HR guy walked in the office. I got called in. Bad day. The speach the manager tried to give was so disengenuous I had to tell him to stop.
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bliss_eternal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-25-05 07:38 PM
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7. Sorry to hear you went through this...
:hug:

It's never easy. Good for you for telling him to can the bullshit.

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UrbScotty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-25-05 07:29 PM
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6. Good thoughts coming your way!
:hug:
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Left Is Write Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-25-05 07:38 PM
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8. You got it.
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donheld Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-25-05 09:08 PM
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10. It's all very much appreciated
:toast:
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hickman1937 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-25-05 09:13 PM
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11. God, this just sucks.
A prayer tonight for you.
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Lavender Brown Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-25-05 09:17 PM
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12. Good luck!
I hope your fears will prove to be unfounded. :hug:
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RFKHumphreyObama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Oct-25-05 09:59 PM
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13. My thoughts, prayers and positive vibes are extended to you
Edited on Tue Oct-25-05 09:59 PM by socialdemocrat1981
Best of luck in your position of employment :hug:
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newyawker99 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-26-05 06:00 AM
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15. My thoughts are with you don.
:hug:
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In_The_Wind Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-26-05 06:03 AM
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16. I'll wish you good luck!
:thumbsup: May your job be part of the 90% that is spared the ax.
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GoddessOfGuinness Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-26-05 04:36 PM
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18. Sending positive cybervibes
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ohiosmith Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-26-05 04:41 PM
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19. Be proactive. Create a list of your accomplishments and arrange to
discuss them with your supervisor. Ask if your position is affected and if so, where else in the organization you would fit. If your job is eliminated and there are no other opportunities with the firm don't hesitate to negotiate an exit package including severance pay, extended medical coverage, and outplacement support.

Good luck.
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donheld Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Oct-26-05 10:57 PM
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21. Sadly my supervisor could be cut too
:scared: It's consolidation.
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