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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 04:07 PM Original message |
My ex, who dumped me bad, e-mailed me about her breakup. Wants sympathy. |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 04:09 PM Response to Original message |
1. you're a much better person than me |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 04:21 PM Response to Reply #1 |
9. I'm still considering that. |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 04:12 PM Response to Original message |
2. Yikes! |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 04:12 PM Response to Original message |
3. It would depend on my mood |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 04:14 PM Response to Original message |
4. Tell her you don't want |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 04:14 PM Response to Original message |
5. I'd tell her she had it coming and there's probably more in store for her. |
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Radical Activist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 04:14 PM Response to Original message |
6. Just send her the lyrics to Instant Karma. |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 04:14 PM Response to Original message |
7. Don't give it to her. |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 04:37 PM Response to Reply #7 |
19. This is the same woman who told me that she only married me because she... |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 04:42 PM Response to Reply #19 |
24. Only reason to hold back, if it applies, |
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Auntie Bush (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-09-06 10:59 PM Response to Reply #19 |
84. Now that's the spirit. Tell her NEVER EVER contact you again even if |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 04:19 PM Response to Original message |
8. You have good self control, mav. |
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democracyindanger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 04:22 PM Response to Original message |
10. You still have the old emails from her? |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 04:24 PM Response to Reply #10 |
11. Exactly. She should suck it up and be a woman about it. |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 04:28 PM Response to Reply #10 |
15. I havent replied to her e-mails yet. And I may not. |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 04:42 PM Response to Reply #15 |
23. SHE LIVES ON YOUR BLOCK! 9 yrs after the divorce? |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-09-06 10:52 PM Response to Reply #23 |
81. Ohh. Good call! |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-09-06 01:54 PM Response to Reply #15 |
74. If I were in your shoes, I wouldn't reply to her emails, |
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Kali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 06:00 PM Response to Reply #10 |
41. that was my thought - hit reply and send those old ones right back |
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Oeditpus Rex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 04:25 PM Response to Original message |
12. E-mail her a link to this thread |
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Daisy Adair (128 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 04:28 PM Response to Reply #12 |
14. EEK. And open up the chance that she'd register unbeknownst to him |
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Gold Metal Flake (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 04:27 PM Response to Original message |
13. Man, she treated you like shit. |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 04:29 PM Response to Original message |
16. I know it's hard, but--leave it alone. |
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chookie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 07:46 PM Response to Reply #16 |
51. I agree -- be noble. |
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Callalily (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 04:30 PM Response to Original message |
17. ALWAYS take the |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 04:39 PM Response to Reply #17 |
20. Oh yes it will. n/t |
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Sanity Claws (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 04:33 PM Response to Original message |
18. Ignore her |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 05:59 PM Response to Reply #18 |
40. That'd be my advice. Ignore her completely. It'll bug her most. |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 04:39 PM Response to Original message |
21. why don't you block her email? |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 04:41 PM Response to Reply #21 |
22. We have been "friendly" the past 5 years or so, for the kids sake. |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 04:44 PM Response to Reply #22 |
25. yikes how old are the kids? |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 05:56 PM Response to Reply #25 |
37. Kids are 24, 20 and 15. |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 08:07 PM Response to Reply #25 |
57. pitohui, I wondered about you for a while because of your , um, |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 05:44 PM Response to Reply #21 |
32. She's never harrassed me. And it was coincidently she moved here. |
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EstimatedProphet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 06:42 PM Response to Reply #32 |
46. That makes a lot of sense |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 10:48 PM Response to Reply #32 |
65. yeah right coincidence |
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Ikonoklast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 04:46 PM Response to Original message |
26. Sounds like that she is looking to go back |
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CaliforniaPeggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 04:47 PM Response to Original message |
27. I think you'd do well to stay the heck away from her...... |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 04:48 PM Response to Original message |
28. Change your e-mail, and tell the kids that you do not want |
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WritingIsMyReligion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 04:50 PM Response to Original message |
29. It must be tempting to be cruel. |
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khashka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 04:56 PM Response to Original message |
30. I'd say STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM HER |
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XanaDUer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 05:17 PM Response to Original message |
31. Maveric, you sound like a nice and decent person |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 05:47 PM Response to Original message |
33. LOL! Tell the immature bitch to suck it up!! |
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Mutley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 05:49 PM Response to Original message |
34. I can see how it's tempting. |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 05:53 PM Response to Reply #34 |
35. I wont rub her nose in it, but if she calls or comes over, I'll be blunt. |
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Mutley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 05:58 PM Response to Reply #35 |
38. Good plan. |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 05:58 PM Response to Reply #35 |
39. Wise approach |
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Karenina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 07:30 PM Response to Reply #35 |
47. Yo, Mav... |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-09-06 01:59 PM Response to Reply #35 |
75. That's a GREAT response. |
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Guava Jelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 05:55 PM Response to Original message |
36. one word Kharma |
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ET Awful (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 06:08 PM Response to Original message |
42. I say send her this with my regards . . . |
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EstimatedProphet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 06:26 PM Response to Original message |
43. Why not let her have it? |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 06:34 PM Response to Original message |
44. You are welcome to use this |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 06:36 PM Response to Reply #44 |
45. LOL!! Love it! |
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fudge stripe cookays (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 07:53 PM Response to Reply #44 |
54. . |
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ContraBass Black (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 07:33 PM Response to Original message |
48. Are you going to take this as a closure point and wash your hands of her? |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 07:40 PM Response to Reply #48 |
49. Yes! n/t |
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ContraBass Black (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-09-06 10:19 AM Response to Reply #49 |
69. Congratulations, friend. |
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Bullwinkle925 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 07:46 PM Response to Original message |
50. I'm sorry maveric - but my first thought was............. |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 09:03 PM Response to Reply #50 |
61. I'm not letting her torment me. |
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Bullwinkle925 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-09-06 11:43 PM Response to Reply #61 |
86. Good on you. Life is really way too short to be used up by being |
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RevCheesehead (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 07:49 PM Response to Original message |
52. Put a spam block on her e-mail |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 07:50 PM Response to Original message |
53. Piss on her! |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-09-06 02:02 PM Response to Reply #53 |
76. I'm glad you did break it off with him. |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 07:56 PM Response to Original message |
55. It's definitively time |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 09:07 PM Response to Reply #55 |
62. I'm fine! I have no real emotional attachments to her. |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 08:00 PM Response to Original message |
56. Don't throw it in her face. Just don't reply. Ignore her. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 08:26 PM Response to Original message |
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Systematic Chaos (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 08:33 PM Response to Original message |
59. She sounds like so many women I knew before I found a good one. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 09:00 PM Response to Original message |
60. people make mistakes....and i have noticed abusive, lying drunks |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 09:09 PM Response to Reply #60 |
63. No Way! |
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GaYellowDawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 09:34 PM Response to Original message |
64. If it was me... |
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JI7 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 10:56 PM Response to Original message |
66. she seems like a very selfish person |
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struggle4progress (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 11:19 PM Response to Original message |
67. I'd avoid this completely. But if she should happen to actually call .. |
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kedrys (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-08-06 11:36 PM Response to Original message |
68. Take a deep breath and put your game face on |
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newportdadde (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-09-06 10:50 AM Response to Original message |
70. She lives on your block again after 9 years????? Your just getting used. |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-09-06 10:54 PM Response to Reply #70 |
82. She's lived there for 6, 1/2 years. |
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Nicholas D Wolfwood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-09-06 11:24 AM Response to Original message |
71. I see your fate in my future. |
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bertha katzenengel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-09-06 11:45 AM Response to Original message |
72. God, Maveric. |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-09-06 10:58 PM Response to Reply #72 |
83. She's got serious psyche issues that kick in every now and then. |
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Rambis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-09-06 12:24 PM Response to Original message |
73. Schaudenfruede! |
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Race4Peace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-09-06 10:43 PM Response to Original message |
77. "Frankly, my dear, I don't give a damn." |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-09-06 10:49 PM Response to Original message |
78. People Grow A Lot In 9 Years. I've always found it, as a rule of thumb, |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-09-06 10:51 PM Response to Reply #78 |
80. Thank you for saying that. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-09-06 10:50 PM Response to Original message |
79. Tell her to leave you alone |
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NNadir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-09-06 11:10 PM Response to Original message |
85. Keep your dignity. |
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