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Shell Beau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 02:09 PM
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Why does my husband call me to ask what's for supper?
It is just past noon, I don't have a clue what I'm eating for supper!!!
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kick-ass-bob Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 02:10 PM
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1. I dunno, but
you better damn well have it on the table when he gets there!!!!!





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Shell Beau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 02:11 PM
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3. Haha!!
Damn straight! Yeah right!
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Texasgal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 02:11 PM
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2. Men, Men, Men
*shakes head*

If they don't have a schedule, they wouldn't know what to do!! :P
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Shell Beau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 02:11 PM
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4. It's all about food!
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kick-ass-bob Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 02:12 PM
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6. No it's not. (edited)
Edited on Fri Jan-27-06 02:13 PM by kick-ass-bob
There is something else....

:evilgrin:

And you better damn well let him have that whenever he wants too!!!
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Shell Beau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 02:13 PM
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And food comes second!
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Shell Beau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 02:14 PM
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10. He gets it when I say so! That is how it works in my household!
:o
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kick-ass-bob Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 02:12 PM
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5. What am I supposed to be doing now?
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jobycom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 02:13 PM
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7. I don't know, but my wife used to do that to me all the time.
I told her I'd figure out what it was when I made it!
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Shell Beau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 02:13 PM
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8. So you cook the supper? I wish my husband did too!
He's in charge of the grill!
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jobycom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 02:22 PM
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21. Had to. For the safety of all involved.
Didn't want her preparing food OR playing with the stove. She makes a heck of a lot more money than me, so it seemed fair.

Since we've separated, she's eaten out almost every night, except when she opens cans of soup or eats dry cereal (according to my oldest daughter, who has gained considerable weight). The couple of times I've viewed her pantry since I moved out, it has had the basic selections of a vending machine.

She can make money, but she can't cook!
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Rowdyboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 02:14 PM
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9. Its something to look forward to.....
Like I'm already anticipating firing up the grill tonight as I sit here eating a slice of ham and asparagus quiche. Good as it is, it can't compete with tequila-lime chicken, grilled acorn squash and pineapple.

What can I say? Men are men..... :shrug:
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Shell Beau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 02:15 PM
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11. Well I don't cook on Friday's! We either go out to eat, or he
Edited on Fri Jan-27-06 02:16 PM by Shell Beau
will grill something, so maybe I should call him back and ask HIM what's for supper! :P
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WolverineDG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 04:15 PM
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48. call him back
and tell him you're making reservations. ;)

dg
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azmouse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 02:17 PM
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13. That sounds delicious!
What time is dinner? LOL
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Rowdyboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 02:33 PM
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29. 8ish......
Come early and we'll do it right. We'll even get the guest room ready!

I've never grilled acorn squash before but how can you screw up with a grill, olive oil, and rosemary.
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Patiod Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 02:16 PM
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12. Maybe he doesn't want to have the same thing for lunch
My SO is unemployed right now, so he's been handling dinner duties. He'll call and ask what I want, and I'll say "anything but X (whatever i had for lunch)."
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Shell Beau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 02:17 PM
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14. That sounds nice!! Maybe I'll tell my husband to start calling
me and asking what I want for supper!! :P
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XNASA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 02:20 PM
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15. Maybe it's some kind of code?
:shrug:
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Shell Beau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 02:21 PM
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17. My brain hurts already; I don't want to interperet a code!
:silly:
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azmouse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 02:20 PM
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16. I tell hubby the dinner menu before he leaves for work.
But he still calls me around noon just to talk for a few minutes. In fact, I'm waiting for the phone
to ring any minute now!
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SOteric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 02:21 PM
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18. Probably because
he feels a need to connect and isn't creative enough to come up with anything else to say.
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DS1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 02:22 PM
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19. No, it's to decide whether he needs to go out to the local Hooters
Edited on Fri Jan-27-06 02:22 PM by DS1
and get a real meal for a change



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Shell Beau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 02:26 PM
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24. I'll have you know that I am a DAMN good cook!
:P
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DS1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 02:28 PM
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26. Yes, but do you wear hot pants and a short white shirt while
delivering the dinner?

It's all about delivery.
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Shell Beau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 02:47 PM
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32. The delivery is right on!!

Similar to that and might I add, I look like that in them too! :rofl:
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DS1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 02:49 PM
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33. Make it a surprise
change in the kitchen :D
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SOteric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 02:29 PM
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27. Don't let it bother you, DS1
Edited on Fri Jan-27-06 02:44 PM by SOteric
is a damned big perv. .

(Which is pretty much just how I like him.)
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Shell Beau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 02:42 PM
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31. The pervy-er the better!
:7
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SOteric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 02:56 PM
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35. Yes,
I'm a lucky woman. :7
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Shell Beau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 03:11 PM
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36. As am I!!
:P

We're lucky!
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DS1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 05:34 PM
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53. heh
wait till you open that message in your Inbox




:D
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Heidi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 02:22 PM
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20. Two reasons:
A) He's used to having _you_ do the menu planning and cooking; or
B) He can't decide what _he's_ cooking for supper. (A list, taped to the front of the regrigerator, of all "ingredients" available in the household has been helpful for Call Me Wesley. It also serves as a reminder that I'm not the only member of the household with 1) a full-time career; 2) the ability to plan a meal.)
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 02:23 PM
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22. It's a way of checking in to say"hi, I'm looking forward to dinner with u"
Better than heading off mad and not wanting to come home. I live with a chronically depressed passive agressive person who is pissed at not being able to control the world. At times. Oh well. Have a good dinner together.
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Shell Beau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 02:27 PM
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25. Aw thanks!! And he is a sweetie, maybe he just wanted to hear my voice!
:)
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MsAnthropy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 02:24 PM
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23. He misses you! That is sooo sweet.
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newportdadde Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 02:33 PM
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28. I'm guilty of asking that just past noon.
Here is the deal, your husband knows that from this point in his day to when he falls asleep at night, dinner is about the most fun he has too look forward to.
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Shell Beau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 02:34 PM
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30. Hey now!! That isn't the best part he has to look forward to I tell ya!
:evilgrin:
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newportdadde Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 03:59 PM
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41. Depends on how good the dinner is...
;)
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RandomKoolzip Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 02:51 PM
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34. Sexism?
:shrug:
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MissMillie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 03:27 PM
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37. Maybe he's giving you the chance to ask him
what he'd like to have for dinner....

or maybe he's thinking of taking you out, but he wants to make sure you're not planning something nice at home.
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MrScorpio Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 03:33 PM
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38. Just say food
As if he's going to be eating something else.





Unless... Uh wait..., no I don't think that I will
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 03:34 PM
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39. Because he LOVES you and misses the sound of your voice and
can't think of anything else to say??? At least that's what I tell myself when MrG does that. :hi:
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Shell Beau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 03:35 PM
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40. Hehehe!! I think that's it too!!
:7 :hi:
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 04:01 PM
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42. Why does he tell you what HE is cooking for supper!
Hmmmmmmm?! :D
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LSK Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 04:04 PM
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43. 42 posts and you still havnt told us whats for dinner
I think you are avoiding the question! :P
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Shell Beau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 04:08 PM
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45. I did mention that I don't cook on Friday's!!
:) So either he is grilling or we are going out for dinner!! :9
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hedgehog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 04:07 PM
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44. 'cause Joey asked him if he wants to eat at his house tonight
and Joey's mom is making fish sticks and he wants to know what's cooking at home in case it's better.
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hedgehog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 04:10 PM
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46. Seriously, some people just like to know.
One of my kids is always asking me, and I can't answer because the stuff I cook doesn't have a name. I tell her we're having chicken glorp, or that glorp with biscuits. Then she wants to know what we're having with the glorp! I really make it up as I go along depending on what I feel like.
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xchrom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 04:13 PM
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47. thinking about a better offer?
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Metta Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 05:22 PM
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49. The call is a metaphor
for connecting with you around feeding the relationship. Everything between couples is that in some way or the other, more or less, as a rule, usually. Or so it seems. :hi:
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gollygee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 05:25 PM
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50. The same reason I always call to ask what my husband wants for dinner
?

I call every day and ask either what he wants for dinner or if what I have planned sounds OK. He always tells me he doesn't care so long as he has something to eat. Still, I call every day. I'm not sure why. I think it's just an excuse to call.
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Taverner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 05:27 PM
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51. You're eating curds and whey
Tell him that. Say it with a very serious inflection on the word "whey"
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Crazy Dave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-27-06 05:28 PM
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52. Say: "Whatever you bring home with you"
Chinese, Fast-food, Pizza
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