Yea! My ex g/f is dating agian. Oh, but it gets worse!

[Nailzberg]

He's nine years older than her (25 & 34), he's a former major league ballplayer, and he's married!!!
Only she doesn't know he's married.

Just makes you feel all happy inside.

I need a drink.
:cry::cry:

[GOPisEvil]

1. Yikes!!!

:beer: have several on me.

[demsrule4life]

2. You dont need a drink

go out and find yourself another girlfreind.

[E_Zapata]

8. In fact, there's a wife of a Major league ballplayer........

who may be free tonight........

[demsrule4life]

21. Damn right

:)

[THUNDER HANDS]

3. dude, why are you stressing over this

it's your ex. Forget about her.

[Nailzberg]

5. Because it sucks being replaced, even when you no longer care.

Especially when you've been replaced by a guy who hit .105 in his last season.

[THUNDER HANDS]

6. she didn't replace you

You're not a VCR.

She moved on. Now it's time for you to do the same.

[Az]

18. Ok

First of all you weren't replaced. Second you don't no longer care. People invest time and emotions in people. When the relationship finds itself torn apart by a variety of issues it does not mean you suddenly get all that emotional input back. You are wounded.

Of course just like a physical wound picking at the scab will make it so it never heals. So stop picking at it. Let it heal. And you will get on with your life.

[regnaD kciN]

33. She's with Mario Mendoza?????

;-)

[Nailzberg]

34. No. Not Mario Mendoza.

Where'd that one come from?

[Loonman]

4. Look on the bright side

His wife could (wink, wink - nudge, nudge) accidentally find out.

[RetroLounge]

7. Or you could start dating his wife

eom

[Faygo Kid]

9. You are lucky

If that's what she wants, you are a very lucky man. Give it time; keep your perspective. When it's over, it's over. Sorry, but that's the voice of experience speaking - both ways.

[felonious thunk]

10. Dude

If that's who you've been "replaced" with, count yourself lucky. It doesn't sound like this woman makes the best decisions. You are no doubt better off.

[Kusala]

11. There's a reason why they are "ex"

[Nailzberg]

12. She's young and immature, that's why she's an ex

Still hate to see her get hurt or used by this married guy who picked her up at her store.

Can't let it bother me though. She'll learn a lesson the hard way, sometime it's the only way the young and immature grow up.

But for today, I want to feel upset. I'm entitled to a few hours of misery.

[Champion Jack]

14. Go for the wife

When she dumps joe baseball to marry you she'll clean up on the alimony.
Home run.

[Nailzberg]

17. Best advice I've heard yet!

[neuvocat]

15. When you're through being upset,

buy the guy a thank-you card. Don't get too specific as to why. Make him wonder. Really, really wonder.

[Gato Moteado]

13. which former major leaguer?

inquiring minds and all.

[Nailzberg]

16. Would you understand if I didn't tell.

I don't want to interfere in this. The mistake is her's to make, and I'm not gonna interfere, or tell her about him. Since she doesn't know he's married, and his wife probably doesn't know he's messing around, I'm going to keep out of it.

If she would google the name of guys that pick her up at the mall, she'd know he was married, but she's niave.
But I'm not gonna put any of the names involved out to public, it's not my place to do so.

[THUNDER HANDS]

19. can you say the team he played for

If he's a Mets player, I say let them be. If he's a Yankee, key his car. :D

[Nailzberg]

20. I don't want to give anything that could ID him.

He obviously resides in the Chicago area now, which you could have figured cause I live here.
If anyone wanted to, they could google any info I gave and figure it out. So I'm not gonna do it. Maybe after his wife finds out and he dumps my ex on her ass, then I 'll tell y'all.

[THUNDER HANDS]

22. I know who it is

It's that latin hearthrob... CHICO ESQUELA



"Beisbol has been berry berry good to me."

[Nailzberg]

23. Here he is...

Ronny Woo Woo.

Of course it's not WooWoo.
I said I ain't telling.

[DoNotRefill]

24. Dood, you should be HAPPY!!!!

Let her move on, while you move on.

[Nailzberg]

25. I am moving on. I'm just venting cause she deserves better

This guy is lying to her, his wife, and his kids.
I just wish she wasn't in the middle of this, cause it will hurt her in the end.
Venting here at DU allows me to wash my hands of this. It's not my place to warn her, or offer my advice. These are her choices and only she has to live with them. I hope it works out for her, but I just don't see that happening.
I needed to get this off my chest here, so I don't go calling her or sending the guy's wife a e-mail or something. I need a release, and I'm leaving it in the loungue.
Don't worry about me freaking out or going out on a bender. I'm moving on, and praying for her well-being.

[Nailzberg]

26. Woo-Hoo! Update, I'm cheering up!

She called me after work tonight, on her way home.
(No,we are not getting back together)


I SWING THE BIGGER BAT!

Steriods shrinks your junk, sucker!

[onebigbadwulf]

27. Sorry I don't think a married guy is a replacement

she is going to get used and dumped like yesterday's trash.


It's inevetible.

[Nailzberg]

28. Oh, I agree she's gonna get used, but my hands are tied.

It's a lesson she'll have to learn. I care about her, I don't want to see her get hurt, but I can't tell her how to live her life.

Now an unsigned letter to HIS wife... that's a different story.
(I wouldn't, but thinking about it will make it easy to sleep tonight)

[luckyluke]

29. What's wrong with dating Agian?

You must be some kind of racist. There's nothing wrong with dating an Agian. Why, all those Agians came here from Agia, just like all of us, searching for the land of opportunity.

-ll

[Nailzberg]

30. I was in distress when I wrote that.

By the time I had noticed, I could no longer change the subject heading.

[sujan]

31. how the hell did you get the conclusion

that he's a racist?

Absurd.

[Nailzberg]

32. I was being made fun of for misspelling "again".

My eyes are tired, it took me a bit to figure it out, too.