CottonBear, are you reading this?
I'd like to pick the brains of any of you DU lounge lizards who have experience with horses, because I could use some advice.
I'm contemplating going into a horse-share situation (which I've heard people refer to as "leasing" in the US - it's the same thing in the UK, but referred to as "sharing"). The animal in question is a 14.2 hands
dales pony, which despite the "pony" name would be considered (I think) a small horse in the States (I'm slightly under 5'3" tall so he's exactly the right size for me).
Flyn is a lovely little horse, 7 years old, very affectionate towards humans because his mother rejected him at birth and he was completely hand-raised. The yard he's in is only a couple of miles from my house, and I get on well with his owner. The price is right and for all intents and purposes he would be like my own horse. We have beautiful places on the moors to ride on, like this:
Sounds great, right? It
almost is except for a couple of things. First of all, when I took Flyn out for a "test-drive" the other day, despite being told he was fine on the roads, the first time a car came by he did a complete 180 degrees as if he planned to bolt back home. I pulled him up fairly sharply and he didn't do it again, but every other time a car came by he did a little sideways cat-jump. Once we got off the road onto the moor, he was fine for a while, energetic walk and nice brisk trot that he seemed happy to do for as long as I wanted it.
The other problem is, after being out about 45 minutes, Flyn began incessantly tossing his head. This worries me a lot. One of the stable girls said he does it because another woman who used to lease him rubbed his neck constantly as they rode and that he tosses his head to indicate he wants his neck rubbed. Whatever the reason, it didn't make for a pleasant ride after he started doing it.
Because we were out riding for nearly 2 hours, I'm wondering if the problem is that Flyn's back hurt. If so, obviously there might be an underlying problem that needs looking into.
My question to those of you who have experience with this is, would I be out of line asking Flyn's owner to allow me to have a vet come to check him out prior to entering into a sharing arrangement? I don't mind paying for the vet myself. I really, really like this horse and (money aside) I don't want to ride him if it's going to hurt him when I do.
I also don't want to offend his owner, but at the end of the day it's the welfare of the horse I'm more concerned about, even if I don't end up taking him on myself. If I don't someone else will, and if Flyn has a physical problem it will continue to manifest itself until it's looked at.
Bottom line: am I wrong in insisting Flyn be looked at by a vet before I agree to a share situation with him?