How long have you gone without sex?

[yurbud]

After puberty and including what you do by yourself.

I went through a religious phase and did absolutely NOTHING for about six years.

I'm also wondering if women go a lot longer than men.

[KitchenWitch]

1. I am guessing this gets locked quickly!

just sayin'

[Radio_Lady]

2. Only for your information and discussion, maybe about six months.

During pregnancy with my second child, while my marriage was going on the rocks.

I made up for it later... um, if you know what I mean.

[bertha katzenengel]

13. RL, I'm not sure what you mean.

Could you clarify? :evilgrin:

:toast: here's to healthy libidos.

[Radio_Lady]

18. From month 3 of pregnancy to month 9, there was no ....

co-habitation. I think my ex-husband was fooling around with at least two other women that I know of.

Then we split and finally divorced. During the following year and a half, I received a good deal more sexual attention than I could have imagined in my fondest dreams.

But that was about thirty-six years ago, and it's just a dim memory.

Does that answer your question?

[bertha katzenengel]

46. oh, dear...

I was kidding, RL. No offense meant. :(

[Fox Mulder]

3. About 12 hours.

...

I've actually gone without actual sex for almost five years now...and it's hell. I'm about ready to explode... The rest...well...I'm not sayin'.

[Radio_Lady]

4. OK, Fox Mulder, we get the message! You're a hottie!

[ForrestGump]

5. Maybe six years...maybe a bit more

Lost count.

And it might depend on how you define 'sex.'

It's like riding a bike, I hope, but with a more comfortable seat.

[ForrestGump]

7. Oh..."including what you do by yourself"? That'd be six

minutes. :D

[Maddy McCall]

45. You? Sex God that you are?

No effin' way do I believe that you've gone six years. No way.

My record is three years, and that was during a time when I was utterly disgusted with myself. Six years? No way.

[ForrestGump]

52. Way, dude

I'm possibly a too-well-behaved sex god. :-)

It is not a source of great happiness, to say the least. But it does, however, prove that I have patience and self-control, and they'll be handy when I start up again. :D

:hug:

[Crazy Guggenheim]

6. With my right hand or left?

:popcorn: :popcorn:

[Floogeldy]

8. And you want to know this because, . . . .?

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[yurbud]

53. have you ever felt like you want it a lot more or a lot less than others?

Sometimes I think I have sex on the brain 24/7 like some kind of obsession, then I talk to other guys and they're WORSE.

I guess I'm mainly interested in how long women go without, alone as well as with someone else.

[Floogeldy]

63. I'm insatiable

:blush:

[bertha katzenengel]

9. 14 years

do i win a prize? :(

[Oeditpus Rex]

10. Yeah... like I'd answer this truthfully

so all the wimmen can go "Gawd, he must be a LEW-zarr!"

[Heidi]

14. Don't you know how to use spellcheck,

A-C-C-O-R-D-I-A-N-I-S-T? :evilgrin:

[Oeditpus Rex]

16. SEE??

:cry:

[Heidi]

17. Just playin' with ya, OR.

You've got one of the hottest wrists I've ever seen. :hug: :loveya:

[Oeditpus Rex]

19. And I got another one just like it

Only backwards.

[Heidi]

21. Smarty pants. I think your assistance is needed

in Crazy's "Getting down" thread. :evilgrin:

[ForrestGump]

15. "Gawd he must be microbially safe"

is more like it. :D

Look on the bright side...

[NMMNG]

22. Nuh-uh

I just took matters into my own hands on Monday. There's nothing loser-ish about that. :shrug:


Love yourself and be proud!

[Oeditpus Rex]

23. Oh... were we countin' that?

I musta misunderstood the question. :crazy:



And that smilie o' yours looks like a personal copy machine with a messed-up collater. :shrug:

[NMMNG]

24. As I understood it

It read (in part): After puberty and including what you do by yourself.

That sounds like spanking the monkey/petting the kitty if you ask me.

[Oeditpus Rex]

25. Well, in that case...

I... uh...



:dilemma:





...am apparently rather repressed. :blush:

[NMMNG]

26. Well then,

Get in there and unrepress yourself!

[Oeditpus Rex]

27. Maybe later

First, I need inspiration...

[NMMNG]

28. Do I have to do *everything* around here?

[Oeditpus Rex]

29. I liked your PM a lot better

:evilgrin:

[NMMNG]

30. Aye caramba

Take, take, take. Don't you have any imagination?
















Check your PM. :eyes:

[Oeditpus Rex]

31. Of course not

I'm a heterosexual male. :cry:

[NMMNG]

33. Yeah, I've heard that about your type

As a matter of fact, I just heard it last night on a repeat episode of Law and Order SVU. It noted how women don't typically use porn when getting off, they fantasize. (The implication being that men generally use porn).


Now stop crying and enjoy the pic I sent you. :hug:

[Oeditpus Rex]

34. Oh, I am

And bless you. :hug:

[NMMNG]

35. Glad to hear it

[WCGreen]

36. Here kitty kitty....

[yurbud]

thank you for the relevant and disturbing smiley

[MrSlayer]

11. 2 days and I start to get antsy.

But I have gone as long as 4 days.

[HEyHEY]

12. Nine days

Man that tenth day was a hell of day

[Omphaloskepsis]

20. well, from puberty to intercourse about 5 years.

After that my most substantial string of pure self-love lasted for three years. I was also a vegan during that time. The two things might be related, I'm not sure.

[In_The_Wind]

32. Gee, I don't really remember ...

But ir seemed like forever at the time!

[purr]

37. 2 months tops...

We have a very good sex life and I wasnt feeling too perky then. It was driving poor hubby NUTS!!

[LeftyMom]

38. 5 months now.

Not fun. x(

[Politically_Wrong]

39. 17 years...

...too long...

[yurbud]

59. Wow--a record so far. Someone out there should help you out.

[Politically_Wrong]

61. Well...I don't think it's a record...I'm 17 years old...

[yurbud]

62. oh. Start counting from puberty. Before that it's in weird territory

[Ellen Forradalom]

40. The intervals

are usually counted in the months. Too long for me. I am too young to die.

[supernova]

41. More than you want to know

but then again, while I am straight, relationships just aren't my forte. *sigh* Men are mostly puzzling to me, rather than rewarding.

[BlueIris]

49. Same here.

Lets just say, it's a nice, round number of units of time, filled with many moons. Many.

[Deja Q]

42. Longest stretch to date is over 4 years.

I expect I'll never do it again.

[William Bloode]

43. Other than being in prison for a few years,

Maybe a week if i was seriously sick with the flu or something simliar. Of course in prison i had plenty of self sex, kinda the dull point of my life lol!

[yurbud]

57. you must have been in the nice prison--no ass rape

[Callalily]

44. It's pretty sad

when smilies get more than we do.

[LaraMN]

47. In the last 10 years, 6-8 weeks; what I was told wait after giving birth.

I waited the full length of time they told me to. I wasn't gonna mess with that region before I was certain I was healed up!:scared:

[yurbud]

60. Mad TV did a skit on a guy hot to do his wife right after childbirth

He couldn't figure out why she wasn't interested.

[swimboy]

48. Entire duration of Lent my freshman year

yes, including the fine print! Now I think that was a stupid thing to do, wasn't it?

[bif]

50. Hours.

[GOPisEvil]

51. Hahahaha...I'm a sexual camel.

:eyes:

[yurbud]

55. In Texas? Isn't there a risk of Deliverance type sex there?

[Taverner]

56. Dude! Get thee to a gutterslut!

:evilgrin:

[REDKING]

54. HOW LONG?

IF I EVER HAVE SEX AGAIN I'M GONNA NEED A MAP.

[Burma Jones]

58. About a week

I had Pneumonia and was quite ill...

[La Lioness Priyanka]

64. 6 months (this year...i took a sabbatical)

otherwise for the rest of my life after 17...2 weeks at most

[Nikia]

65. I don't think I did things to my self frequently in early pubery

If you define puberty for women by menstration, that was when I was 11. Although I did experiment with my body, I did not have much of a sex drive until I was 15 1/2 at which point I was probably going no more than a week.
As far as with a partner, about 1 1/2 years once I became sexually active. Once I met my husband, 3 weeks when were apart during one of the college breaks.

[Trigger Hippie]

66. Years and Years and Years.

:(

[alkaline9]

67. with myself 48 hours tops...

with a partner.... lets just say i struggle to get by from sunday to friday while my g/f is away at school.... its just about the hardest damn thing ever!

I think I went about 2 months without a partner once when I had my heart broken at age 21... never again!